Is your partner cheating on you?

Developed by: Jennifer Baxt, LMHC, LMFT

This is for all the people that have an idea that their partner is cheating, but is just not sure.

Question 1: Does your partner walk out of the room when their phone rings?

	Most of the time, but there is always a good reason
	Every time and it is really annoying
	Never, my partner always talks around me
	Sometimes because of the noise level

Question 2: Has your partner been spending more time at the office?

	There are a few late nights but they always call
	Yeah, a lot of late nights at the office
	Nope, my partner is always home with me at night
	There are some late nights with no phone calls

Question 3: Does your partner take extra time getting ready in the morning?

	I notice a small effort in the morning
	Some mornings they take more time
	Nope, they stay in bed until the last minute
	Oh yeah, they take forever

Question 4: Has your partner joined a gym or started taking better care of their body?

	We are getting into shape together and feeling good about it.
	No way. I wish that they would join a gym!
	Yeah, they joined a gym and I have to pay the bill for the gym
	They are getting into shape and feeling good about themselves.

Question 5: Have you noticed any hairs or different smells in their car?

	I do not go into the car much, but when I do it smells like a car
	I found a hair and it was explained away.
	The car is so dirty it is hard to tell what is new or old.
	I wish there was a different smell, it smells nasty.

Question 6: Has your partner cheated on you in the past?

	Do not think so, but it is possible
	My partner has never cheated before
	Not sure, maybe
	All the time, I should know the signals by now

Question 7: Does your partner have a Myspace or Facebook page?

	Yeah, but they say it is for business.
	No way, my partner is never on the computer
	Yeah, they do and they have a lot of friends on there that I do not know
	I am not sure, I will have to check that out.

Question 8: Has there been any late nights or all nights lately?

	Yeah, they stay out all night on the weekends.
	Yeah, but they always have a great excuse
	No way, that would be really bad.
	Only when they are unable to drive home.

Question 9: Have you noticed any unknown charges on the credit card?

	There are some, but they are always explained when asked
	Yeah, I have and that is not good
	No way, we always tell each other about new charges.
	There are some, but they are careless

Question 10: Does your partner shower before coming to bed after being out late?

	Yeah all the time, should I be worried
	Sometimes, but I agree that they should shower because they stink.
	No, it is usually right to bed.
	They do, but tell me its because they are dirty.

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