Does he have a crush on you?

1

Does he ever call you by your name?

Like every time we talk he says my name at least once.
No he just says 'hey' or 'dude' or 'bro' or just starts talking to me without saying my name.
Yes he often refers to me by name.
Sometimes.
He uses some nickname for me.

2

Does he ever ask you silly questions just to have an excuse to talk to you?

Nothing comes to mind.
He's always coming up with excuses to talk, which makes him look super awkward LOL
Maybe once or twice... I think he knew the answer to those questions.
I don't think so?
Oh? Is that why he's constantly asking me stupid questions? I thought he was just stupid.

3

Have you noticed him fidgeting around you?

What does fidgeting mean?
But he's always like that. Nervous is part of who he is.
Yeah he sometimes plays with his hair or fixes his shirt when I'm nearby..
This one time he kept obsessively fixing his shirt or awkwardly trying to check himself out in the reflection of a window. It was so ridiculous I couldn't help but notice.
No he seems very relaxed and calm around me.

4

Is he even into girls? (Your gender)

He flirts a lot with other girls (people of my gender).
He explicitly told me he's not gay. (He told me he is into people of my gender.)
I don't know.
He told me he's gay (or asexual or not into my gender).
I once caught him staring at something explicit (related to my gender), like a beautiful woman in a magazine or something like that.

5

What's his age?

A lot younger than me.
Oh he's a lot older than me.
A few years younger.
We're the same age.
Just a little older than me.

6

Do you ever notice other girls acting strange or rude to you whenever you spend time hanging out with him? Almost like they seem jealous of you? That you get to spend time with him... If you're not a girl, do you notice other people treating you bad and acting jealous that you get to spend time with him?

Some people are mean to me, but I don't think it has anything to do with this guy.
Yes! OMG I had to start avoiding this guy to stop being bullied by random girls who don't even know me...
I've never really noticed.
There's this one girl who hangs around him and she doesn't like me. But he told me they're just friends.
His homies sometimes act jealous when he spends time with me.

7

Does he talk to you about his future plans and goals? Does he ask you about yours?

Only to be nice, or because he had to.
He asks me more about my short term goals like what I'll be doing over the weekend.
Nope...
Yes. He told me about his siblings and their careers and what he hopes to do later and he asked me about my future plans.
We're just living in the moment. I don't think he has any future goals.

8

Has he ever tried to touch you?

We never even shook hands. He avoids physical contact like I got Covid or something.
When we danced, that one time.
We hug frequently.
He taps me on the shoulder when he needs something.
No more than shaking hands at our first meeting.

9

Coincidence? Does he keep showing up in places where you normally go?

I keep running into this guy.
I feel like I'm being stalked.
No? I haven't seen him around much.
At least once. Could have been a coincidence.
Yeah but we are both supposed to be there.

10

When he talks with you, what is he like?

Goofy, flirty, life of the party. Running around like a goofball making a lot of noise.
Kind and friendly, inviting. You feel like it's safe to express yourself around him and he won't judge you for being weird.
Like he's constantly on edge and making you feel like you have to do better. And he's judging you and evaluating your every move.
He seems a bit cold and distant. He talks at a minimum and doesn't really seem to listen.
Emotionally closed off like he's wearing a mask and suppressing his feelings. He can come across as a bit robotic and stoic.

11

Does he know that you like him? And how does he handle that?

I don't think he knows how I feel. He seems very oblivious.
His behavior towards me has not changed ever since he found out that I might be into him. He still treats me with the same respect as before.
He has become super shy and flustered around me, like he no longer knows how to act around me. Ever since he understood that I like him back.
What? I obviously don't even like him. I'm just taking this quiz to figure out if he likes me.
He knows. And he smiles smugly. He appreciates the attention.

12

Does he ever do anything for you?

We both help each other out. It's not a big deal.
He talks a lot about wanting to help me, but I can't recall a single instance when he actually helped me out.
Only when he has time.
Yes I can always rely on his help or just for him to listen how my day went.
I didn't expect him to, but this one time he really saved me.

13

How long have you known him? And how long have you been talking without anything clearly romantic happening between you two?

I've known him for years and we've only been friends.
I just met him recently.
The vibe between us is flirty but rarely goes beyond that. I am considering making the first move because he seems shy.
I've known him for awhile but there were good reasons why he couldn't pursue me before: either one of us was in a relationship or there were other reasons we weren't allowed to date. Like we started out as coworkers or he was my boss before.
We've been hanging out for awhile now.

14

Has he ever brought up other girls (people of your gender) in conversation with you? Has he ever suggested he likes someone?

