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This is basically my friend life:
So it all started last year when my BFF, Rebecca, moved into the neighborhood of my other BFF (at the time), Courtney. The next thing I know, Courtney and Rebecca are BFFs too, which is fine until they started to talk about... Me. And let me tell you, it was not good things. They were having fun little cats about how "bossy" and "mean" and "controlling" I am, and, hello, Rebecca is SO much bossier and controlling than me. Her motto is "My way or the highway", like are you kidding me? Well, this year, Rebecca has been acting differently. She has been treating me like dirt, never saying sorry, screaming at me, and generally being a jerk. When I tried to stand up for myself, she cried and started talking to the teacher. She throws me under the bus for everything and acts like a victim. She knows that Someone has to take the fall for her mistakes, so she thinks it should be me. She also does everything for attention. recently a friend passes away, I have been feeling sad and depressed and sometimes wanting to harm myself, and all she does is make things worse. I just a few days ago left her and I am already feeling a huge weight lifted off my chest. Welp, I'm done venting now. On to advice!
I recently started a new school (An intermedite) and my friend who I've known for years is now starting to act diffrently.
She used to be really calm, nice, gentle, and really kind. Now, she has new friends who are snoby, obnoxsous and only care about themselves and boys.
She is starting to act like that too now, and doesn't even recocnise me anymore. She says mean things to me, when she doesn't know its me she's talking to, and when I talk to her she just like 'Oh I'm SO sorry!' like I'm a little baby or something. My other friend who is in her class finds her to be a bit of a show off now as well too.
PLS hELPP
I' m sorry that your uncomftorable.
My advice is to space yourself, and walk away if they are being inapropriate.
If you are REALY uncomftorable, you should tell an adult.
I am sad to say people like this ARE normal, but if you don' t like it than you are not being weird.
And if you dont want to be friends with them, than DONT be friends with them!
you are in control of who you hang out with.
Hope this helped! :)
-AdviceGirl
so my good freind hangs out with another freind group who swears all the time and makes dirty jokes. for example on a instagram post they might comment something to do wiht a body part *down there* and call each other a bad word and put a laughing or crying face. they swear so much and say weird things and laugh at weird things and it makes me feel uncomfortable. i realized that i dont want friends like that because i don't want to be dragged down, but now im wonderingg if this is becoming normal and if im the person that is... unusual i guess. is it normal to be like that friend group?
pls help me :[
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