Are you on the right path?

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If you have any insecurities about what you are doing, this might help.

  • 1
    How do you feel when you wake up in the morning?
    Content, I slept well and now I'm ready for a new day.
    Uneasy, nervous, like something bad might happen.
    Depressed, I can't get out of bed and really just want to sleep all day.
    All right, tired but I'll probably shake that off around noon.
    Happy, excited. I can't wait to start the day.
  • 2
    Do you have plans for the future?
    I don't have a future. I stare into the bleak emptiness every morning and wish it would just end.
    I know what I want out of life but I don't like to plan things too much, I like to leave room for luck and fate.
    I'm just confused about what I want so I can't really plan anything.
    Oh yes, I've planned everything there is to plan!
    I'm going to have a cookie in about five minutes.
  • 3
    Have you ever stood up for something you really wanted?
    Yes, many times, even when my entire family was against it. It was tough but worth it.
    I tired to once or twice but it's really hard, specially when people you care about and respect are against you.
    Stand up? I don't want to stand up! Just leave me alone so I can cry under my covers until I fall asleep.
    I have, and I would again, if it was something I wanted with all my heart . No matter who or what is standing in my way.
    I've never wanted anything that controversial, I usually settle for cookies...or candy.
  • 4
    What is most important?
    Nothing is important, life is one big fake charade of unimportant crap that gets thrown at you, nothing matters.
    Life is important, everyone that makes your life special is and also the quest for whatever your dream is.
    Getting exactly the right job, husband / wife, house etc. so that you can live happily ever after.
    My family is important, and what people I care about think of me...
    Making enough money to get by
  • 5
    What is your dream?
    To win the lottery and never have to do anything ever again.
    Dreams are for people who care, watch me care.
    Oh my, well first there's the perfect job that I know is waiting for me, then there's prince charming/the woman of my dreams, three kids, a dog, a goldfish and a white picket fence to frame it in!
    My dream is to be accepted by those I love and be able to get by doing what I love
    to find my dream
  • 6
    Did/do you enjoy school?
    I loved it, straight A's baby!
    I hated every bleeding second of that inferno and I dropped out and I'm never going back.
    I skipped most of it and couldn't be bothered to do homework
    It was educating but also mind numbingly boring with tendencies to kill ones soul
    I dropped out and got a job, but now I'm not sure if I should go back
  • 7
    Do you like your life the way it is now?
    My life is good but there's always room for improvement.
    My life is going to be so perfect once I get everything I dream of. Soon.
    It's ok, I don't like change much so I don't mind if it stays like this.
    I hate my miserable life.
    I'm sort of bored and I have a lot of ideas but I have no clue where to start or if I can even make them materialize.
  • 8
    Do you have any special skills, like a great singing voice, good at crafts, good at math, a great cook etc?
    I have one or more great skills that I plan on using in the future.
    I can whistle witches dance by Paganini
    I'm great at planning things and getting things done and getting my way.
    I guess I'm good at something, I just don't quite know what.
    I have no skills other than to feel pain.
  • 9
    How did you feel the last time you applied for a job?
    Man I don't want to do this
    I hope I get it, this might be my big break.
    Why do I need a job, I could just stay home and watch TV
    Well I was particularly happy because I made sure I time-lined my resume and put a brand new head shot in with the application and also told them the story of my life so they would KNOW that I was the right one for the job!
    I don't apply for jobs, my parents do it for me, and then they make me go. I hate working.
  • 10
    Are you ready to grow up, be an adult and deal with the responsibility?
    Not really, I feel like I just got out of my teens or am still in my teens and the pressure is on. I'm not sure what to do really.
    I'll always be a child at heart but I know I'll manage through any situation and deal with them as they come.
    I don't care.
    Oh yes, I've learned to manage my finances, I've read up on child psychology and how to raise kids, I've taken cooking classes, self defence classes, everything...I'm soo ready.
    Ahhh, don't say that word near me. I'm going to be a kid forever and nothing my parents do can change that! They can kick me out but I'll just sleep in a tent!
  • 11
    Do you believe there are signs out there that point you to where you are supposed to go in life?
