Am I Over Him? Quiz

Sometimes you try and try and TRY to get over a guy, but you just can't, no matter what you do. It's so confusing because your head and your heart are at war! And that can keep you from seeing the truth. Take this quiz to see if you are really over him, or if you are still majorly crushing on him.

  • 1
    Do you still think about him a lot?
    Do you still think about him a lot?
  • 2
    You know he doesn't like you, but do you still spend time fantasizing about the day when he'll ask you out?
  • 3
    Do you see him a lot?

  • 4
    Do you have pictures of him hanging in your room/locker?
  • 5
    Do you still get nervous/excited when you talk to him?
  • 6
    How do you feel about him?

  • 7
    Would you change anything about yourself to get him to like you?
  • 8
    Do you still dream about him?
  • 9
    Do you talk about him with your friends?
  • 10
    What would you do if he starts dating someone new?

Comments (140)


47 days ago
yup my name basically says it. i was friends with him all of last year, only for him to ignore me from the start of the school year. I liked him after I became friends with him, and I try to highlight the bad things about him to get over him but I can't. Because there is nothing bad about him. He's my ideal guy. And the worst part is last year I was the only girl he talked to, now everytime i see him he's with a new girl. he's such a manwhore. He walks my route, but we can't talk. Even the way that we both look at each other, say everything. But I don't know why because I haven't done anything to him - rather right before he started ignoring me - that very day, I HELPED HIM STUDY FOR OUR EXAM. why are guys so confusing? just b straightup
85 days ago
i have a teeny crush on a boy at my school but i wouldnt call to a crush cuz i just think he's cute and act different around him. the only real crush ive had since i was 9 was at camp this summer when i met a rlly nice, funny, considerate boy that was actually showing a few signs he liked me, but ofc he lived in a whole different state and i dont have a freaking phone so when he asked if i had a snap i had to say 'nope i dont have a phone๐Ÿ˜‚' and even though he was showing a few signs, he already said that he liked a girl in his town but she doesn't like him back. when i got home from camp i would look very closely at the group picture of the campers but then stay up till 2 am so i could be sad and cry about the things going in in my life. then i started public school thinking it would be awesome and i would make some amazing friends and even have a new crush but i think im destined to be friendless the quiet kid that diesnt have any real friends, just ppl she says hi too and laughs with then goes home and is sad,but she's too scared to open up to them cuz she doesn't want to put a load on their shoulders and be the over bearing type friend that is gloomy and ruins the mood or makes too much of an effort to be friends with ppl and runs them off because she's annoying. my camp crush Canon just made me feel good like i didn't have anything to be sad abt
85 days ago
hehehhh i did this on my camp crush so i had to choose the closest thing on some questions
193 days ago
Wowโ€ฆ in a month? How? I still thought I had some sort of thing for him, but moving on and focusing about myself was the real key. It went too fast, help. It was just your regular crush, but itโ€™s not easy to get over. I thought I had a long way to go, but Iโ€™m almost done? Weird
237 days ago
I used to work at McDonald's for about 7 months and about 2 months in I met someone. It was like he was the most amazing thing I had ever seen. I couldn't stop looking at him and trying to socialize with him but I was nervous. I knew that he was out of my league but I still tried to chase him. He and I started talking a little bit and then I finally worked up enough courage to ask him for his socials. I was super shocked when he actually added me and wanted to talk to me more as well. He had sent me a bunch of memes and pictures to make me laugh. Then like a day later he had sent me another message and when I read it I was confused because I thought he was joking... He had asked me to be his girlfriend. His exact words were "will you do me the honors of being my girlfriend"... Since he was out of my league I thought he was joking but I said "Yes" without giving second thoughts