Am I in love with my female best friend? (girls only)

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10 Questions - Developed by: Beth Lewis - Developed on: - 208.400 taken - User Rating: 4.71 of 5.0 - 7 Votes - 2 people like it

This is a test to tell you if you're in love with your best friend if you're both female

  • 1
    How do you feel when you make eye contact?
  • 2
    How long have you known each other?
  • 3
    How often do you have thoughts about kissing or hugging her?
  • 4
    Have you ever hugged her? If so how often?
  • 5
    You are having a sleepover together. While watching TV she puts her arm around you. What do you do?
  • 6
    While at the sleepover you have to sleep in the same bed. She has to borrow some pajamas. You need to get changed. Do you?:
  • 7
    You are now lying in bed. Do you?:
  • 8
    Do you ever think about going out with her?
  • 9
    Does she ever seem like she loves you more than a friend?
  • 10
    Why did you take this quiz?

Comments (54)


Maddie (28009)
14 hours ago
I started noticing that I wanted to put my arm around her or lean against her constantly
Ellie (29342)
8 days ago
I knew that the results would be so good, because it's impossible to explain how much I love her. She's my soul sister.
Rayne (34296)
8 days ago
Me and my friend are both bi and i think i like her but i don't know we act all crazy around eachother and lovable she lays on my shoulder and my leg and i cover her up with my sweat shirt but she cuddles me alot we cuddle and are so close shes been to my house but the thing is i dont think she likes me at all but i hope we stay close friends were 11 and we have been so close once that i could feel her heartbeat i love her so much i hope i dont loose her ever
Taelynn (84127)
15 days ago
I known my best friend for a few months now but idk if she has any romantic attraction to me im 12 and shes 13. I know I love her but im scared to tell her bc Idk if shes homophobic. Im bi am im pretty sure is straight. But she is showing slight signs like touching me on the shoulder idk.
She comes from a religious family (German, And Christian) please help me v-v
Allie (07511)
20 days ago
So me and my best friend have been best friends for as long as I can remember. She's 12 and I'm 13. We used to live in the same state but we both moved to different states so the only time I can see her is once in the summers. So we meet up at her grandparents house and we have to share a bed cause all the girls get one room with 2 beds. I know that I'm straight and I think she is too although I never talk to her about sexuality stuff. But I have feelings for her and I see signs of her liking me too. She once held my hand in the middle of the night and claimed it was an "accident". And she this year(2017) would always put her hand on my shoulder as I walked by. We took a shower together after swimming, don't worry we had swimsuits on, and she washed and braided my hair but didn't do that to the other girls. She did the 7 seas thing on my leg about a million times and tried to tickle me. So yeah sorry for the rant. Thanks for reading this far. I don't know what to do and I'm super confused! Please help me!!
Sheen (37181)
27 days ago
Uhh . I still dunno what to comment i was a bit sleepy right now
Idk (74943)
29 days ago
I think I like my best friend that s a gi4l every time we make eye contact I want to kiss her and also one day 2 guys asked us out to go on a date we said yes we went to the guys house and they dared us to make out and we did but then after that day I have been crushing on her what do i do
Chloe (68899)
31 days ago
I'm not sure if me and my best friend are in love, I think I am but I have a bf and I I'm going to ask her if she feels the same way and I'm scared if she doesn't I'll be really imbaressing I'm 11 she's 11 and I'm freaking out I don't know what to do I don't know my sexuality yet and I am feared to ask if it ruins our friendship help??
Hamood (38270)
40 days ago
I have a female friend, we are too close .. always holding each others hands while we are together even in the public area .. actually I loves her from my bottom heart but she has a boyfriend for a very long time and her boyfriend is my friend too .. I really confused if my feelings towards her is correct or only emotional .. and I dont want to rui our friendship between me and her/him .. can someone advise me what I have to do with this situation
Help me (52182)
51 days ago
I have a crush on my best friend like we pretend to almost kiss and we also cuddle and we kiss each other on the cheek but I'm not sure she likes me in that way she recently found out I was bi and before that she didn't do this sorta stuff and she also is confused about her sexuality
