Do I Like Her? Quiz (For Girls)

Sometimes it can be super-confusing when you’re a girl—AND you think you might like another girl as more than just a friend. Life is confusing enough, but if what I just described is your current situation, take this test to find out the truth once and for all!

  • 1
    Do you think about her often?
    Do you think about her often?
  • 2
    Are you uncomfortable with the idea that you might be gay/bisexual?
  • 3
    Do you talk to her? (Texting counts)

  • 4
    Do you think she’s pretty?
  • 5
    Have you told her you like her?
  • 6
    Do you want her to know that you like her?

  • 7
    Do your friends know you like her?
  • 8
    Do you feel uncomfortable when your friends talk about having crushes on guys?
  • 9
    Do your parents know?
  • 10
    Are your parents for or against LGBTQ+ folks?

  • 11
    If your friends don’t know, are you embarrassed to tell them?
  • 12
    Are there other girls or boys in your community (neighborhood, town, school, etc.) that have come out as LGBTQ+?
  • 13
    Do you think you have a crush on her?
  • 14
    How do you feel about this?
  • 15
    Lastly, did you enjoy the test, and was it relatable?

Comments (161)


2 hours ago
I want to come out. I am SOOOOOO scared. I don’t think I ever will. 😢😭😢
3 days ago
I don’t know if I like her
I don’t know if I want to tell her I like her.

I know I’m not gay- I’ve only felt aesthetic attraction towards women, and I might be on the aroace spectrum. But somehow, I might’ve gotten attached to my best friend. Too attached, maybe.

Last night I really wanted to cuddle her and I couldn’t go to sleep for hours. But I don’t think of anything further than cuddles or light kisses with her. I’m not attracted to women, and I don’t think about men when I *ahem* either. undefinedI’m straight, but barely.

I want to be more than friends, but not lovers. What kind of confession would that be if I told her? Plus, she’s queer and has had both girlfriends and boyfriends before and I think she would’ve said something if she felt anything towards me so the chances aren’t looking so hot.

Also, my parents are homophobic which makes confessing impossible. And I couldn’t handle the rejection if she said no 😭.

So I guess… I just wait until this “feeling” fades. Why couldn’t it have just been an easy peasy crush?
5 days ago
Okay i got another Update ik nobody asked for:
After she confessed we started real dating and spending more time with each other.
My Best friends got jealoud and mad at me which made us get into a big fight. I didnt think it was that Bad of a fight so i left them alone for a coulle days. They started ignoring me and i was fine with it i didnt even care. But than they decided to out me to my really homophobic family, i couldnt belive it. I didnt think they would go that far. I was mad at them but also mad at myself i mean it is kind of also my fault for thinking those people were my friends. Anyways i had to go to foster care cuz my family got really toxic and did things i didnt think they would ever do to their own daughter.
Now i cant meet her nor can i talk to her cuz they take my Phone really early and she always has school all day. I miss her and dont know what to do.
9 days ago
so much help!!! thanks for making this for all of us LGBTQ+ peeps who are a lil confuzzled. :D
14 days ago
This quiz helped me alot I've been confused about this girlll at school and now I'm not worried anymore
22 days ago
My friend just took this quiz and I already sensed that she likes her friend in school but she is still not thinking she does. How can I help her relizie that she likes her? Also do I just leave them be and don't but in or help?
24 days ago
Thanks @MashedPotato
24 days ago
i live in D.C. where it is super liberal and i'd say about 1/3 of the student body at my high school is part of the LGBTQ+ community. i know that if i came out, and i know i am lucky af for this, that my family and friends would all support me. Tbh, i'm just really confused. i use (she/her) and I know I like guys. i've been questioning my sexuality for a while now, and i assumed i was straight but idk there is this one person (they/she) who i'm friends with and.... i don't know how to put my thoughts into words lol they are just awesome. i feel rly happy when i'm with them but i don't know if i think of them in that way. it sounds like denial but i honestly think it might be me wanting to like them bc of our platonic connection. Anywayssss that was a rant. Forgive my abbreviations haha. Also here's my advice to some of the past comments:

@DaConfused girl i'm really sry that you're in that position, it sucks. i would honestly say that there's no easy answer, but the best option is to be you. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay or bi or pan or whatever floats your boat. If you don't want to deal with it, maybe just wait a bit and see if there's someone you like who's gay or into other girls and what not. Not to say you should deny who you are at all, but if you want to come out and you don't know how ppl are gonna react maybe wait until there's someone you rly like who is your reason to do so. Not to say you shouldn't tell them who you are no matter what. Just do what you feel is right, and if they don't appreciate you for who you are, it's tough i know, but being you is better than having them.