only to find out that our boss is his Aunt. I was scared because after he and I got together I wasn't sure how she would react to us being together. He and I were together for about 2 months and 6 days before we broke things off. He was my everything. He always knew how to make me laugh when he knew I was about to cry. He would wipe my tears away and refuse to let me cry alone... He would always pull me closer to him when he knew I was about to cry or whenever I was crying. He would always walk by me when I was on my lunchbreak or off the clock and he would say funny pick up lines to me which always made me cringe but laugh. He was my everything so when he left me I'm sure you can tell how devastated I was. It's been over 5 months now since we broke up. Also, when he and I were still together we went on 1 date together and that was a date to the mall but we stopped by our job first to bother our coworkers at the time and get some food. When we got to the mall it was around the time of Halloween so of course the Halloween store was open and we wanted to check it out so we walked inside and right as we walked though the door there was a tunnel with creepy stuff but I wasn't scared because I knew it was all fake but then there was another tunnel that we went through which wasn't scary either because it was all virtual reality type stuff and I seen that he had walked away so then I went to go find him and he was right outside the tunnel waiting for me I guess and the second I turned around I got jump scared from the skeleton in the trash. I got so scared that I started crying. He started laughing at me because apparently he got scared right before I did.
259 days ago
Good news! He is done! No more crushing on him no more!! I hope that things are going well for you @firefly!
276 days ago
Woah woah woah! Firefly! It's okay girly, there is always someone you want but can't have! Just because he likes someone else, it does NOT mean she is nicer and prettier! Just means either you aren't meant to be together or the timing isn't right! I crushed on a guy (I never had a chance, he is a year older then me) for 12 FREAKING MONTHS!!! Like geez, I was hopelessly in love with him. One day after he was ignoring me I thought '....why am I still wasting my time? 11 months and nothing happened. He's avoiding you, face it... he doesn't like you. Why are you still trying to change for him?' As soon as I realised that, I started to change back. I started being more like myself, banned myself from thinking about him and not letting myself sulk when he didnt talk to me. I started becoming happier and enjoying my life more, and appreciating who I was. He slowly started talking to me again, and occasionally, I still get nervous and butterflyish around him, but I have started thinking about other guys and moving on. You are amazing, and you don't need a guy. I am still hoping he does like me, but now I have accepted he doesn't, I find it easier to face the fact he probably has a girlfriend. Go you!!! You are amazing!!
276 days ago
i got Face it you still love him.
which isn't a surprise.
i like this guy and he's becoming my guy bestfriend. (i never had one) i like him but he likes someone else. he told her over text. and she told me cause she's my friend. and i was litterally dying inside but i didn't say anything and supported her . i swear if you read our conversations or my reaction on the groupchat when he called her beautiful and told her he liked her you'd never guess i would go into my bathroom and cry.
i try! but i can't get over him because a stupid part of me still hopes he'll turn around and like me!
but the truth is that that would never happen cause she is nicer and prettier and just better than me.
i sometimes wish i could hate her. but she's so freaking nice i can't.
278 days ago
I need advice over how to get over my guy best friend for 7 years that started to bully me, help, please?
282 days ago
I got "You are definitely over him!" This is so refreshing because I think I might like someone else but I don't know if this someone else is a player so I'm probably going to take one of your tests on that, let you know how it went!
451 days ago
I get so Jealous when other girls talk to him but I think I am over him so I wanna find a new crush
493 days ago
We've been talking her alot, it's kinda cool๐ŸŒŸ
Nice , I'm happy that it looks like it's going up hill!

