Am I In Love With My Best Friend? (LGBTQ+ Edition)

Oh my, as if love weren't already complicated enough, you think you might have fallen for your best friend!
Don't worry, it's only natural to be confused about the person you're the closest to on the planet. And those feelings are begging to be explored!
Take this test now to find out what's actually behind these loving feelings and whether they're real. (Spoiler alert: It's OK if they are!)
So go ahead and find out the truth!

  • 1
    If your bestie said she liked you, how would you react?
    If your bestie said she liked you, how would you react?
  • 2
    She tells you that she has a crush on someone else. How do you feel about that?
  • 3
    How long have you known her?

  • 4
    Have you considered what would happen if the two of you got together?
  • 5
    How much do you have in common?
  • 6
    Is she straight?

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    How do you feel when you think about her?
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    When you picture a date with her, what's going on?
  • 9
    Can you picture spending the rest of your life with her? If so, what are you doing?
  • 10
    When you look at her, what do you see?

Comments (103)


8 days ago
I have a crush on my friend who is bi and has a boyfriend so we cant be together so i cant tell then and ruin our friendship...
40 days ago
Man 😶AM I BI?????? I always thought i was probably MOST LIKELY straight but wasnt entirely sure my entire life. Now im getting closer with this girl and just 😔she says shes straight but the way she speaks and everytjing makes me think otherwise I mean sometimes she kind of jokingly flirts with me and I know its a joke but 🤨is it... is it really????? The idea of being with her makes me happy , i want to actually be with her... but ??? I cant tell if its just me wanting to be ina relationship bc im lonely or if its me liking her a tad bit 🥺 also man if u see this. If u see gonna scream. PLZ DONT TELL ME UR GONNA READ THIS!!! HAHAHSHJAHA (if u know who i am and ur not her please dont confront me 😰😰😰do a girl a favour I STILL DONT KNOW IF IM BI OR SMT IDK) anyways im unsure. I dont even know why im posting a comment. Its anonymous anyways 😚who cares. But anyways. I have a big💑feeling its unrequited so something in me is kind of stopping me from liking her until she says something or shows the same ish feelings yk? Its sad because eitherway we are gonna seperate in months because of reasons. Honestly the platonic and romantic lines are just kind of submerging i cant really tell which is which, yk i really appreciate and love my friends so sometimes i confuse it for romantic love WELL ANYWAYS time to share my thoughts to the public 😰😰😰i hope i dont regret this
44 days ago
i am in love with my new best friend she has boyfriend but she tell me she in love with me her family doesnt like lgbt.
52 days ago
No feelings just my bestie
54 days ago
I'm so stressed, I know there's no way she'll ever like me: She sees me as her sister. When I came out as a lesbian when we were recording a video se came out as bisexual, and it was so funny to me.... I'm so 💋 scared 😭
86 days ago
i'm in love with my best friend and i kNOW she's gay omfg
86 days ago
If you’re reading this- I’ve always known there was something special about you, ever since we met. Whenever we’re together it’s electric and I can’t help but fall into your beautiful green eyes. I wish I could tell you how I feel but I don’t want to loose you and I don’t know if it’s true myself.
87 days ago
okay so. my situation is kinda weird. we have known eachother for 5 years now and have dated and broken up with eachother twice.(she is bisexual, questioning lesbian tho, and i am lesbian? i think not sure). We still are best friends and consider our friendship the strongest ever, regardless of breakups. i have not felt any romantic feelings towards her since our last break up (3-4 years ago), but i think since february ive noticed my feelings for her creeping up again. Worst part is that she has a boyfriend now. They have been together for 2 years.
he was from a neighboring country and has moved to our country since may. he lives with her now, and i know that their relationship is falling apart a little, because my best friend also has feelings for me. i dont think she ever stopped loving me, as i was the one to break up originally. which now i feel 🦄 about, but at the time i had a really hard time differentiating between romantic and platonic feelings. this is also why i came to this quiz.. kind of? i dont know what love feels like exactly, but what i do know is that i really wanna hug her and hold her and kiss her. like . URGH. i miss her when im not with her i miss her physical touch. okay rant over. back on topic of this entire mess,,,,
her boyfriend (straight.....) knows about her feelings towards me and isnt comfortable with an open relationship. i have only heard this through her cuz he doesnt talk about his relationship with my friend that much.
alright, dont get me wrong. hes super nice and is great to be around but jesus christ can he just. AARGH can he just leave. i know my friend has baisically decided on me at this point but the guy lives in her flat. so hes just saving money now to get a cheap flat but the housingmarket is so unbelievebly awful nowadays theres baisically nothing. idk i just want him to get out faster. maybe im selfish. but like. me and her,,,, AARRGGHHH i just wanna cuddle her and hold her and make her feel important. like urgh AARGH like i think i could treat her better than her boyfriend ever could.
we have this crazy tension sometimes like. ARGH like we just look into each others eyes and its like we wait who does the first move. BUT WE CANT. or rather i try to restrain myself. because i know its like. wrong to kiss her when shes in a relationship. god i just. wanna live with her i cant stand being away from her or holding back my feelings. i dont even know if this is love but if it is hell yeah dude lets go

im gonna try to figure out this situation, one step at a time with everyone involved, so dont worry!! its possible i think.
idk ive never shared anything online really but just needed to get this off my chest.

