Question 1: You had a serious disagreement with some of your friends, but you’d like to get over it. To solve the problem do you first:

- You do not want to understand what happened you go ahead and tell your friends his flaws without a pity, even if you know it could hurt and break down your relationship.

- Stay alone to analyze the situation (who was wrong and what are the different solutions), than you make your ideas down in a piece of paper, to discuss it later with your friend.

- Think about what happened for a long time but passively, without trying to find an efficient solution.

- Would you never talk about it and continue your way until it goes with time?

Question 2: Now imagine you had the occasion to talk to your friend, and you tried hard to find a solution. However, he/she does not want to make any concession. You think:

He/She does not want to solve the problem. I will give up to!

I have made my best, what else can I do?

Next time I will be ready to fight!

Maybe I would have to try to solve the problem in another manner.

Question 3: In your daily conversation do you often focalize on:

Complains?

Daily facts, events, news and feelings?

Opinions about life and specially judgment about others?

All of the above?

Question 4: What do you think about this quote: "No one's volontary wicked"

What! This is stupid! Pretending it's true would acquit the criminals and thiefs all over the word!

This is a great truth, knowing behind every malicious fact there's a positive intention (even if it's just for it self) helps to understand people's intentions!

It couldn't be true cause the planet is filled with wicked people!

That's true for some cases only!

Question 5: While talking to someone, do you often:

Avoid looking too long to the person?

Look deeply at his face, and notice all his micro-comportements?

Concentrate on a part of the face only (eyes, nose, lips...)?

Look down?

Question 6: How often you try to understand peoples behaviors only by guessing?

Not a lot

Never it could makes misunderstanding! I prefer to ask the person directly!

Nearly all the time!

Very often

Question 7: One of your friends have a yeird comportement toward you during the latest couples of week. You come and he/she is leaving. He/she talks to you in a unusual manner. What do you think?

I've always had a perfect comportement toward him/her, maybe it's time to change too!

I just can't understand; i let it pass by!

What did i do?

He/She would probably have some problems these times, i might ask her!

Question 8: Your computer must be repaired, you would rather say:

"I might repair it as soon as possible"?

"I have repair it as soon as possible"?

"I should repair it as soon as possible"?

"I wanna repair it as soon as possible"?

Question 9: Would you rather say:

"He makes me feel angry"?

"His/her comportement makes me feel angry"?

"I get angry when someone have this comportement"?

"I always get angry because of him"?

Question 10: How much do you pay attention to the words you use while talking to anyone?

Sometimes i really focus on every words before it comes out, but not always!

I pay attention a lot about it!

Only with people that i don't know or with my superiors (boss, teacher...)

I never pay attention to the words i say until they go out of my mouth!