@suffering i'm getting cliche movie vibes of falling over and being caught lol. it sounds like this person likes you obviously you know your situation better than i do. i hope it works out!
28 days ago
Hi Elizabeth it’s me Kai- 😳
29 days ago
Okay, I did the test again and I got the same result that I might like her. Well, I'm done for. People, I am NOT against people who are queer, I actually ship them a LOT, but I don't want to be one MYSELF. It's really stressful. I really feel weird that I could like her, she's so straight. I haven't told this to anybody because if anyone finds out I'm literally, you know the words.
29 days ago
Okay, I might like her. I do feel like I do but it's literally forbidden by my religion and parents and everyone, and I don't want to be opposite of the rules. She's very straight, and until a few months ago that's what I also thought. Does anyone have a few ideas of getting this feeling away from me? I am supposed to have a crush on a guy-friend, but I really don't know if I like him anymore. I don't want to be les or bi, my other bff is already but I don't want to be too. Both of my other good friends are kind of against that idea and I don't want to disgust them, I love them. Please tell me if there is any way I can get this done for once and for all.
36 days ago
Ok so there’s this really pretty person (looks AFAB but I don’t know their pronouns) and I can’t get them out of my mind. I went to homecoming for high school just a bit ago and my friend told them that I wanted to dance with them. I tripped over a table when I backed away, but they grabbed my hand and pulled me into the crowd of people to dance. I’m really glad it was dark because I was probably as red as a tomato. Any advice?
45 days ago
Okay so - ugh xD sorry but idk how to wrote that, i didnt talk about it with Anyone yet so im Kinda of nervous xD aaaaaannddddd i guess that its coming out, or something i realy dont know xD but i know one thing I LIKE GIRLS and i have a teriblle crush on my friend, seriosly im just simping over her. I have crush on her for like past two years but i realised that its crush just like month ago because before i was just like NaH ShEs JusT a FRIEND nothing MORE than came pandemic and we didnt see each other so stoped having crush on her but when we came back to school (btw how anyone can get chemistry) this feeling CAME BACK EVEN WORST when i see her my hart is beating faster, i feel butterflys in my stomach and im just getting nervous. Sometimes She is wearing to big dresses what mean that sometimes its possible to see her bra, and when its happening i just cant stop my self from looking. ( but not in some weird creepy way ) im still cathing my self on looking at her lips, her beautiful blue eyes ... bra ... and you know what more. Even now when im wroting it i feel like a dumpling beacouse She is too cute! A few days ago when i go to sleep i even had a dream where im deciding to come out to my parents after me and her start dating and then „ making out „ with each other, after that i start feeling even more uncomfortable when im over her. She is this type of person who realy like touching their friends so sometimes She is falling asleep on my arm or holding my hand, and when its happening im just like in heaven. I realy want to be with her and tell her how i feel but i dont wanna mess it up, i think that She is not sraight but idk in what kind of way, meybe She is just sraight demisexual or asexual or something, idk but im soooooo happy and proud of my self that i finally said it out loud to someone, i feel so much better, im still qestioning my sexuality because i still didnt figure out if im a lesbian or just bisexual but more into girls =/ whatever, im happy that quiz’s like this exist! secure place where poeple can came out of the closet for the first time, even if just as anonymous c: BTW sorry if i wrote something wrong , English is not my mother langue xD
46 days ago
IM SO ANNOYED idk the difference between romantic and platonic feelings. I mean she shows up in all the scenarios i make to love songs but still idk...undefined
48 days ago
Hello BellsRing! They sound like a lovely person so I think you can just keep doing what you are food and remember to be yourself!
48 days ago
Awwwwww yay! Sometimes things happen when they are least expected :-)
49 days ago
Update to the girl i like:

We talked a lot in the past few days and i started to notice her getting nervous around me. I didnt think much of it because i am also a really shy person soemtimes. She away for the whole summer break and came back a few days ago. We met imideatly After she came back. She went to my place and we had a really good time actaully. It was fun but we didnt had much time alomd beacuse i have a little sister that couldnt leave us alone for a sec.
Anyways she slept over at my house and we had to sleep in the SAME bed. I was nervous cuz i didnt want to make her uncomftible in any way. My sister slept in the same room as us which was kinda annoying. Me and her couldnt sleep so we stayed up all night. In the same night she CONFESSED to me. She told me how she Was in love with me for a while but didnt want to say it because she didnt want to make it weird between us two. I also confessed to her and we wanted to go to sleep when she suddenly stood up and KISSED me. She told me she loved me and went to bed. I still cant really belive what happend.
50 days ago
Hi! Okay, so, I met this nonbinary person 4 weeks ago and immediately felt something. I know it sounds odd, but that's what happened! So I gave them a note saying I wanted to be friends and they gave me back their number! I didn't even ASK for that! Anyway, we started texting a bunch, but everytime we were close in school, I would just panic and act like they didn't exist. I wanted sososososo bad to talk to them in person, but I wasn't sure if they would even want me around! Then, right when I was about to ask them if we could actually interact in person, they texted me FIRST saying they wanted to hang out! But when it came to the day we had lunch together, they were on their phone. THE WHOLE TIME. they had a good reason though, their friend was in the hospital. They call her their "girlfriend" but they have made it extremely clear to me multiple times that they are just friends. I didn't want to annoy them or overwhelm them, so when I got home I didn't text them. BUT I REAAAAALLY WANTED TO! IT WAS ACTUALLY LIKE PHYSICALLY PAINFUL! and then... bleoop! "I had a really nice time with you! Let's do it again!" AND. WE. DID. I made a card game to get to know them and they liked it! They ACTUALLY liked it! Everytime I talk to them, they're always on their phone and rarely looks up, but today was different! We had a full on real person conversation! I kept trying to look her in the eye but they would just look away and smile a bit. I WANT to think they like me, but who knows. Can you help? Anyone?
50 days ago
Thanks for the advice :) I really need it
53 days ago
Awwwwwww that’s wonderful advice! :-)