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5 Steps on How to Write the Perfect Letter to Your Crush!

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I'm Kloe, and this is a 5 step guide to writing the perfect confession letter to your crush!

    STEP ONE: Preparing For The Worst

    Before doing this, you're going to need to prepare yourself for rejection. Maybe plan a sleepover with a friend, or ask a parent/legal guardian to do something with you! We all know rejection hurts, but if you're prepared, it might hurt just a little less. Feel free to pamper yourself with all the love you deserve:)! Of course, this step won't be necessary in the end if they end up saying yes. Then again, who doesn't love doing something fun?

    STEP TWO: "A Rough Draft"

    You don't literally need to write a rough draft before writing a letter to your crush. You just need to have an idea of what you are willing to write in your letter. There's a small chance that your crush may show this to their friends or family (or maybe even post it online ๐Ÿ˜ข) so don't write anything embarrassing such as "I wish I could kiss you", or "You smell just like cookies", because that might come off as
    2). WEIRD
    Instead, think of something that your crush likes (assuming you are close with them, if not, you should use a different confessing method). If they like drawing, you could tell them how much you appreciate their drawing skills.

    STEP THREE: Nostalgia

    If you and your crush share a fond memory, bringing this up in a letter could make them really happy, and it might make them feel like they have a unique bond with you! Like, for example, maybe you were at a party together! Here are some examples of Do's and Don'ts!

    1) Remember that party we went to? It was really nice seeing you there, and I remember when you laughed so hard, milk came out of your nose!
    2) The party we went to a few months ago was really fun, and it was nice sharing that fun with you!

    1) Remember that party we went to? I first started liking you then.
    2) The party we went to a few months ago was awesome because you were there!

    Don't try to make your crush feel like they were the only reason you enjoyed that memory. If you show them that the memory felt meaningful to you because of the memory itself, they might think you are really enjoyable because you were more focused on living a little then having your planet orbit around them.

    STEP FOUR: Getting To The Point.

    Now, this is probably the hardest step of all, and that is getting to the point. It may be surprising to you, but straight up saying, "I like you," is probably the worst thing you could do. Here are some Do's and Don'ts.

    1). Our friendship means everything to me, and I don't want to ruin it, but I can't escape the fact that I like you as more than that.
    2) My feelings for you are undeniable. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but you play an important role in my life.

    1) I like you/I have feelings for you/ I love you.
    2) I like being friends, but being something more would be better, don't ya think?

    Make your crush feel as if your friendship won't be ruined by you writing this. Make them feel like they have a choice:)

    FINAL STEP: Giving It To Them

    It's not really a letter if you never give it to them, right? Hopefully you have a heartfelt letter that will mean a lot to your crush. You can give it to your crush yourself, put it in their locker, on their desk, have a friend give it to them for you, or mail it to them (if you know their address, of course). If you choose to have your friend give it to them for you, make sure your friend tells them that the letter is from you so that there's no confusion. It's best if you sign the letter with your name so they don't have to worry about them having a secret admirer. But, if you are shy (like me) you could be anonymous (I know I would lol). However, you'll most likely have to tell them it was you who wrote the letter, though. If you did this or are going to do this, I wish you the best of luck ๐Ÿคžโค my fingers are crossed for you!

Comments (19)


118 days ago
Hi guys if anyone needs help ask me
295 days ago
Hope he likes me. i am super shy.
335 days ago
I am so scared i Hope je likes me!
383 days ago
I,m going to give this too my crush today we hang out over the summer share a box of chicken nuggets and we see each other now like 2 time in a week when spring and summer come it will 3
561 days ago
sup guys (or girls) i just wrote a letter to my crush so im gonna give is to her tomorrow your 5 steps were very helpful thx
731 days ago
my crush is my best friend and im so terrified... especially because im gay... i guess its just another paper to add to my desk drawer and have it never see the light of day again. Maybe someday ill bring her to my room and open the drawer ๐Ÿ˜” i dont see that happening soon...
798 days ago
Iโ€™d rather let him write me a letter. If he canโ€™t do that, I guess Iโ€™d rather not know then to know he doesnโ€™t like me like that.
892 days ago
So ur advice is especially helpfull!! I plan on doing this very soon but I'm suuuuper shy๐Ÿ˜ถ so I'll probably make it anonymous...cuz I just don't want him too feel awkward sooo idk, the only thing is that he has shown signs that he likes me. Do u suggest I sign my name? I'm just really confused...
926 days ago
I have a boyfriend yet I found this as good advice for anybody! I reccomend this to anybody who wants to do this. I wish you all the best of luck!
1025 days ago
than you thank you THANK YOU I gave this to my crush a he said yes and now we have been dating for 2 mouths thanks for this
1027 days ago
I really wish I kept my friends from telling my crush I like him. things would have gone a lot better.
1207 days ago
well i just found this i dont like anyone but i just wanted to read this
you have such good advice. i wish i read this before i gave a letter to my crush (It was like a year ago)
1212 days ago
Um this won't work...
1221 days ago
Great idea Kloe! Thx
1222 days ago
Fellow Earthling, you could ask him if you could mail him something, and if he says yes, you can mail it to him :D if not, you will probably have to call him or text him :/
1223 days ago
Guys, I'm stuck now. I was going to give a note to my crush (the one I like more- I decided!) but I have a MASSIVE problem. I'm probably never going to see him again. I have his phone number but isn't it just really weird and cringey to ask him where he lives. Besides, he is staying with his family in Croatia for most of the summer. Also, none of my friends will see him again. How am I supposed to give him the letter?
1224 days ago
Once again, thank you guys for your love & support! It makes me so happy ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญโคโค
1224 days ago
Hey Kloe! And hello again Fellow Earthling! (BTW thanks for bringing up my crush love note idea message in that comment!) I loved this list! I'll definitely be using it if I get enough courage to tell him. But the only time I'll tell him is 1. when we leave the academy for college, or 2. if he leaves the academy before that. We're friends and have lots if inside jokes do it'll work out ๐Ÿ˜‚
1224 days ago
If you are struggling with what to say then you could say something like:

'Nobody loves you.
Nobody cares about you.
Nobody thinks you're special.
Well I am that nobody. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’•'

Hope this helps! ๐Ÿคžโค๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’™