Ally 23 (82014)
64 days ago
so I am confused like I like a girl I wont call her my best friend but I don't know what to do because I kinda asked her out and then I asked if she really likes me and she said I will give u a shot.
Halp (42655)
67 days ago
i've never liked a girl before but i think my best friend might be my first female crush. Its not like lust, it just feels like there's something, i don't know. she hasn't had a crush on anyone (that i know of) in a long time, since like last year, so... idk. i didn't really wanna acknowledge that i like her but here i am lol. what do i do???
Anonymous-indonesia- tondano (65323)
77 days ago
I'm so in love with my friend, but i'm not lesbian. I'm never dreaming to do seks with her.. I love her as a friend. I just think she is different with any girl i'm ever known.. she is match with me.
As an introvert, i think that i'ts so good and comfortable to being alone. but after i make relationship with her, that thought about being alone is disepire...I LOVE YOU FRIEND😊😊😘😘
Yuki (27164)
111 days ago
I have a friend that I really like and I think I'm in love.i have never had crush on a girl before but she is so adorable.we hang out every day and I hug her alot,rest on each other's shoulders and comfort each other.she could possibly like me and today she asked if it was weird that she likes me resting on her shoulder,and if it's weird to call me cuddly.she says I'm a closer friend to her than her friend that she lives with.Hope she doesn't read this lol 😊
Nicole (58594)
113 days ago
I think that I'm in love with her but,My parents don't like gays,and lesbians.Hear me out,"Tell your friend that you are in love with her",practice saying it.I told my Bff,and she said that it's okay,but she's straight.I am too.I've done things in the past that dis-prove it but this is a phase,ans you'll get throught it.2017 is the era where people are accepted,in 2019 it will be normal.Good luck!-A girl who's confused
Max (51103)
161 days ago
My bff, i've known her for decades, she's married and happy (no kids) her husband is very kind and love her so much, on the other i had troubles with my past (financially) anyways my best friend and her husband offer to have me stay with them till im ready to be on my own again. Been living with them for a year and half now, Anyways seeing my bff everyday we became closer than before, we go out, shop,go to the movies, go to work, vacation, etc. Where ever she goes im there the only time we get to separate from each other is when she has to go to bed(of course she has a husband) anyways, lately i started to feel a lil different towards her, i think im inlove with her, but i know i cant show or even tell her what i felt about her. Its getting awkward sometimes, lots of time i wanted to kiss her but tried not to get carried away. I love her so much that i dont want to do to do anything that will ruin her marriage..but its also hard to leave knowing i cant live without her..
Eva (67107)
167 days ago
My bff knows I ship gay people everyone does! I'm pan but they don't know it ( my sister only does) and sometimes they "joke" if I'm a lesbian my bf thought jokes how everyone thinks we're a couple because I constantly cuddle her and all and we hold hands sometimes. She wouldn't have a problem if she knew i was pan but maybe it would be weird for her if I'd kiss her or hug her ya know? Should i tell her? Please help! 😗😥
Chrissie (79799)
175 days ago
I have loved my best friend for half a century, but I married, it didn't last, and she is now a priest. Two lives not fully lived. Go for it, and be glad you live in easier times,
Confused (16825)
177 days ago
We're both straight but iv been crushing on her for almost a year. And she has a boyfriend. And I don't want to ruin our friendship. But then I think what if we hold hands then it escalated to being at the beach then to butiful stars sparkling in the sky dancing in her eyes while she smiles and I would die if she smiled at me like that and faint from happiness ... sorry that got kinda out off hand. I'm happy for her case her boyfriend is so nice to her and makes her smile with out even being there. And I wish I could make her smile like that at me. Sorry again
Ammy (13014)
226 days ago
I don't really know if I'm in love with her or not. My chest gets tight at the thought of it and well she's going to be a trans male, and I don't think she/he would be into me anyways since we're best friends, and I'm asexual. I dunno...