Am I Over Him? Quiz

Sometimes you try and try and TRY to get over a guy, but you just can't, no matter what you do. It's so confusing because your head and your heart are at war! And that can keep you from seeing the truth. Take this quiz to see if you are really over him, or if you are still majorly crushing on him.

  • 1
    Do you still think about him a lot?
    Do you still think about him a lot?
  • 2
    You know he doesn't like you, but do you still spend time fantasizing about the day when he'll ask you out?
  • 3
    Do you see him a lot?

  • 4
    Do you have pictures of him hanging in your room/locker?
  • 5
    Do you still get nervous/excited when you talk to him?
  • 6
    How do you feel about him?

  • 7
    Would you change anything about yourself to get him to like you?
  • 8
    Do you still dream about him?
  • 9
    Do you talk about him with your friends?
  • 10
    Do YOU think you're over him?

Comments (130)

autorenew

80 days ago
I get so Jealous when other girls talk to him but I think I am over him so I wanna find a new crush
122 days ago
@Kia
We've been talking her alot, it's kinda cool๐ŸŒŸ
Nice , I'm happy that it looks like it's going up hill!

Just dont forget about self loveโ™ฅ๏ธ, it's the real key to true love! Goodluck in the future ๐ŸŒŸ

Not gonna lie, I'm probably gonna add you in the comic cause you help me alot , more than you would imagine ๐Ÿ˜…๐ŸŒŸ, thank you so much gurl ๐Ÿ˜ค

Ttyl internet people โœŒ
122 days ago
Hi YALL, IM BACK!!!!
Technically, I'm waiting to watch Shang Chi but I got news to spill!

Unfortunately, or fortunately. WE HAVE A NEW ( potential) CRUSH ๐Ÿ˜ค. Number 6 ๐ŸŒŸ !
( if you dont know what I'm talking about, then scroll to my previous messages about Rick ) .

Anyways, This year has been going well so far, made a couple new friends and started a new year completely, after I got over Rick , I took alot of time focusing on myself which is where I found number 6 ๐Ÿ˜’ .

Idk where this one is going but , I've decided to write a book off my life called " Another Teenager Story" , its gonna be a comic book on Webtoon so check it out ๐ŸŒŸ

I think I may right this comic until I become 19 , until then, dont forget to prioritize you first๐Ÿ˜ค
141 days ago
oh wait nvm, it was a misunderstanding
141 days ago
๐Ÿš” i didnt know "x" means xx
141 days ago
Ik my crush is mostly not gonna see it but if he does then this is for him -
Remember the times when we both used to make effort and now I feel like its just me who does it, I dont blame you for liking someone else now, and I tried to get rid of my crush on you, but I just can't, the more I try, the more I fall for you, I just sometimes cry alone, wanting to go back in time when I was with you. I just want to say that, no matter how many people say that you aren't good match for me, I did, I do, and I always will love you, this is the first time I still keep trying even after you said someone else is your crush, I wrote a song for you I know its not good but I tried my best -

Remember the times, when we were in love?
I was your *hen and you were myyy doveeeee,
I wanna sit by myself and cry it all out,
I don't know what to do, should I burst out?
No matter how much I try, I cant get rid of youu (ou-ouuu-uu)
I am so confused, what should I dooooooooooooooo?
No matter what happens, you will always be in my heaaarrt,
I don't care if I am not in yoursss
๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆx
*hen means female dove
๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿฆx

And after all this I just wanna say that I will always love you, and I just want you _forever_......
211 days ago
hi cynnamin
you wont read this but i just want to tell you that my new crush i doing great like i asked his friend if he liked me. this time she was girl and she saied if he doesnt like you he loves you. anyay when she aske him his type he said itaian girl with light brown hair. aka my exact discription.
anyway the signs are ther
juste felt ike saying this
bye
220 days ago
I think I wouldn't be back in a while. I'm finally over him.๐Ÿ˜

Now for the big question, how??

