Is your partner cheating on you?

  1. Developed by: Jennifer Baxt, LMHC, LMFT

This is for all the people that have an idea that their partner is cheating, but is just not sure.

Question 1: Does your partner walk out of the room when their phone rings?
Every time and it is really annoying
Most of the time, but there is always a good reason
Sometimes because of the noise level
Never, my partner always talks around me

Question 2: Has your partner been spending more time at the office?
Nope, my partner is always home with me at night
Yeah, a lot of late nights at the office
There are some late nights with no phone calls
There are a few late nights but they always call

Question 3: Does your partner take extra time getting ready in the morning?
I notice a small effort in the morning
Some mornings they take more time
Nope, they stay in bed until the last minute
Oh yeah, they take forever

Question 4: Has your partner joined a gym or started taking better care of their body?
We are getting into shape together and feeling good about it.
No way. I wish that they would join a gym!
They are getting into shape and feeling good about themselves.
Yeah, they joined a gym and I have to pay the bill for the gym

Question 5: Have you noticed any hairs or different smells in their car?
I found a hair and it was explained away.
I wish there was a different smell, it smells nasty.
I do not go into the car much, but when I do it smells like a car
The car is so dirty it is hard to tell what is new or old.

Question 6: Has your partner cheated on you in the past?
Not sure, maybe
Do not think so, but it is possible
My partner has never cheated before
All the time, I should know the signals by now

Question 7: Does your partner have a Myspace or Facebook page?
Yeah, but they say it is for business.
No way, my partner is never on the computer
I am not sure, I will have to check that out.
Yeah, they do and they have a lot of friends on there that I do not know

Question 8: Has there been any late nights or all nights lately?
Yeah, but they always have a great excuse
No way, that would be really bad.
Yeah, they stay out all night on the weekends.
Only when they are unable to drive home.

Question 9: Have you noticed any unknown charges on the credit card?
There are some, but they are always explained when asked
Yeah, I have and that is not good
There are some, but they are careless
No way, we always tell each other about new charges.

Question 10: Does your partner shower before coming to bed after being out late?
No, it is usually right to bed.
Yeah all the time, should I be worried
They do, but tell me its because they are dirty.
Sometimes, but I agree that they should shower because they stink.

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