We're Only Texting - Does He Like Me?

Sending short thoughts and emoticons on your phone isn't a full-on relationship, obviously. But this test will give you a pretty good idea how to tell if a guy likes you over texting. Hey, you have to start somewhere, right? Like the ancient Chinese proverb said, a journey of one thousand miles still starts with one step. Good luck!

  • 1
    How often do you two text?
  • 2
    How quickly does he text back?
    How quickly does he text back?
  • 3
    Does he ever tease you over text or use all caps sometimes?

  • 4
    Does he ask about your day or for details on what you're doing?
  • 5
    Does he try to get to know you better and ask you what you like?
  • 6
    Who starts most of the conversations?

  • 7
    Does he continue to talk to you even after a weird or awkward text?
  • 8
    Does he get excited whenever he realizes you have something in common?
  • 9
    Does he try to set up a time to hang out again?
  • 10
    When you try to set up hanging out, how does he respond?

  • 11
    Does he ever flirt with you? (I know, it's hard to tell over text)
  • 12
    Has he ever texted you late at night, like at/after midnight?
  • 13
    Does he normally text you from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., or is it only late night or early morning?
  • 14
    Does he ever try to make you feel better or more confident?

Comments (113)


48 days ago
I could already tell he liked me, I’ve known him for over 3 years and the way he just lights up when he sees me says everything I need to know lmao, plus he compliments me multiple times a day, when I say goofy things like “I’m so hot” he agrees, and when I forget something and he says you’re fine, I always say “Ik I am” and he still agrees 😂
64 days ago
Judith - Girl just ask him if he still likes the other girl and if he does then work hard to take your mind off of him and try to find someone else but if he doesn't like the other girl then ask him out and if he says no then just ask to still be friends and now you have your answer. Try to ask him out casually as if it's not a big deal so it's not that hard on you. And if he says that he does want to go out with you then scoreeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!
64 days ago
Well um I'm kind of only in 7th grade and there's this guy in my class who's really smart and sporty but he's not that popular but IDK why he isn't because he's literally the smartest in our grade and he's kinda hot and I also do a lot of sports and I haven't ever gotten a bad result on a test before (it is really hard to try to not sound braggy ab this rn) but we've been texting for a while and I basically know everything about him and vice versa but how on earth do I know if he likes me? We both have a dog and a cat, we both study a lot, we both don't have social media, we also both have an older sister (I also have two younger brothers), we both come to school at the same time every day without planning to, he has a close friend who likes my close friend, we both play cricket and football, we both love sushi (I mean who doesn't), we're in the same class for everything, we both like reading (I'll stop there because the list goes on and on). The only problem is we're both really insecure and shy and we barely interact through anything else but text, and we both don't have the courage to make a move so what do I do?
75 days ago
well idk if its true like this one time in the beginning (we've been talking for a month now) he said he like this other girl but i havent asked if he still likes her,but he texts me all the time cuz theres covid and we dont go physically to school but we stay up all night to talk and in the mornings too, he even calls me madame so what do yall think?
124 days ago
oh 💗! He likes me, but I love another. What can I do?
148 days ago
im so happy i know he has a crush on me...
149 days ago
i’ve had a crush for 4 years now and i confessed recent but he said that he only thinks of me as a friend and i’m in like 8th grade so it’s fine but how do i get over a crush? any tips?
153 days ago
@Staci Ana Yay! I'm so happy for you!
153 days ago
i know he Likes me and i love Hi m too but its so hard too tell over the text
154 days ago
He likes me!!!! It's been two years since we've known each other and now that he has my email address, he won't stop emailing me! I took this test, but only for email instead of text (since I don't have a phone lol). He is so sweet! And I think I might be in love!! Best things is, my whole family approves of him and so does his! Every one thinks we look like such a couple!!
160 days ago
162 days ago
Well, I like him as a friend.
162 days ago
I don't like him I love someone else but he likes me. What should I do? :(
166 days ago
iris good ty
185 days ago
How are ya’ll?
185 days ago
I have a crush he’s really sweet
187 days ago
go for it girl!!! hannah
187 days ago
Hannah- it's fine he doesn't deserve you, u are sweet and lovely! *_*
191 days ago
unfortunately, we broke up sadly ;( and now like literally 'm in the whole depressed world... Haawww unfortunately, we broke up sadly ;( and now like literally 'm in the whole depressed world... Haawww unfortunately, we broke up sadly ;( and now like literally 'm in the whole depressed world... Haawww
194 days ago
Dang it deleted the rest of my comment