Well, this is how. I finally realized something, I'm too young and dont even know what love is.
The problem were all getting our self is that we look for someone to " complete us" when we should complete our self's.
Love will fine me when I'm ready, right now I need to focus on my dreams and self goals . After dealing with those things the perfect person will be there.

As I said to my bestfriend, " we have a whole lot of things to learn . And Love is just one of them so be patient, let it find you cause if you the moment we try do something about it is the moment it becomes less of a feeling and more of a drama ( and then ur life becomes a mess of emotions, like a teenage coming of age movie)

So carm down and focus on you first always. It's not selfish to be more self aware๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ž

Bye byeundefined
254 days ago
Lmao๐Ÿ˜‚ , I'm so done with this . Guess what I got?
........

Yes , YOU GUESS CORRECT 70% , just like two months ago! Congratulations in nothing.

( if u wondering what I'm talking about , scroll down )

Well, bye bye. U know where to find me โœŒ
254 days ago
Hiiii, IM BACK AGAIN! ( Like I said I would ๐Ÿ˜–)

@Kia
Its total fine, I'm probably going come back here update and giving advice where I can cause I literally have nothing better to do except cry about my mest up love life and giving advice to others not to mess up like me ๐Ÿ˜…

@ayezee
I think I got the thing 4 , u!!!!!
My top 2 tips to get over someone your friends with!!
( you can choose to take it or not, I dont think I'm qualified but below is my story and you can see I was forced to get over many ppl alot)

1. Think about what you really like about him?
Is him as a person? Is it the fact he looks very cute ? Is it because you think you "must like someone " cause all ur friends do or movies make it an " essential " for life?
Try figuring out why? After you get your answer, you can maybe convince yourself that's it's all in your head not in your heart.

2. If that does work , step 2! Look for all his flaws! Is he very annoying? Is he actually just all looks not brain? Is he emotionally draining? ( Especially your pet peeves, those will surely scare yourself way from him)

And if they both dont work, WELCOME ๐Ÿ˜!
I've been stuck here for 2 yrs now๐Ÿ˜‚, we should talk more often๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚

Now everyone else , internet ppl!
I have Quora if u need to talk to someone, my account name is Another lost Alien ๐Ÿ˜ ( I'm not sure if there are spaces or not ๐Ÿ˜‚)

Bye bye, I'm gonna see if I'm over Rick yet๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
270 days ago
@ Cynnamin
Omg soo sry didnt realised you answered
btw i am completely over him i mean he is still my friend but i actually have a new crush
284 days ago
ok so ive liked my classmate for a while now and the quiz said im 60% over him which is pretty accurate ig. this girl in my class (a bit of an attention seeker) always wants to be around him and she laughs at every joke he says which i would get jealous/annoyed by it and everyone knew it was obvious that she liked him. But he doesn't like her back because yesterday his friends dragged him over to the new girl in class (new girl is pretty chill) and said "(his name) likes u and wants u to date him" and the new girl said yes but nonchalantly. I was a little upset but as long as he was happy, im happy. And the new girl doesn't bother me. Shes pretty chill to everyone and to me so I dont really mind. Me and my crush never really had a serious conversation, maybe we've talked to each other a bit but i wouldn't consider him my friend, maybe just a classmate or an acquaintance. I want to get over him but part of me still likes him even though he started dating the new girl. How can I get over him but not lose a friendship?
318 days ago
(Update) im still on 70% ... oh well.
319 days ago
Hi kia agian๐Ÿ˜…,
Sorry if i miss understood your situation at the time. Happy to know your going through self discovery .
With your situation, it sounds very similar to what one of my friends went through when we were in primary school...
Honestly, i have absolutely no advice for you ,but goodluck.

If you want me to tell you her story i can but it isnt so happy ish so.... yeah.

