Am I in Love with My Best Friend? Quiz (LGBTQ+ Edition)

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As if love weren't already complicated enough, you think you might have fallen for your best friend! Don't worry, it's only natural to be confused about the person you're the closest to on the planet. Take this test now to find out what's actually behind these loving feelings and whether they're real. (Spoiler alert: It's OK if they are!) P.S.: This test was created especially for members of the LGBTQ+ community.

  • 1
    If your bestie said she liked you, how would you react?
    If your bestie said she liked you, how would you react?
  • 2
    She tells you that she has a crush on someone else. How do you feel about that?
  • 3
    How long have you known her?

  • 4
    Have you considered what would happen if the two of you got together?
  • 5
    How much do you have in common?
  • 6
    Is she straight?

  • 7
    How do you feel when you think about her?
  • 8
    When you picture a date with her, what's going on?
  • 9
    Can you picture spending the rest of your life with her? If so, what are you doing?
  • 10
    When you look at her, what do you see?

Comments (90)


231 days ago
took the test two times guess im gay for my best friend whoopdy doo!
235 days ago
OMG we're both SO gay and she knows. she datin some1 rn. we dated before but we didn't have a connection like we do now. I broke up with her and broke her heart, but we're still amazing friends. I don't know if i like her but she's cute and omg we have evrything in common. we like anime, we read the same books, we have a similar music taste, we can talk about literally anyting, she's so fun to hang out with, she'd so amazing to vent to, i wanna do so much (non-sexual/non-romantic) stuff with her. i feel like maybe we could be a good couple, but idek. i want to figure out my feelings but god I would rather die than lose her.
240 days ago
I think I like her.. but she's straight. I've been crushing on her for ages but don't want to ruin our friendship, I've told her how I feel before but she's shot me down. I think she's forgotten about it but I feel horrible. I don't know what to do!
264 days ago
i think i might like my best friend??? I honestly have no idea. we've been friends for about a year and a half. we've always "flirted" with each other but that's just what friends do right? She also has a long distance boyfriend. they are about to meet for the first time and i just feel terrible but i don't know why. idk this is annoying. I hate feelings. i haven't even let myself think about if i like her or not.
278 days ago
I wanna die why doesnt she like me
btw someone wrote I just kissed my best friend three times. I am like 💑 my best friend/crush is an introvert and a germaphob so we will probably never kiss out of fun...not even when alcohol is involved (I tried tho)
not to be rude but I am feeling good I am not alone with this problem. Thanks for the support haha
we will get through this
280 days ago
285 days ago
she has a crush on me, she hasnt told me outright but shes really bad at hiding it. everyone we know says we would make a great couple too, problem is im not sure if i really like her that way. i know i shouldnt feel pressured into dating someone just because theyre into me but a part of me is curious. we're close enough that i will probably develop feelings for her eventually because that has always inevitably happened between me and my closest friends, and i guess i just don't wanna lose the opportunity to be with her while i still have it. but i also dont want to date her if my feelings for her arent authentic, because i know it would hurt if she found out i was leading her on in the hopes that i eventually start liking her. i think i just want a girlfriend for the sake of being in a relationship and not because i actually like her as a person. she is my best friend and i will always care about her, just not necessarily romantically. at the same time, i like it when people like me, and if she has feelings for me then it makes me feel pressured to reciprocate. idk. maybe ill see if shes down to be friends with benefits to test the waters and then see how i feel. shes not really my type but she has a wonderful personality and i feel like we understand each other better than anyone else. i do care about her and i want to make her happy, but at the same time i dont want to end up breaking her heart if we date and i end up not feeling the same. maybe its best to just ask her and see what she thinks we should do.
289 days ago
You have more than just a little crush on her, you're downright in love with her and that's a beautiful thing. Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel. She's pan and legit the most amazing person ever. She overheard a conversation and knows that I like her. I really wanna kiss/date her but I'm too scared to ask her out. HELP!
294 days ago
I like her so much and She's wlw too but I don't want to ruin our friendship. She's my best friend and the most precious person to me apart from my sibling
296 days ago
Ahahahahahahahhahahahaha nice when you like someone straight right totally awesome I mean it will never happen but I’ll find new people at school anyway
312 days ago
She has a boyfrienddd... and we grew up together so if I would tell her my feelings, it would ruin literally everything. God I think I will just supress my feelings, hoping they would disappear...
316 days ago
I got downright in love with her, She has a bf, I am screwed and ughhh
320 days ago
ngllllll i mightve gotten some feelings for my we have so much in common etc.
320 days ago
She literally has a boyfriend. but she's so affectionate and caring!!! Why am I like this ;-;
326 days ago
i don’t know if i like her. but i know that i’ve been in love w her before. i cant like her again it won’t work out.
364 days ago
im in love with my bestie
369 days ago
I’ve been MADLY IN LOVE WITH HER since may 2021, and since then she has had 2 boyfriends and I broke up with my gf TWICE because I thought I had a chance on her or because she broke up with her bf.
376 days ago
why do i like her even tho she likes someone else uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! it hurts
384 days ago
I've known her for a bit since I was younger, and for at least a year now I have had some feelings for her. I don't even know if they are feelings, it might be a phase but some parts of me hope not. When I think of her and when I'm with her I feel confused but wish she was with me for the rest of my life in a loving way. She means the world to me, and we don't talk that much anymore, but my feelings will not fade. The test results said I'm in love with her and honestly I'm not surprised.

I just wish I had someone to talk to about this because I'm pretty sure both of my parents are homophobic and I feel weird opening up about this to my sister. I don't talk to many of my friends because I don't like coming towards people myself. I can't talk to my best friend about it because I don't want to lose her. Sometimes I just feel so alone, and I know it's my fault. When I realized I might be bisexual was when I was with her. I think about her night and day. I love her so much, even if she doesn't know it. I am an introvert with social anxiety and have had multiple panic attacks before because I was around too many people and 2 mental breakdowns. She makes me feel at ease and forget about all of those things, I just can't lose her so I have to hide these feelings a little longer.

I have had some friends like her before, and now, but I only feel that way towards her. I guess it's because we've been friends for a long time? I don't know. All I know is I feel so much better because this is the first time I've let it out. If you have read this, thank you so much for putting your time into reading this! It means a lot to me, goodbye.

a stranger :)

ps. she says she's still thinking about her sexuality. what to dooo??!?
387 days ago
@ady the bady EXCUSE ME, *ONLY* THREE TIMES? I've been friends with her for 9 years and we haven't kissed ONCE. You're on an AWESOME way to go. Maybe she likes girls too but needs to figure out herself. :D