Once? He was talking about a mutual friend we share.
He keeps bringing up this girl in every conversation. Even after I told him he sounds obsessed with her.
No. Never.
No but I see him flirt a lot with this other girl. And it's making me feel bad. Like he doesn't want me or something.
He sometimes talks about girls in general. He told me what he likes in girls.

15

When you hang out with him, is it typically in a group setting? Or more one on one?

We do both in group meetings and one on one.
I don't think we've ever been one on one.
Mostly in a group. He makes no moves to get me alone with him.
He's always trying to catch me alone. But if he can't, then he will still chat with me in a group setting.
He acts different when we're alone. Then he pretends to not know me when he's around his friends.

16

Has he ever commented on the clothes you wear? Said anything about your outfit?

He said my clothes looked nice, or he commented about my outfit in a way that made me feel better. Made me feel seen.
No. Nothing at all.
He complimented my style once, but I got the impression he was only fishing for compliments because he wanted one in return.
I don't think he notices what I wear.
He mocked my outfit or my choice in clothing. He played it off as a joke, but that comment still hurt.

17

The gifts he brings you...

Are very thoughtful and like he knows you and knows what you like. And it shows.
Are things he wished he would receive himself.
What gifts?
Generic shit anyone would like. Like a gift card or a box of chocolates.
Awkward weird shit that makes you wonder what the hell he was smoking when he bought this for you.

18

How does he react when you give him a gift?

He cherishes your gift and you frequently see him carry it around and proudly show it off to people like a badge of honor.
He refuses your gift because he says it's too much and he can't possibly accept this much from you when you're not even that close.
He says thank you to be polite, but then he acts like you never gave him anything and you did nothing for him. And you never see him use your gift.
He gets super flustered and uneasily whispers that he forgot to buy a gift for you.
He accepts your gift, then he tries to gift you something of equal value.

19

How do his parents treat you? How does his family react to you?

His mother literally hugs you and talks super positively to you.
You've never met his family.
Nobody in his family likes you. They're all acting hostile and weird and this is your first meeting with them.
His dad seems to like you a lot... Maybe a little bit too much. You get the impression his dad is trying to set you up with his son.
His mother doesn't seem to like you very much. The rest of his family seems neutral or friendly.

20

He invites you to hang out at....

A sports event or some group gathering where you can meet his friends and hang out together.
A bar or night club.
The office or the public library or the cafeteria at his workplace.
A trendy coffee place or somewhere to have lunch or an early dinner.
The movies or the park.

21

Does he make a big deal about who is going to pay for everything?

He gets really upset about this and he can be very stingy with his money.
He always wants me to pay for myself.
He doesn't really care either way. Sometimes I pay for us both, sometimes he pays. Whatever feels natural for the time.
He always wants to pay for everything. I have to fight him over the bill.
We just naturally split the bill.

22

Does he check that you got home safely?

He told me he thinks I can protect myself.
Yes he always sends me a text to ask if I got home ok.
He offered to drive me home or walk me to my door, but I declined his offer. And he hasn't offered again.
I made it clear to him that I don't appreciate it when guys do that. I like my independence and I don't need a second mother to look over me.
Not really. He doesn't seem to care.

23

Have you ever seen him at his worst?

He hides his bad habits from me.
His beauty routine is more serious than mine. I sometimes feel uncomfortable because the dude smells better than me, his clothes always look ironed, his nails are done, and his hair looks fresh whenever I'm around.
I think I've seen him upset once or twice. It's not a regular thing and it wasn't extreme or anything.
I've seen him yell and scream at people, cuss someone out, or be extremely rude or obnoxious.
Yes I've seen him drunk, and broke, and stinking of his own piss and in clothing he has worn for several days.

24

Do you ever feel like you are tagging along? Following him around...

Yes sometimes I feel like he'd rather just hang with his homies and not with me. And I'm just there.
It's more like we seek out each other and he makes time for me by canceling on his friends.
Usually he invites me to hang out, and when I'm there, he showers me with attention.
It's more of a mutual thing where we tag along with each other. Sometimes he follows around my friend group. So it's balanced like that.
Sometimes I feel like his cheerleader just watching along from the sidelines as he gets to run the show, or get in on the action.

25

Would you be surprised if he asked you out on a romantic date tomorrow?

A little. Because he's never expressed any romantic feelings before, or it would be weird or inappropriate because we work together or he's my boss. Now is not the time.
Pleasantly surprised? Haha, but I hope he does make a move soon.
I'd be shocked. I would need a moment to think before responding.
Never going to happen. Don't get my hopes up!
Nah, not surprised. But I'd totally get flustered and self conscious of how I look and if he's even attracted to me.