Am I Really In Love, Or Is It Just A Crush? Quiz

You've been interested in that special guy or girl for quite a while now, and he or she gives you ALL the feels.:-) "But am I actually in love?" you might have been wondering. Good question! Try this quiz now and get to the bottom of this matter of the heart once and for all!

  • 1
    How long have you liked him/her?
    How long have you liked him/her?
  • 2
    Do you think about him/her before you fall asleep?
  • 3
    How do you feel when you talk to this person?

  • 4
    Whenever you read something he/she wrote that refers to you (even as a friend), or recall an activity you two shared, how do you feel?
  • 5
    Whenever he/she touches you, how does your body react?
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    Have you ever had a fantasy about you and him/her kissing, hugging or even having sex? If you did, did you feel comfortable with it?

  • 7
    Imagine him or her getting hurt. How do you feel?
  • 8
    If he/she suddenly changed something with their outward appearance (dyed his/her hair blue, got piercings, or did anything else to drastically alter their looks), would you still like him/her?
  • 9
    You are checking your Facebook wall. As you scroll down you see a status of him/her saying that they are newly "In a Relationship." How do you feel?
  • 10
    Could you get over him/her?

Comments (359)


8 days ago
Im a fourteen year old girl who identifies as bisexual, though I still regularly question my sexuality and wonder whether I am bisexual or gay/lesbian though I definitely feel that I am not straight. I have really liked this girl in my school for just over a year and a half now and I am certain that I have never liked anyone else as much in my life and that these feelings are not going away: honestly, I feel that I will literally never like anyone else even if I do not continue liking her to the same extremity that I do now as I literally feel that she is “the one” and that she is it for me, that she is the person for me and the person I am meant to like for the rest of my life even if she never feels the same way. She is absolutely the definition of perfection and I find that i compare everyone to her and both boys and other girls have become completely obsolete. I feel like my life could never be entirely complete without her and I am constantly unhappy liking her but wouldnt wish away my love for her for the world. When i first started liking her i liked her so much that it was incredibly painful, my every thought was occupied by her i could not so much as block her out of my mind for five minutes straight. Now that i have liked her for longer, i do not feel so much an obsessive type of love but a steady sort of loyal and dedicated love in the way that i imagine it woukd be like to have a parter for a while: there is less of that intial excitement but the essential love remains the same. Heres the catch: i am fourteen and if i were to tell anyone that i was truly in love i would probably be ignored and many people would not believe me, even more importantly we do not know each other well at all. We have exchanged a few words one or twice at most with the nature of can you pass me my bag kind of thing though i see her at school almost everyday. Is anyone else in a similar situation? Can this be love even though i barely know her even though i feel as though i knew her in another lifetime when i look at her? Does what i have described sound like it coukd be love? Just to clarify if it was unclear, i completely respect her and even if i were to ever gather the courage to talk to her let alone ask her out, i would completely respect if she didnt want to go out with me. The “meant to be” thing is only my feelings, it is not something i would ever insist on or pressure her into dating me to fulfill. Love you LGBTQ+ communitiy, all allies and every good person out there.
17 days ago
Amazing Quiz.
66 days ago
I liked this one boy last year he was my friend I've known him for 2 years and last year I realized I had feelings and,
69 days ago
So, I've been friends with this guy for around a year now, and we always used to talk. But recently we've moved up a grade, and stopped talking. In this grade, all the boys and girls are separated into groups, so we're not really friends anymore. I had a crush on him last year, and now it only got stronger. I think he still wants to talk to me, because he's tried to make conversation before. I always leave that conversation feeling like I'm literally floating, with a stupid grin on my face. But then I never had the guts to start it myself. I feel bad, because he might think I just don't want to talk to him, but that's not the case. I'm also afraid to say I like him, because he's not really a sentimental guy. Another reason why we don't talk so much is because it's so awkward. It's just not the same. I feel like we've both changed, and because of that our friendship just doesn't work anymore. And worst of all, I feel bad because I think I started it. Last year, we were signing yearbooks, and for some reason I felt like it would be weird to ask him to sign mine. So I sat there, stalling, until he came up to me. I felt so guilty, and I didn't even put any thought into what I wrote. I was the first one to think that we were awkward, and it all just spilled out from there. I always stare him at him from across the room, then look away when he sees. I imagine scenarios where I say something to him, then never end up doing it. I'm not sure what to do, since he's the only thing I can think about. We've been silent to each other for a few months now. (OMG it felt good to write that 😆)
93 days ago
He used to like me but I didn’t back then and now I like him 🫢
115 days ago
also i got 90% in love :D
115 days ago
Sorry, didnt mean to put the unicorn emoji lol
115 days ago
