Is It Just Dreaming?

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All of us have sexual fantasies about the people in our lives. Are you just dreaming about that fantasy person, or are you ready to put thoughts into action?

  • 1
    Are you currently in a monogamous relationship? Is there one and only one person in your life you're making love to?
    There are several people I see and make love with.
    Yes, just one, and I'm totally faithful.
    There is one main person but I see others occasionally
    I have no one special at this point.
  • 2
    Is there someone (or several) in your life you are currently flirting with besides your partner? Do you seek them out for conversations or make efforts to see them at work, etc.?
    There is one person who comes to mind
    There are several I'm flirting with
    No one
  • 3
    Is there currently someone in your life besides your partner who excites you sexually? For example, when you see them, does your breath quicken, do you feel flushed, do you find yourself becoming sexually aroused, even a little?
    No, no one
    There is one person
    There are several
  • 4
    Is there someone you know from work or socially who causes you to have sexual thoughts? Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be with them or fantasized about them?
    No one.
    I have explicit fantasies about a person.
    There is a person who makes me feel this way.
    I have fantasies about many people.
  • 5
    Would you ever take the step of going from sexual thoughts/fantasies about a person to actively entering a sexual relationship with them?
    I would never consider it.
    I have done so.
    If the right circumstances exist I might do it.
    I wouldn't do it because of the possible consequences.
  • 6
    What is your reason for being attracted to someone outside your relationship?
    I am not now, but have been in the past.
    My partner is boring--I need more excitement/stimulation.
    I am not and have never been.
    My partner doesn't meet my needs.
    The person is just more exciting than my lover.
  • 7
    What makes this person more desirable than your partner?
    No one is more desirable than my partner.
    He/she is more available than my partner.
    I don't know why, I just feel that way!
    He/she is better looking or physically more attractive than my partner.
    He/she is more caring or interested in me.
  • 8
    How far have you taken your flirting?
    I make sure I look good whenever I think I'll see this person.
    I try to make every effort I can to talk to or see this person.
    I've engaged in sexual banter, joking or innuendo with this person.
    I flirt with them openly and shamelessly and make sure they know I'm available.
    I haven't done anything outwardly.
  • 9
    Does the person you're flirting with know your feelings?
    They know, and it is possible we'll have a relationship.
    They know and we joke around, but would never get serious.
    They haven't given an indication.
    They know, but they don't respond.
    I know he/she doesn't.
  • 10
    How is your love relationship with your current partner?
    It is excellent. We are totally attuned. I couldn't be happier.
    I am looking for a way out.
    It is mismatched. He/she wants things I don't and vice versa.
    It is horrible. We don't make love and fight constantly.
    It is boring. We are in a rut and seldom do anything different.

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