Question 1: You had a serious disagreement with some of your friends, but you’d like to get over it. To solve the problem do you first:

- Would you never talk about it and continue your way until it goes with time?

- Think about what happened for a long time but passively, without trying to find an efficient solution.

- Stay alone to analyze the situation (who was wrong and what are the different solutions), than you make your ideas down in a piece of paper, to discuss it later with your friend.

- You do not want to understand what happened you go ahead and tell your friends his flaws without a pity, even if you know it could hurt and break down your relationship.

Question 2: Now imagine you had the occasion to talk to your friend, and you tried hard to find a solution. However, he/she does not want to make any concession. You think:

He/She does not want to solve the problem. I will give up to!

Next time I will be ready to fight!

I have made my best, what else can I do?

Maybe I would have to try to solve the problem in another manner.

Question 3: In your daily conversation do you often focalize on:

Complains?

All of the above?

Daily facts, events, news and feelings?

Opinions about life and specially judgment about others?

Question 4: What do you think about this quote: "No one's volontary wicked"

This is a great truth, knowing behind every malicious fact there's a positive intention (even if it's just for it self) helps to understand people's intentions!

What! This is stupid! Pretending it's true would acquit the criminals and thiefs all over the word!

That's true for some cases only!

It couldn't be true cause the planet is filled with wicked people!

Question 5: While talking to someone, do you often:

Look down?

Look deeply at his face, and notice all his micro-comportements?

Concentrate on a part of the face only (eyes, nose, lips...)?

Avoid looking too long to the person?

Question 6: How often you try to understand peoples behaviors only by guessing?

Never it could makes misunderstanding! I prefer to ask the person directly!

Very often

Not a lot

Nearly all the time!

Question 7: One of your friends have a yeird comportement toward you during the latest couples of week. You come and he/she is leaving. He/she talks to you in a unusual manner. What do you think?

I just can't understand; i let it pass by!

He/She would probably have some problems these times, i might ask her!

I've always had a perfect comportement toward him/her, maybe it's time to change too!

What did i do?

Question 8: Your computer must be repaired, you would rather say:

"I wanna repair it as soon as possible"?

"I might repair it as soon as possible"?

"I should repair it as soon as possible"?

"I have repair it as soon as possible"?

Question 9: Would you rather say:

"His/her comportement makes me feel angry"?

"He makes me feel angry"?

"I always get angry because of him"?

"I get angry when someone have this comportement"?

Question 10: How much do you pay attention to the words you use while talking to anyone?

Only with people that i don't know or with my superiors (boss, teacher...)

I pay attention a lot about it!

Sometimes i really focus on every words before it comes out, but not always!

I never pay attention to the words i say until they go out of my mouth!