Wish you a HAPPY NEW YEAR๐ŸŒŸ
325 days ago
hi Cynnamin
Wow my situation seem nothing like yours maybe it is because i am only in grade five. anyway right now i am going through a different situation which involves me believing in myself.Anyway I have this crush on a boy called aljamesbut he is one of the popular kids who swear and he will never like me. well that was what i thought at first but actually the signs are kinda there. he smiles at me and i catch him staring. now practically everyone knows i like him.
332 days ago
Ok my story, it isnt long i think but its kinda sad ish.

Basically you can say i have some what of a crush curse. It started in grade 4 ( ill summaries this, dont mind my terrible spelling)

I met a boy in aftercare ( literally a homework class after school that my parents paid for ) i met this boy who ill call Thomas. He was funny , kind , really good at art and my crush at the time. He was in an on and off relationship with this other girl Liz but i still had a huge crush on him. I never told any of my friends until the day he started dating my bestfriend. This was in grd 5 . It was a tuff year for me, i was really sad cause i liked him alot but ended up with my BFF. After some crying and a long year i finally got over him -ish.

Beginning of grd 6, my bestie broke up with him cause he was cheating on her with Liz ( it made me way more happy to be over him but really sad for my bestie) now it was a new year , new start and the next heart break!

In my register class and history class sat next to crush number 2! Let's call him Ben. He was tall, very cute, kind and one of the sweetest guys ive ever met. We had tons of fun in class , laughing, joking around . We even had a cute-ish game of "stealing" each others pencil cases . But then BAM! Discover he has a crush on my other friend Mae!!!!!! How sad things end-ish. Again, had to get over him and let things be with my friend ( this relationship didnt work cause there was alot of drama happening in Mae's love life , in a shorter summary, she liked the hottie of the grade so you can imagine)

Next year , GRD 7!!! ( The final year in Primary school for me) this year was complicated ish. In the beginning, i had a crush on Thomas again ( mainly cause he was in my class that year) during the middle i had some feelings for Prince of the grade ( smartest, tallest, coolest kid in the grd. He was head boy, his mother the vise principle, he was literally That kid ) but at the end it was really interesting cause from July all the way to November i started liking my other guy friend, crush no. 3! We will call Andrew! He had this on and off thing with this other girl named Tayler so yeah... , i like him cause he was very smart, kind, funny and i had tons of fun with him ( for grd 7, we sat according to our surnames and we always start together cause his surname was C and my was D so yeah) fast forward, many memories later , i asked him out for the grd 7 dance and he said yes! It was amazing ! He bought me chocolate ( and i LOVEEEE CHOCOLATE) And we had tons of fun but then my mom said i was to you for a relationship. And she was very much right.

We secretly dated for 2 months until i realized, i just had a crush on him. Not love , i liked him as a crush , as a person ill ideally wanna be with but not someone to have a relationship with. Like Romeo, i was in love with the idea of being in love. So the relationship crumbled, he liked this other girl , i liked another guy. It wasnt working out, we broke up. ( honestly i think i broke his heart, and i still feel bad till this day. I did text broke up with him, and i feel like a monster cause it was around his birthday)

So warning all people around ages 12-13 , it isnt really what you see in the movies. Love is more deep than that, before you go into a relationship always be sure you know that person that stares back at you in the mirror!

Lets keep going with this story of mine!

Now grd 8, the babies of High school. After breaking up, i started liking this other teen, crush no.4 , we will call him Ken cause... He one yr older than me, super kind, extremely funny and WOW, a version of a living Ken. Blonde hair, Dark brown eyes and tall and sooooooooooo handsome. Multi-talented, did art, played guitar and can sing also played rugby, hockey and soccer. Buttt as you can see , another crush. Again , as before, he like one of my friends, her name is Marry.

What a sad paradox, and yes i was also sad about this one too, at times cant lie, i really hated her. Later on in the year they started dating, Yay for them i guess. Just like before i forced myself to get over it.