Just dont forget about self loveโ™ฅ๏ธ, it's the real key to true love! Goodluck in the future ๐ŸŒŸ

Not gonna lie, I'm probably gonna add you in the comic cause you help me alot , more than you would imagine ๐Ÿ˜…๐ŸŒŸ, thank you so much gurl ๐Ÿ˜ค

Ttyl internet people โœŒ
493 days ago
Technically, I'm waiting to watch Shang Chi but I got news to spill!

Unfortunately, or fortunately. WE HAVE A NEW ( potential) CRUSH ๐Ÿ˜ค. Number 6 ๐ŸŒŸ !
( if you dont know what I'm talking about, then scroll to my previous messages about Rick ) .

Anyways, This year has been going well so far, made a couple new friends and started a new year completely, after I got over Rick , I took alot of time focusing on myself which is where I found number 6 ๐Ÿ˜’ .

Idk where this one is going but , I've decided to write a book off my life called " Another Teenager Story" , its gonna be a comic book on Webtoon so check it out ๐ŸŒŸ

I think I may right this comic until I become 19 , until then, dont forget to prioritize you first๐Ÿ˜ค
512 days ago
oh wait nvm, it was a misunderstanding
512 days ago
๐Ÿ’‘ i didnt know "x" means xx
512 days ago
Ik my crush is mostly not gonna see it but if he does then this is for him -
Remember the times when we both used to make effort and now I feel like its just me who does it, I dont blame you for liking someone else now, and I tried to get rid of my crush on you, but I just can't, the more I try, the more I fall for you, I just sometimes cry alone, wanting to go back in time when I was with you. I just want to say that, no matter how many people say that you aren't good match for me, I did, I do, and I always will love you, this is the first time I still keep trying even after you said someone else is your crush, I wrote a song for you I know its not good but I tried my best -

Remember the times, when we were in love?
I was your *hen and you were myyy doveeeee,
I wanna sit by myself and cry it all out,
I don't know what to do, should I burst out?
No matter how much I try, I cant get rid of youu (ou-ouuu-uu)
I am so confused, what should I dooooooooooooooo?
No matter what happens, you will always be in my heaaarrt,
I don't care if I am not in yoursss
*hen means female dove

And after all this I just wanna say that I will always love you, and I just want you _forever_......
582 days ago
hi cynnamin
you wont read this but i just want to tell you that my new crush i doing great like i asked his friend if he liked me. this time she was girl and she saied if he doesnt like you he loves you. anyay when she aske him his type he said itaian girl with light brown hair. aka my exact discription.
anyway the signs are ther
juste felt ike saying this
591 days ago
I think I wouldn't be back in a while. I'm finally over him.๐Ÿ˜

Now for the big question, how??

Well, this is how. I finally realized something, I'm too young and dont even know what love is.
The problem were all getting our self is that we look for someone to " complete us" when we should complete our self's.
Love will fine me when I'm ready, right now I need to focus on my dreams and self goals . After dealing with those things the perfect person will be there.

As I said to my bestfriend, " we have a whole lot of things to learn . And Love is just one of them so be patient, let it find you cause if you the moment we try do something about it is the moment it becomes less of a feeling and more of a drama ( and then ur life becomes a mess of emotions, like a teenage coming of age movie)

So carm down and focus on you first always. It's not selfish to be more self aware๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ž

Bye byeundefined
625 days ago
Lmao๐Ÿ˜‚ , I'm so done with this . Guess what I got?

Yes , YOU GUESS CORRECT 70% , just like two months ago! Congratulations in nothing.

( if u wondering what I'm talking about , scroll down )

Well, bye bye. U know where to find me โœŒ
625 days ago
Hiiii, IM BACK AGAIN! ( Like I said I would ๐Ÿ˜–)

Its total fine, I'm probably going come back here update and giving advice where I can cause I literally have nothing better to do except cry about my mest up love life and giving advice to others not to mess up like me ๐Ÿ˜…

I think I got the thing 4 , u!!!!!
My top 2 tips to get over someone your friends with!!
( you can choose to take it or not, I dont think I'm qualified but below is my story and you can see I was forced to get over many ppl alot)

1. Think about what you really like about him?
Is him as a person? Is it the fact he looks very cute ? Is it because you think you "must like someone " cause all ur friends do or movies make it an " essential " for life?
Try figuring out why? After you get your answer, you can maybe convince yourself that's it's all in your head not in your heart.

2. If that does work , step 2! Look for all his flaws! Is he very annoying? Is he actually just all looks not brain? Is he emotionally draining? ( Especially your pet peeves, those will surely scare yourself way from him)

And if they both dont work, WELCOME ๐Ÿ˜!
I've been stuck here for 2 yrs now๐Ÿ˜‚, we should talk more often๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚

Now everyone else , internet ppl!
I have Quora if u need to talk to someone, my account name is Another lost Alien ๐Ÿ˜ ( I'm not sure if there are spaces or not ๐Ÿ˜‚)

Bye bye, I'm gonna see if I'm over Rick yet๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