    I believe there are signs out there that point you in a right direction but you still make what you want out of your life. It's like when someone gives you direction or advise, you can take it or leave it.
    Oh yes and they all point in favor of my master plan of my life.
    That's a stupid question. Signs. I'm not a crazy person, now go away and let me watch TV in peace.
    If there are signs I most certainly can't see them through my tears.
    Sometimes I feel like something might be a sign but other times I doubt they're real. Maybe it's just cause I want them to be real.
  • 12
    How do you cope with tragic experiences?
    It's really hard to cope, I want to quit but there's always a spark of hope and I feel like the hope is weighing me down rather than helping me because it won't allow me to let go and that's hard.
    I watch sad movies, I eat junk food, I cry buckets and then I move on.
    I allow myself to revel in the dark emotions for a brief while and then I move on and try to see the good things in my life and appreciate what I have to get me through the bad times.
    I eat ice-cream, then I strategize. It's best to have a plan to counter sorrow.
    My whole life is a tragic experience, I hide and hope someday it will go away.
  • 13
    Do you have an idea of where you'll be in 10 years?
    I haven't really thought about it, I'm still figuring out this year really.
    I have dreams and plans but they could all be gone by tomorrow, I just try to plan tomorrow and live today.
    I don't like to think that far ahead.
    I hope the world will have self-destructed by then.
    Yes, that's the time I have given myself to find the perfect husband/wife, I only have 3 years to find the right job.
  • 14
    Do you believe that you have a purpose on this planet.
    I don't know, I sort of hope so but I really don't know.
    I don't think about that kind of stuff.
    Yes, but I'm special.
    Yes, I think everyone has a purpose.
  • 15
    How do you feel about your parents?
    My mom cooks me food, my dad buys me stuff. They both nag a lot.
    I love my parents but they worry too much about me. I think they fear that I'll never become anything.
    They don't understand me, they probably don't even like me.
    I love my parents, they think I'm a princess/prince and they would move the sun for me if I asked nicely!
    I love my parents, we have our differences but they try to support me even when they don't quite get what I'm doing.
  • 16
    Trouble and hardship is there...
    Just to torture me.
    So that you can overcome it.
    I don't know, seems useless to me.
    To make the good times worth it and to make you a stronger person. The more you go through to get where you are the better it will feel to get there.
  • 17
    Do you believe that beyond there being a purpose with life, every individual has their own destiny?
    I always felt like there was such a thing as destiny, I just haven't found mine.
    My future husband/wife and I are meant to be, it's destiny...also, that huge house with the pool is my destiny.
    I don't believe in anything anymore.
    My destiny is to get to finish this TV show in peace, quit bugging me!
    Yes, I think there's something great and big waiting out there for every person, for some it may be love, for others a specific job or something else entirely.
  • 18
    Did you know what you wanted to be as a kid?
    Can't remember, probably just something similar to the other kids.
    Yes but it was silly daydreams and I could never go back to believing in them.
    I had a clear idea of what I wanted but somehow I forgot that it was there, now I'm not sure that's what I want or even that I could do it.
    Yes, I knew I wanted to have a perfect life.
    Yes I was pretty sure of what I wanted, I've always been that way.
  • 19
    Do you talk about your dreams and plans with your family and friends?
    Not really, we like to talk about other stuff. Fun stuff.
    Sure, I talk about it a lot. I can't keep it in because I'm excited about what I'm doing and my future. My family and friends are very supportive for the most part and they also give me great ideas and tips.
    I don't really feel comfortable talking about it, my parents tend to get upset and just want me to get a job or go to school. I do talk to my best friend though.
    I don't have friends.
    All the time, I even printed out my 20 year plan for all of them so they could keep track.
  • 20
    When you go to work or school do you feel...
    Uninspired, bored, like I know I'm in the wrong place but also frustrated because I don't know where the right place is.
    Ambitious, motivated, full of fire...I will get straight A's/ a promotion I can feel it!
    I only go when they make me and it feels wretched.
    I feel good, I know I'm doing the right thing even though days vary and it's not always just fun and games. I feel like I'm in the right place.
    I try to avoid going there but when I eventually do it can swing either way. Sometimes it's cool cause I get to meet my friends and other times it's just so dreadfully boring.