Grd 9 , YAY, this time is gonna be better, nope.
First day of school we met crush no. 5 . We will call him Oliver, yesss you've guessed it ! Another tall guy! Honestly i didnt even speak to him at all this one was pure eye candy. He is soooooooooo cuteeeee , very funny and smart . He was also a popular kid soo he had the bad boy thing going on. Middle of the year, BAMN! He has a girlfriend, Kiki. What a life for me. Four different guys, all liking the guys im friends with. ( kiki was my classmate , very kind and pretty . Were not close but it still stings)

Now the end of the year, plot twist , i STARTED LIKING MY GUY BESTFRIEND!! ( side note we have been friends since grade 5 so you could imagine the torture of liking your guy bestfriend) ill call him Rick.

See unlike the past 5 guys, Rick had something none of them had , long lasting friendship. Falling for your bestfriend is honestly the worst . Cause your BFFS you know all there secret and they now yours , the can read you like a book. I CAN TELL HOW HE FEEL JUST BY HOW HE SAYS HELLO!!!

Now today. The last day of 2021. My feelings for my BFF have only became worse, like its literally midnight and we are TALKING!!!!
Why do i like him? HE IS KIND, LOYAL, RESPECTFUL, A GENIUS, REALLY REALLLY FUN AND FUNNY PERSON! And as the paradox has it.

YES HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

And after so many years of the SAME EXACT THING HAPPENING OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN , this one was the worst one. We are also family friends so i know his parents and grandparents. Ive been to his house multiple times, i CANT RUN AWAY FROM HIM AS I ALWAYS DO FOR MY PREVIOUS CRUSHES!!!

but according to this test im 70% over him. Ill update u guys cause why not. ( i cant VENT TO ANYONE CAUSE U CANT TELL MY BFF CAUSE ITS ABOUT HIM๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค)

Thats my story ...

Last words. Know yourself before you get into any relationships .

Bye bye
332 days ago
Hi there internet world. I spent the last 30 mins reading many stories here. Honestly , it a tuff world out there but i have to thank you all here in the comments , now i gain more courage then before!

To Kat,
Im sooo sorry you had to go through that , you really dont deserve that but dont forget how strong you are! Even if he did that to you ,dont let that lable who you are! I may not know who you are as a person but i know nobody deserves to feel that way about themselves. Stand strong ok! My favorite Chinese word is JiฤYรฒu!!! It means keep preserving and believe in yourself causes your the absolute best version of you!

To kia
I understand the pain you went through, im kinda going through the same things right now ( ill share my story after this message) But keep going, you inspired me to keep fighting, and i believe you can do it to! We may never meet irl butttt we both in the same situation, lets keep going!! If i can do it , you can do it! I believe in you and remember your the best version of you ! We cant let our crushes and their girlfriends make us feel bad ok!!!

To Emily
I also know that feeling too, we all think were over it until he texted you again or compliments you. But i hope u read kia's message, he isnt the one ( honestly i dont know the guy and i dont know you but this is not ment to hurt you) . Friends is the limit, remember your self worth ok! If he had already texted you or not, just remember how your the only one of your kind ( literally, they will never be another you ever for the next infinity years!) JiฤYรณu!!!!!!!

To B-1
Tons of love sent to you, you really didnt deserve that. As u said before , no one should ever feel worthless . Just dont forget who you are, dont let him define you ok! Stand strong, head up high, And strive! As ive been preaching here, THERE WILL NEVER EVER BE ANOTHER YOU!! SO BE 10000% YOU!

To everyone else here in the future, Stand STRONG! AS IVE BEEN SAYING HERE, YOUR SPECIAL! As i always say to myself, im just like one of the millions of stars. From far they all look the same but the closer you get to each one , your discover a whole different galaxy, special, unique and one of a kind, just like all of us here. Stay strong, dont forget who you are, DONT LET YOUR PAST DEFINE YOU OK!!!!! JIรYร“U!!!!!!!!
340 days ago
I had a similar experience to what you all had, Emily and kia. This actually happened between a week ago and 3 months ago. I started to date this really amazing guy named Joel in my class after about a month of flirting and texting. It honestly felt like it couldn't get better than this.... until...