This boy in my church, school, and social life is literally the nicest and cutest to me. I first met him in 2020 at church, he was so cute and shy, i had feelings for him but wasn't sure if they were real, ya know? Him and I have become pretty close since then, and i first realized i had real feelings for him about a year and a half ago. I thought it was just a strong crush at first and ignored it a bit, but then after a while that crush grew and i think im in love. He makes me so happy, he knows what to do when im sad and he is just himself, he is always there for me and is always supportive of me. This one time at summer camp him and i were being extremely close, almost like we were actually bf and gf, one time at camp we both had and emotonal moment and i was crying because i felt all those terrible emotions and💗and he hugged me for about a minute, lemme tell ya, that minute was the longest and best minute of my life. Recently he messaged me that he needs to tell me something important but in person because im important (his words), but its been a while since that message and im so scared of what he needs to tell me. Im determined to tell him about my feelings for him, but im so freaking scared to tell him, number one we aren't that old yet so we are not that expierienced, and number two he is so innocent and i dont want to ruin that about him because i love him. I promissed to myself that if he doesnt tell me what he needs to tell me by next years summer camp than im gonna come clean and tell him EVERYTHING! Wish me luck!
118 days ago
There's this boy, in 1st yr he dated this girl for a bit, at the time this girl was my bsf, they ended up breaking up later, the girl came out as gay and said the idea of dating boys was discusting etc, etc... later me and this girl has a big argument and never really spoke again, I hung out with this guys friendship group for a bit - at this point I hadn't developed a crush on him yet (the other girl wasn't there as she was hanging out with other people.) Eventually I stopped sitting w his friendship group - we didn't really talk back then. Update to now, several years later, I like him and I have done for a while, we are mostly in the same classes and we keep scoring the same in all our tests which makes me really happy. My friends don't know abt me liking him as they like to joke about why anyone would like him (he's seen as a nerd), and me and one of my friends have a joke saying that each other are dating him, saying it as if we don't want to be, but I kinda do. Me and him joke and laughs and he likes to tease me (ig) in the in the lesson we sit next to each other in and sometimes (out of that lesson) he calles me by my full name as if he's telling me off (as an obvious joke) but other than that we don't really talk much. I want to talk to him more but I don't know how to and I don't know if I want to be on the receiving end of a bunch of jokes bc of it. I really do like him but I don't think he likes me back (+ he's still friends w his ex so it'd be really awkward if I try to speak to him if she's there)
123 days ago
I got 40% i am maybe not into him
125 days ago
Sophie! You are not alone! You've just described my EXACT situation!!!
135 days ago
There's this guy at my school who I like. But he's a troublemaker and I used to hate him when I was little but now when I'm around him I get these butterflies. But I doubt he likes someone like me. He's a jock and I don't play that much sports. He's really brave to get into trouble and there's me sitting there as quiet as a mouse being scared to cause trouble and get caught. In lame highschool movies its like the same at my school. Sort of. He's a "popular" jock. And I'm some nerdy loner kid. Well I have friends but not that many. I wish he'd notice me. I think he does. But at the same time I'm invisible. Like on Halloween, I handed candy out to the adorable little kids and he's scaring little kids and going to a Halloween party. Like see the difference? It bothers me. And what everyone would think if they found out. My classmates would tease me for the rest of the YEAR. I wanna tell him but I don't fully trust him to keep it a secret. What do I do? Besides he wouldn't like me. My hair's always messy, I have a HORRIBLE fashion sense (not that I care), and I'm not good and don't play sports, I'm too shy to talk to my crush, and most of all I'm not pretty. My family and friends says I am but believe me. I DON'T believe them. They're just saying that to be nice. I'm planning on telling him next year or asking him out. But not this year.
What should I do?
146 days ago
It says I'm 70% and that I'm in love, but I am afraid he doesn't like me back.
159 days ago
Even though i got 70% and that I'm in love. I'm still unsure about it. I saw the way he interacts with other girls and I just wish he would interact with me the same. The most he would do is tease me and call me an Old Madam. I would sometimes tease him as well, and occasionally he would also help me with maths. But it's nothing compared to how other girls could make him laugh and make conversation with him for more than a minute. I couldn't even do that, I understand that I'm nothing to him than just a senior member of his council department. Not gonna lie, I did feel jealousy, and it's tiring. These days I would feel depressed and more introverted than before. Previously I would talk to him, and there was one occasion when he remained silent. Basically blowing hot and cold. But whenever I feel like I've actually moved on, he comes over and accelerates my heart beat. I plan on asking him out next year, and hopes he rejects me because I really can't go on.
162 days ago
Yeasterday i was in choir and this blue eyed tall blondie sneaked in and i realized he is hot like hell. Today I was just chatting with my guy friends at music school hallway and he came and just like was hanging around alone (social anxiety i guess. he is just like me lol) and mf was scanning me with those ice blue eyes and we locked eyes for a moment and i fell in love. Head over heels. I had another crush that I really loved, but he was treating me badly. His name is George. And now, Im in love with this half east half south slavic dude. Ngl I am also slavic, but south slavic. Balkannn
164 days ago
Ok… so there is this boy I like… we are REALLY close so it would be awkward for our friend group if it didn’t work out. Every time I think about him my smile fades bc I think about how even if we were older and old enough to date, he might not like me (since our friend group has eight girls and three boys) I want to ask his bsf if he knows anything bc his friend his basically my bro. But still we r too young (13 and neither of our families would let us date, and I’m pretty sure his mom hates me) I have NO idea what to do so I’m gonna ask u!