  • 21
    Do you ever think of just picking up and leaving?
    Sometimes, but only when I feel adventurous, never for good because I like my life too much!
    All the time, like maybe traveling and refreshing my surroundings might give me a boost or an idea of what to do with my life.
    Sometimes, but then I remember that life is as cruel everywhere you go and it wouldn't make a difference.
    NEVER, I have no time to dilly dally...I need to stick with the program.
    Not really I'm comfy where I am.
  • 22
    Do you keep a diary?
    Sometimes, if I'm bored./ I don't really bother.
    I do when I have something to say, but mostly about how I'm feeling rather than what I do in the day.
    What's the point? Why would I want to document my miserable life?
    Yes, I like to document special events or just when I feel the need to get something off my chest.
    I document every detail of my life with Polaroid shots on the side for further explanation. One day they will want to make a movie of my life and I want the movie to be perfect!
  • 23
    What is your favorite of these settings:
    A bed of ice and snow under an immense lonely dark-blue sky.
    Arcade, lots of games to distract me.
    A far off country, maybe Thailand or a beach in Mexico.
    A hot new nightclub where all the important people are.
    Right here, with all the people I love and care about having fun.
  • 24
    Have you ever fallen in love?
    I'm not sure, I've liked someone a lot or been in a relationship that didn't work out.
    I'm waiting for Mr/Ms. right so it doesn't matter how I feel about anyone else if he/she isn't up to standard he/she's not the right one.
    I don't love. I'm empty.
    Nah, I like to keep it casual,
    Yes I have.
  • 25
    Do you have many friends?
    I have enough friends to keep me happy and am close to all of them.
    I have lots of buddies to hang out with.
    I don't really have many friends.
    I have no friends.
    Well, I have three best friends and then just people who 'know me' cause I'm like...celebrity.
  • 26
    If the choice is between having it your way and hurting someone badly or compromising a little bit what do you choose?
    It depends on the issue, sometimes it's necessary to hurt people but most the time I'd try to avoid it.
    Hmpf, I don't really care.
    I'd probably compromise, even if I didn't feel right about it.
    I never get my way anyway.
  • 27
    Do you feel trapped by the choices you make or do you believe you could change your mind whenever?
    I could change my mind whenever I want to, but I still have to be careful when I do so because if I keep changing my mind then I won't be very trustworthy.
    I can't change my mind, I can't even have a mind or my parents will kill me!
    CHANGE MY MIND! ARE YOU CRAZY! That would ruin everything, no, I have a great life ahead of me and a bright future...why would I want to ruin that?
    It's hard to change your mind after 6 years of studying a subject or after saying yes to a proposal etc. I might try but I guess I kind of do feel like decisions etch your path in stone.
    I don't make decisions.
  • 28
    Do you fear failure?
    AHHH! Don't ever mention failure to me, I have no time for failure, I can NOT fail.
    Yes, I'm scared that if I try I'll fail and then everyone who said I couldn't do it would have a party laughing it up.
    No, I know I could fail but I don't fear it, I just try as hard as I can and in the end that is what allows me to be proud of myself.
    Agh, I've already failed at life. What else is there to fail at?
    Failure is my friend, it's the reason I never have to do a thing. Even my family fears my failure.
  • 29
    Do you believe in yourself?
    I can do anything if I put my mind to it and work at it. I can be pretty spectacular although I do have my weaknesses.
    I'm fine. I get through school and work ok, people don't hate me. I'm not totally stupid or anything. I'm ok.
    I am a star. See me shine. Ain't I pretty? and so talented too.
    No, not at all.
    I know I have a lot to offer but I'm not sure how to let it out. I'm not very good at communicating with others and I never know where to start on my projects or something always gets in the way.
  • 30
    Do you feel like you have a sense of direction in life?
    I feel like I know I want something but I'm not sure what.
    I know where all this is going, I'm going to do what my parents tell me, I'll end up in a boring job like everyone else, I'll be fine and I'll marry some average normal girl/guy and have a couple of kids or something and grow old and well...eventually die. That's just how it goes.
    I already told you it's all planned out!
    Yeah, I have one or more things that I want to do and I'm working hard at achieving my goals.

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