if anyone ever reads through this entire thing, im sorry, this mustve been terribly mushed together because as of writing this it is 3:25 a.m. thanks for reading anyway, and i wish all of you a great night/ day. remember kids, go kiss girls!!!!
92 days ago
So, I am a bisexual and I don't know my Bestfriend's sexuality (I just hope she is not straight) and I know that I have fallen for her. I didn't realised at start cause she was my first bestfriend. So I thought that it's just friendship. And then as the days passed by, my feelings for her became stronger and stronger. She knows that I love her as a bestfriend but I don't think she realise that I love her as more than bestfriends. I just can't stop thinking about her. She is in my mind every second. I always thought she doesn't know how much I lover her but at this point even I don't know how much I love her. And at this point, my love has no limit. I would die to save her. She is my everything. If anything or nothing happened, I would just kiss her photos and everything will eventually feel okay to me. I just want to take care of her and love her. She is already suffering through a lot and I want to kill all her problems and hold her in my arms. I seriously want to kiss her till she realises that she is loved and she is not alone. I have even planned our future together. I know my dad will never support me for loving a gurl but I was ready to introduce her to him. I was ready for that scolding and beating and all. But I knew at last, my love for her will win and he will accept it someday. undefinedI am a student and I am studying hard for us to be true one day but we eventually stopped talking cause her dad got to know about me. And right now, I can't stop crying. I always cried a lot because of how lucky I was to have a gurl like her. She is the reason of all my emotions. But all stories doesn't have a happy ending. If she ever reads this, I just want to say that I am proud of you. Please don't give up on your passion. I will always love you like the first time. It was beautiful. Don't be insecure for your body, I have always loved you for the way you are. I might not be good at expressing but I promise that I will always secretly protect you. I love you.
100 days ago
I am in love with her, says this test and a few more, but i have no idea if that is so but i have this feelings if i like her or not around 6 months because we had a sleepover and it was aroud late in the night and whe were talking with another girl and I was looking at her face and in her eyes how I never looked at her and I was like 💗 why, am I in love with her??!!btw I'm sorry if there are mistakes in this wrinting , English is not my first language.
107 days ago
Idk, I think I'm in love with my best friend. I. Don't know what to think, or when I started knowing but it's all unfortunately real! She's so wonderful and I'm happy just to be around her. But I think she's probably straight(?) and if not mad homophobic (our families are crazy religious.) i don't know what I'm going to do she's my favorite person alive
116 days ago
I’m bi for context and I like her a lot but I also like a boy. Whenever we have sleepovers we sleep in her bed and I had a urge to kiss her when we were sleeping. I want to be her girlfriend and take her shopping and have coffee dates and boba dates but I’m conflicted between her and the boy. Both are extremely important to me and are friends of mine. I think she’s honestly beautiful and I have a strong desire to flirt with her. I wanna touch her hair and do her makeup and just kiss her lips. Sorry for this long🦄ramble.
125 days ago
My best friend is soooooo cute and I love her ( btw she's bisexual) but she has a gf and idk how to tell her that I have a crush on her, every time we get the same bus to school I start blushing (I sit next to her in German and Science and she sits behind me in history) we always laugh together and I love her a lot but I don't wanna ruin our friendship by telling her that I like her. Someone tell me what to do plz
199 days ago
My friend who I met when we started middle school together but we didn’t go to the same elementary. We were in the same after school programs, she was always so funny and helped me with things and I would always get so nervous around her. I wish that we were better friends cause apparently I do like her according to this quiz and many many others.
201 days ago
So, I don't really think I like her, but my friends always tell me that I like her. I don't think so. Why? Reason 1: I've known her since we were kids. She's an amazing person and has been my best friend since we were small. I don't wanna risk that for my feelings. Reason 2: She has a boyfriend. She tells me about him ALL the time and instead of feeling bad or jealous I feel happy. I always tease her about him. Reason 3:Idk. I'm Bi and shes straight which is okay with me but i'm so confused because my friends tell me I don't treat her as my friend....whatever that means. (sry for any mistakes in my writing English is not my first language.)
209 days ago
idek how I feel, I had a dream in which she kissed me and then left to watch some dancing and I waited for her. actually so confused!!!!
216 days ago
If you want to read all this I’d really appreciate if you also helped me out. So, I’ve known my friend for 4 years. I’m lesbian and she’s bi. We are always flirting with each other but in a joking, friend kind of way. But I find her so beautiful and whenever she fake-flirts with me I wish it was real. I’m not sure if it’s a real crush tho because it doesn’t feel like the others I’ve had. I’m not nervous around her or anything like that because she is my friend who I am always comfortable around. I’m not going to tell her because I don’t want to ruin our friendship. I’m hoping she secretly feels the same way and will confess first but I doubt it, I think she only thinks of me as a friend. Please help with my dilemma!
216 days ago
if you want to read all this I’d really appreciate if you also helped me out. So, I’ve known my friend for 4 years. I’m lesbian and she’s bi. We are always flirting with each other but in a joking, friend kind of way. But I find her so beautiful and whenever she fake-flirts with me I wish it was real. I’m not sure if it’s a real crush tho because it doesn’t feel like the others I’ve had. I’m not nervous around her or anything like that because she is my friend who I am always comfortable around. I’m not going to tell her because I don’t want to ruin our friendship. I’m hoping she secretly feels the same way and will confess first but I doubt it, I think she only thinks of me as a friend. Please help with my dilemma!
221 days ago
Idk what to do they said they like me and I rejected as a friend and now I'm like. . . Why the hell did I do that??? I think I like them but Idk it's sooo complicated I think I'm scared of relationships and this person has been with loads of other people and i . . . I don't know whether to tell them?? :(