I have caught him looking at me but he doesn’t notice usually.

He tells me everything and does not even tell his bsf half the stuff.

He has touched me for no reason.

He always tries to stand next to me but my annoying bestie always gets in the way

He literally dropped everything when he found out I was at school (or so my friends told me when I got back)

My friends are starting to grow suspicious of us

He always looks like he wants to tell me something

So that’s it! Also I’m REALLY worried he is suicidal
187 days ago
I got 100% on this test and I wrote a long💝comment so i'm pretty sure i'm in love...
187 days ago
There's this girl in my class and im only 14 and i thought it was just a crush but GAHHH i think its MORE! I liked her for more than a year now. I'm abrosexual but biromantic which means my sexuality is fluid and changes a lot. This also means I'm not ALWAYS attracted to her. However, my romantic orientation never changes so even when I'm not attracted to her physically I'm still in love with her. I always get butterflies whenever she's around and even when she's not, I picture her. I get really flustered when she looks and me and when we have any physical contact. We've known eachother since 5th grade and have been good friends and are now in 10th grade. I hate seeing her hurt as she suffers from anxiety and depression and I almost cried when I saw the cuts on her arm. She also didn't order the book we needed for class and i had 2 so I offered her mine but she said she wanted to pay for mine because she 'didn't want it to be wasted'. This made me so sad cuz she thought she was a waste. I want her to know she's amazing and not a waste at all.
202 days ago
If you like someone, try to be friends for a few months before flirting. U don’t want to scare them away. Then hint about crushes and text them but not too much that it’s creepy. Then go out in groups then eventually just the two of you.
202 days ago
Btw. I’m straight. I hope you all find ur prince/princess charming!