"Love" isn't the only "L" word that gets thrown around a lot. People call each other "loser" in fun or in anger all the time. The person being insulted usually just shrugs it off - or lobs it back. But might there be some truth there? Take a look and see if you might need to make some changes, or if you're good to go. Try this test now! P.S.: The only real loser is someone who knows they could improve, but who refuses to try. I know that's not you!