Also I hope that stuff works out for all u guys :)
242 days ago
I think I Have a Crush on my Best Friend that I have known for Approximately 3 Years. We Gave each other names from Demon Slayer Anime and She's Nezuko 💖and I'm Zenitsu⚡️. I didn't realised it earlier but after the nicknames, I started to act all lovey Dovey around her, And Whenever I see her, I Find some weird thing in my Stomach and I Sometimes blush too. It's Really Annoying Bcz I love her but I don't think she feels the same way for me...
And I Don't have the Courage to tell her this. Maybe cuz I'm Afraid to lose her...
I Sometimes bring her roses but she thinks that I am doing it cuz Zenitsu is Obsessed with Nezuko in that anime and I'm Tryna act like him...
It's all so Complicated and I Don't know what to do anymore...
And it's just 1 month before our school year ends and she is gonna change schools this year so I have Such Small And Limited time...
It may Sound Stupid, Meaningless or Funny or Even a joke but Cuz of these Weird Feelings, I Can't Even sleep at night, in Fact I Keep crying cuz Whenever I Think that I Have a Crush on her And she's Leaving, My Heart feels so Heavy and I Can't Help but Cry...
And in the Country I Live, Gay or Lesbians aren't Considered a thing. It's Important for Girls to marry Boys... That's the tradition...
I Wish Sometimes that I Was a Boy as well so I Wouldn't Hesitate that much to tell her that I Love her...
I Really wanna be with her, spend the Rest of my life with her... But It Would never be Acceptable in either of our families, in fact, in our whole Country...
I Really Wanted to stop her from leaving the School ,hoping that one day I Will Gather Enough Courage to tell her but her Parents won't agree on her staying in the same school anymore...
I feel Devastated. Though she Promised me that she will keep in Touch, all of us knows how much Busier life gets growing up... And then, you don't even have time for yourself so there is a 99% Chance that we will Drift away. She Once told me she had a Crush on Someone, and I was Really Happy and excited for her back then.
I had a crush too at that time, but He is my Cousin and thinks of me as his little sister, I Never loved him that much the way I loved Nezuko as well
But Now when I think about the Guy she had a Crush on,I just Feel Jealousy...
I told her that I Don't have a Crush on my Cousin anymore...
Though, I Swear I Won't say anything to her if she starts to Date him someday cuz I Want her to Always be Happy... I Will Support her!!!
But I Really Wanna spend all of my life with her...

Plz if Anyone can help me... Plz tell me what to do...😫😢😭

And Nezuko, Incase u See this, Plz Just Don't leave me...
If you don't feel the same way, I Understand, but I Really don't wanna ruin our Friendship...
And Know that Wherever you go, You'll Always be in my heart...
And you Were the ONLY TRUE LOVE OF MY LIFE...💖💕⚡️
And I Will NEVER EVER Love Somebody else Now...

Yours Truly,
Zenitsu Agatsuma ⚡️