Are you with the right partner?

Developed by: Rebecca Tripp

This is a checklist to help you determine whether or not to stay with your partner. It is also meant to indicate whether or not you have a relationship that is worth seeing through to the end. It has 50 True/False questions.

Question 1: Are you and your partner physically attracted to one another?

	True
	False

Question 2: Do you feel your partner is someone who you will likely find attractive long term?

	True
	False

Question 3: Do you and your partner feel compelled to be physically close to one another?

	True
	False

Question 4: Does your partner like to touch and be close approximately as often as you do?

	True
	False

Question 5: Does your partner meet your expectations regarding personal hygiene?

	True
	False

Question 6: Do you and your partner have basically compatible and/or flexible schedules?

	True
	False

Question 7: Do you feel that your partner's habits are generally tolerable?

	True
	False

Question 8: Does your partner manage his or her life in a way that is acceptable to your needs and standards?

	True
	False

Question 9: Does your partner live and/or desire to live in the same situation that you desire regarding your house, location and lifestyle?

	True
	False

Question 10: Are you and your partner able to spend enough time together to satisfy both people? And do your goals for the future definitely include spending adequate time with one another?

	True
	False

Question 11: Do you and your partner both want the same things regarding marriage and children?

	True
	False

Question 12: Do you and your partner share the same believes about monogamy?

	True
	False

Question 13: Do you feel that you satisfy and will be able to satisfy your partner's sexual needs long term?

	True
	False

Question 14: Does your partner satisfy your sexual needs, and do you think they will likely satisfy them long term?

	True
	False

Question 15: Do you and your partner generally like the same things regarding sex?

	True
	False

Question 16: Does your partner respect your boundaries?

	True
	False

Question 17: Are you and your partner both able to assert your needs?

	True
	False

Question 18: Is your partner willing to communicate with you about your needs?

	True
	False

Question 19: Do you feel that you and your partner are usually able to compromise when you disagree?

	True
	False

Question 20: Does your partner respect your opinions and beliefs?

	True
	False

Question 21: Do you and your partner generally agree on the topics that are extremely important to you?

	True
	False

Question 22: Would you say that both of you have the same moral outlook?

	True
	False

Question 23: Do you and your partner have stimulating and enjoyable conversations?

	True
	False

Question 24: Can you and your partner both easily tolerate a similar level of social activity?

	True
	False

Question 25: Do you have at least one common interest or activity that is very pleasurable and interesting for you both?

	True
	False

Question 26: Do you find your partner very interesting?

	True
	False

Question 27: Would you say that your personalities are complimentary?

	True
	False

Question 28: Would you say that you and your partner are on a similar intelligence level?

	True
	False

Question 29: Are you and your partner on a similar level of open-mindedness?

	True
	False

Question 30: Do both you and your partner both participate in conversations and activities enough so that both people are usually satisfied?

	True
	False

Question 31: Do you feel that your partner usually takes interest in what you have to say?

	True
	False

Question 32: Does your partner take interest in what you do?

	True
	False

Question 33: Are you willing and able to take extra time to make sure your partner feels loved and appreciated?

	True
	False

Question 34: Are both of you grateful for one another?

	True
	False

Question 35: Are both of your proud of one another?

	True
	False

Question 36: Are you confident in your relationship?

	True
	False

Question 37: Can you trust your partner?

	True
	False

Question 38: Can your partner trust you?

	True
	False

Question 39: Are you and your partner both capable of being independent?

	True
	False

Question 40: Does there seem to be equality in your relationship?

	True
	False

Question 41: Do you feel that you and your partner are as emotionally close as you want to be?

	True
	False

Question 42: Does your partner feel like someone you know very well?

	True
	False

Question 43: Do you think that you and your partner love and like one another?

	True
	False

Question 44: Do you feel good around your partner more often than you feel bad around them?

	True
	False

Question 45: Are you there for your partner when he or she needs you and is he or she there for you?

	True
	False

Question 46: Do you and your partner share a bond that you feel is more prominent or more meaningful than some of your other relationships?

	True
	False

Question 47: Can you see yourself with your partner in the distant future?

	True
	False

Question 48: Can you see any kind of love existing between you in the future?

	True
	False

Question 49: Does your relationship allow both people to have and/or live their most important dreams and goals?

	True
	False

Question 50: Do you feel that your spiritual or religious beliefs can coexist with your partner's beliefs without either person feeling unsatisfied?

	True
	False

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