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Issy, if you somehow see this, I really really really like you 😊
(Also I'm loving all the stories in the comments!)
So, this girl's name is Ellee, and she's a year older than me. I met her when I was a Freshman and she was a Sophomore. And I did like her, and I went as far as to plan special dates and such for just the two of us...I mean, I WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF WINTER TRYING TO FIND A ROMANTIC SPOT WITH CHERRY BLOSSOMS!!!
Sorry about the all-caps, lol. Anywho, though, I found that we weren't going anywhere. Like, I found that her phone was always on "Do Not Disturb" so it was completely anonymous and unpredictable when she would respond, and sort of a few other things.
As someone who thrives off of a deep, understanding, emotional connection with my lover/Significant Other, I really wanted our friendship to blossom into something more.
I didn't think she wanted to go forward anymore, so, I told her that I was no longer interested in her, and she said she understood, because, Ellee is probably one of the sweetest human beings you will ever come to meet! She's beautiful, sweet, courageous, strong, generous, and she's an amazing artist, too!
She sketches, and sometimes I walk into classes that she was previously in, and her sketches and art is displayed about the whiteboard, and I take a while to sit there and admire every detail. Every line and such, and she has such a unique style of sketching. She's a more Anime/Animation sort of artist, but it's so cool, and the colors she chooses have me wishing to see more.
But, when I told her that I no longer liked her anymore, I soon got together with this other guy (for I am considered Pansexual, but I don't like labels, so I refuse to put a specific kind/type of sexuality on myself) and she saw us, and it hurt me. It hurt me so much.
Like..like I betrayed her or something. We didn't talk for a while after that, but I still felt myself, my gaze, lingering whenever she walked by, or came into a classroom.
If you skip to a couple months later, however, I broke up with my boyfriend, and she and I are talking now. We are both so Lesbian and proud. Lol. But I don't have the guts to even tell her any of this. I would hate to be inconsiderate of her feelings, but sometimes I feel as though she would understand. I'm not a player. I'm anything but.
I am actually really selfless and scared of closeness with people outside the few people who I actually genuinely love/care about.
I respect Ellee, but what the Hell do I do now that I've figured out how much I still like her?
i love you, breh.
-Lily ❤
I don't really know why I'm writing this here. I've been venting like this on my own in a private journal, mostly because I don't want to actually face whatever this is and telling it to anyone I really know would be really admitting it. This and my journaling is just screaming into the void. If anyone does have some kind of advice for whatever I just wrote I'd apreciate it a lot lol.
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