Elaborate Sex Quiz: Are You Ready For Anal Sex?

1

What type of relationship are you in with the person you are thinking about doing anal with?

With a boyfriend I've been with fewer than four months, or whom I do not completely trust that part of my body to
With a longtime friend. We explore each other's sexuality together
I'm not in a relationship/I'm in casual short, relationships
With a "fuck buddy"
With a longtime boyfriend whom I trust completely, or I'm married to this person

2

How old are you?

Younger than 16
Between the ages of 16 and 17
Between the ages of 18 and 20
Between the ages of 21 to 24
25 or older

3

Which of these sexual activities have you already done?

Oral sex and masturbation (if you're a guy)
Some exploring of my body by my lover's hand
Vaginal sex (girl)
Nothing
Vaginal sex, oral sex and masturbation (if you're a girl)

4

Have you ever tried anal sex before?

Kind of. We were having vaginal sex when he penetrated my asshole by accident/Yes, as an unannounced surprise (woman)
Yes, but I was drunk
No, never
No, but I've always thought (or been thinking for a long time) that I would try it
Yes. While it wasn't the experience I wanted it to be, I want to try it again

5

For how long have you been thinking about doing anal?

More than a year
Around six months
Less than three months
I just started recently

6

Have you ever seen an erotic anal scene (for example, in a movie), or read about one in a novel? How did it make you feel?

I was a little uncomfortable, but OK
My stomach turned
I've never seen or read anything about it
It really turned me on
It turned me on a little

7

Do you have a nickname for your butt hole?

Yes, but it's something I consider offensive and rude
Yes, something only he uses
No
Yes, something only I use
Yes, something we both use, something cute

8

Do you talk openly with your lover about anal sex?

Yes, he knows my fears. We talk in detail and without taboo about how we're going to try it and how it can feel good for me
We just discuss whether we would do it or not, but we don't go into detail
Not really. I find it awkward to say things like, "anal sex" or "butt hole" or "Do you want to fuck me in my ass?" to my lover
No, I'm not comfortable talking about it

9

Are you afraid your lover's penis is too big for anal sex with you?

He is well-endowed, but with proper lubrication, that shouldn't be a problem
It's not huge, but I'm still afraid he will do some damage
No, I think it will fit in my butt hole OK
It's too huge for my tiny asshole and I think it will destroy my ass
I would be less afraid if his penis were a couple of inches smaller

10

Have you ever done anal play? (Info: It's a good way to relax your anus, so anal penetration hurts less.)

Yes, I've had a toy inserted in my butt hole
Yes, a lover has inserted his finger in my anus
Yes, a lover has licked my anus, and/or fingered me anally
Kind of. I've stuck my finger in my butt, under the shower, to see how it would feel
Nope

11

Do you think there will be something to warm you up before trying anal sex? (Info: Foreplay is important with anal sex because when you're turned on, your body will be much more receptive to it.)

A massage, or something like kissing and touching all over, to relax my body
Vaginal sex (woman)/Oral sex on you (guy)
No, we're just going to try to get a penis up there
A long, erotic massage, with anal play, to relax and stretch my butt hole
A bit of alcohol to relax

12

What kind of lubricant would you use? (Info: The rectum does not naturally self-lubricate like the vagina. Good lubrication is important to enjoy anal penetration. You can also add lube after the penis has already entered your butt.)

Normal lubricant
Vaseline, massage oil, or something similar
Nothing
Lubricant made especially for anal activities
Spit

13

Why are you thinking about doing anal sex?

I'm scared to do it, but my lover really wants to, so I'll give it a go
I'm curious about anything sex related. I think I could really enjoy anal, once I've slowly tried it a couple times, and I've gotten a feel for having something in my butt hole
I'm willing to try anything at least once, so I'm also open to try anal/I want to be desired by men, and granting them access to my ass will have that effect
I don't really want to do it, but I'm tired of hearing my lover complaining that I won't do it
I'm a bit curious, or a friend has received anal penetration and said it was good and that I should try it. I might explore it to satisfy my curiosity

14

Do you think you can enjoy anal sex? (Info: Many women who have had anal sex say they've orgasmed from it or that it's more intense and pleasurable than vaginal sex.)

