How Is Your Date Life

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10 Questions - Developed by: Brett R. Williams Mr. Marriage - Developed on: - 10.161 taken - User Rating: 4 of 5.0 - 8 Votes

A relationship needs to spend at lease 30 minutes every day and a larger block of time every week (date night). Your date night evaluation will assist you to see how much time and the quality of time you spend together. There are several factors that play into how well that time is spent, frequency, variety, balance, intimacy, connection, sex, prep, time, events, and money. Test how you rate.

  • 1
    Frequency
    Frequency
    1 time per week (priority for the relationship).
    1 to 5 times per year (obligations: birthdays, anniversaries).
    2 or less times per month (hit and miss).
  • 2
    Variety
    Variety
    Mixing it up (sometimes dinner, sometimes lunch, sometimes a movie, and sometimes dancing or a play).
    Same thing - Different place (new restaurants, but same activity ex. eating out, or going to a movie).
    Same-Same (same activities movies and same locations).
  • 3
    Balance
    Balance
    Occasionally both getting needs met (however you have to make it all happen).
    Both of you trade off meeting each other's needs.
    Your dates meet only one person's needs.
  • 4
    Intimacy
    Intimacy
    Sharing feelings, hurts, needs, and frustrations.
    No sharing during your date.
    Conversation centres around day to day activities for the family and your day.
  • 5
    Connection
    Connection
    Majority of the date is spent looking at each other and holding hands.
    Sitting together or looking at each other, but not both.
    Minimum eye contact no physical contact
  • 6
    Sex
    Sex
    Over half the time there is no sexual activity before, during, or after your date.
    Over half the time there is an opportunity to for sex before, during or after your date.
    Most the time being together culminates in an intimate occasion.
  • 7
    Prep. time
    Prep. time
    Plans are made maybe an hour ahead.
    Anticipation and planning take place a day to a week ahead.
    No planning (where do you want to go?).
  • 8
    Time
    Time
    3 to 4 hours are spent together.
    1 to 2 hours are spent together.
    4 to 6 hours are spent together.
  • 9
    Events
    Events
    One activity (dinner).
    Three or more activities (drinks, dinner, and dancing).
    Two activities (dinner and window shopping).
  • 10
    Money
    Money
    Nice date $60 to $100 spent on all your events.
    Cheap date $10 to $20 for the event.
    Moderate date $20 to $50 for the entire date.

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