Which friendship/relationship style are you?

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Feeling confused about your friends and partners? Take this quiz to outline a basic style of relationship patterns that will work for you.

  • 1
    Do you think of yourself as happy in your own skin, or do you need other people to reassure you of yourself and your virtue?
    I'm often highly insecure, I worry and fret over those I love best.
    I'm completely happy and confident with myself.
    I'm often insecure and I like to know that most people like and respect me.
    I understand and love myself, but I like to be loved, as well, and I can become jealous over those I love best.
  • 2
    What do you think of as love?
    Love is not to be taken lightly. You can love numerous people, but love cautiously, and when you do love someone, reassure them of that constantly.
    Letting people be free. Relationships are best trusting and open.
    Complete commitment. The person you love should be the ONLY one you love- they are your world.
    Trust, honesty, and friendship between everyone.
  • 3
    What is your romantic history like?
    I don't think about past relationships. My current relationship is all that matters to me.
    Pretty much normal- not too many, not too few.
    Very sparse. I love with caution, and do not give my heart quickly.
    I have had a lot of relationships, experimented, and had fun AND serious relationships at different points.
  • 4
    How do you see your future?
    Probably settling down, but I'm not planning too much.
    Travelling and seeing the world- but for now, I live in the moment!
    I'm not planning it right now, but love features...
    Settling down with a steady job and close friendships.
  • 5
    This question is more important than it might seem. Why are you taking this quiz?
    I'm scared I may have issues with love and commitment.
    Pure curiosity.
    To prove my love!
    My friendship situation is complicated and I want to figure out who and what I need.
  • 6
    Are you an honest person?
    I try not to expose too much about myself, but when I fall for someone, I pour my heart out.
    Yes, very.
    No, I'm secretive. I worry about what people may think about me.
    I try to be. I don't care what people think, but some situations warrant secrecy.
  • 7
    What does trust mean to you?
    Trust is an important part of human life and should only by withheld with good reason.
    I don't trust many people. However, if I fall for someone, I am often over-trusting.
    I find it hard to trust and rely on people and although I want to be trusted, I don't want it in a large degree.
    Trust should not often be given, but when given, given wholly.
  • 8
    Do you think of yourself as a reliable person?
    I don't want people to rely on me.
    Not really, but I want the people I love to rely on me anyway.
    Yes, but I don't want people to rely on me unless I'm relying on them.
    Yes, very.
  • 9
    Do you think you are a naïve person?
    No, but people tell me I am.
    Yes, but I'm trying to change that.
    Not at all.
  • 10
    What would most improve your relationships?
    More commitment.
    More honesty.
    More freedom.
    More understanding.
  • 11
    How do you feel when an important relationship ends?
    Heartbreaking in every way- but I can usually see it coming.
    I try to pretend that will never happen.
    Really upsetting, however, I know I'll get better if I try.
    Somewhat saddening, but I usually get over it relatively quickly.
  • 12
    What word describes your perfect relationship or friendship?
  • 13
    How do you feel about relationship styles other than monogamy?
    I think I would enjoy other relationship styles.
    Negative- but it wouldn't be disastrous.
    I suppose I could try it.
  • 14
    How would you react if a romantic partner had cheated on you?
    I would be really upset, but I would try and talk to them about it.
    I might be upset if that wasn't what we'd agreed to. However, I would respect that I couldn't satisfy all their needs. We'd talk it over and work out a solution.
    I would need time out to think about it. I might try and push them away. I might try to make them feel guilty.
    I would be broken inside- but I'd quickly forgive them, even if I was really hurting.
  • 15
    How devoted are you to your close friends and to your romantic partners?
    I'm very devoted, but I like to have a lot of close friendships and I don't want to rely on one person only.
    Very, but I can accept it if that's not the way it is. Still, it would upset me.
    I love them, respect them, and enjoy their company, but I wouldn't say I needed them.
    100%, and I expect them to be likewise.
  • 16
    Would you have a one-night-stand?
    I haven't ever considered it.
    Yes, if I really wanted to.
    Oh, no! Never.
    I doubt it, but maybe.
  • 17
    Which of these words best describes your personality?
  • 18
    Do you like regular change in your lifestyle?
    I have no preference either way.
    I hate the idea of it, but once it's happened, I'm often happier.
  • 19
    Are you good at making new friends?
    I hope so- I really love making new friends!
    I think so, but I don't usually want to.
    I'm about average, and I like making new friends.
    No, and I don't want to.
  • 20
    Are you a gregarious person?
    No, not at all.
    Yes, very.
    Yes, I think so.
    I'm shy, but I like meeting new people.

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