It was Thanksgiving break and things have been going great until he announces to me that he is going on a vacation with his family to New Mexico. No biggie, right? After all, I AM going to text him and make sure that his supportive girlfriend (me) is there to keep him company, even if it's from a distance. Plus, he won't be away for too long, as he will be coming back on Friday. So he leaves, and things start out great, with us texting and sending memes/gifs. BUT as the week progresses, he seems like he is getting more distant. I didn't worry about it too much because he WAS in New Mexico and he was probably busy having fun with his family and old friends from the area.

It was around Wednesday night that I started getting suspicious about it. Yes, he was busy and all, but it didn't feel right at all...

Then on the Friday he was meant to return from his vacation (November 26), it started with us texting normally, and then I went out with my family to go eat ramen and to shop. My suspicions kept growing and growing, and time with my family didn't seem to help. So my visiting older sister asked me what was wrong and I told her about the situation. She told me to ask him if anything was up so I did so. No immediate response.

Fast forward 5 or 6 hours and we are already at home and doing something else (baking some cookie Christmas Trees or sum like that) and then I get a text from him saying that he was ok. Just ok. Not even capitalized or anything like that. That was all the evidence I needed to show that things were the OPPOSITE of what he told me. So I decided that maybe, it was time to tell him what was happening. I told him that I had weird thoughts about him losing feelings. Do you want to know what he said next? He just said "ya" LIKE I WASN'T ABOUT TO BREAK DOWN INTO TEARS. Then I asked if he even cared. HE SAID NO. I HAD JUST HAD IT AND I CRIED LIKE I NEVER CRIED BEFORE. I then lashed out and told him that I wanted him to leave me alone and he then came up with a petty excuse that totally wasn't true. He told me that we was going to ignore everyone on his phone because he needed to focus on his grades and basketball. Of course I believed it and said I was sorry for getting mad at him. Then he just said something like:

"ya ๐Ÿ˜’ "
"goodbye"

I mean, none of us said we wanted to break up directly, but it was definitely implied by him in that conversation. So it ended just like that.

You may think this is the end of the story but no. The day afterwards, at a friend's birthday party at the movies, they show me his Snapchat story and...

Yeah. He was on his phone, story updated not too long ago, TOTALLY NOT doing what he told me the day before. Needless to say, I barely enjoyed myself there and spent a good chunk of the party in tears.

And get this! The Monday we return from break, I find from another one of my friends that he doesn't have an interest in me anymore. Even worse, 2 weeks later, I find that he is crushing on and most likely dating one of the most popular girls in my class. So. Sad. Especially considering this is the SAME girl who played so many guys the years prior and stole the guy I liked 2 years prior.

So yeah. Something about this experience isn't right at all. I thought I dated someone actually WORTH it. Someone who wouldn't mistreat or hurt me. But here we are. Back to Square 1. Almost like the past months didn't even happen. Almost like he's a totally new student who came in and started flirting with the same old girl every cool dude reaches for. Almost like he's a stranger or just simply someone that I used to know.....

It's been almost a month and somehow I cant get past it....

*if you're out there, Joel and you somehow stumble upon this comment, I have something to say:

I hope you're happy with *her*. I also hope you consider what you did to me.
You've broke my heart, stole the last of the self esteem I had in me, and lied so you can chase her insteadโ€ฆ ok thank u bye!
359 days ago
And I have experience when it comes to your old boyfriend becoming a friend. Now my bestfriend is my first kiss.
359 days ago
hi emily can i just say that he sounds like a jerk. if anything i would recommend remaining friends. nothing more. he might break ur heart again