I'm certain that I won't enjoy it
I don't know if I can really enjoy it
Yes, I think I can enjoy it
Yes, I'm pretty certain. That's why I want to do it
I think I can learn to tolerate it

15

Is there a special reason you want to do anal sex?

Nothing that is stated here
Girls: Yes, I mostly want to try it because I want to have sex, but I would still be able to say I'm a virgin because I'd still have my hymen. Guys: Yes, if you are gay, you have to do anal sex
Yes, I want to prove to him that I'm not dull in the bedroom
Yes, I mostly want to try it because I want to have unprotected sex without risking getting pregnant or because I want to have sex while on my period (girl)
Yes, it's a way of convincing him to not end our relationship

16

How safe will you be when you try anal? (Info: A male wearing a condom will protect females from STDs and any stray fecal matter entering the asshole.)

Maybe in the beginning we will use a condom, but after a while, we will stop using it
We won't use a condom
We'll always use a condom, with lubricant, especially made for use with condoms
Most of the time I don't think we will use a condom, but he's been my boyfriend for more than six months, so I know that he hasn't got any STDs
Most of the time we'll use a condom

17

Have you or your lover ever had an STD?

My lover has had an STD once
I have had an STD once
No
One of us had an STD scare, but didn't actually have one
My lover or I have had more than one STD

18

Where will the guy come when having anal sex? (Info: Semen mixed with the contents of the rectum can sometimes give some people a sick feeling.)

Somewhere on my body. He has to pull out
He can't come when we are having anal sex, because I don't want his penis to be in my butt for too long
In the condom
In my butt hole. I want to know how that feels, and/or I think my ass filled with his semen is naughtier and part of the anal experience

19

Will you do something special the first time you have anal intercourse?

Just play some music to get in the mood
No, I don't feel like I should do something special for the first time
Drink some alcohol to calm me down
Yes, I'll have music, candles, a sexy outfit, a massage,...I think it's a really big step in a relationship, so let's make it special
No, I'm just going to get it over with

20

Have you looked up any other information about anal sex?

No, I didn't even think about looking up information
No, I only know what my friends have told me
No, but my lover looked it up, or has prior anal experience, so I trust him to know the dos and don'ts
No, I don't know anything about it. I just want to find my way by trying
Yes, I looked up a great deal of it to ensure I have the best and safest anal experience

21

Will there be any digital proof of your anal exploits in the future?

Yes, he can tape our anal sex while we're having it
No, I do not want to end up on a porn site
He can take a picture while his penis is in there, if he wants to fantasize about it later
There is a possibility. I don't know yet
He can take a picture of my ass with my butt hole visible

22

How do you think your anal sex sessions will transpire?

It would be intimate lovemaking. Sometimes it could be slowly, sometimes it could be rougher - it will depend on what we both like
Slowly, so I have little discomfort, and might even enjoy it
I hope it will be as short as possible. I might even cry
It will be me just trying to take it while he's enjoying himself. It won't be for my pleasure
He will pound my asshole hard, although I don't really want that

23

Do you think you'll try dirty talk? (Info: A big part of the taboo of anal sex is that it's naughty. Dirty talk can magnify or enhance that feeling.)

Yes, but not too extreme. Something like, "Fuck me in my asshole, baby!"
No, I think anal sex is already dirty enough
I feel a bit weird talking dirty. I would say things like: "Ow, yeah, you feel so big," but nothing more. Saying that is already a bit much for me
Yes, we do it all the time in our normal sex life. So, if we do anal, dirty talk will be included, and it would be really dirty

24

Once you've gotten used to the feeling of having a penis in your ass, how many times do you think you will have anal sex?

Only on a special day, like his birthday, anniversary or Valentine's Day. Anal sex will be a special present for him, but will not be part of our normal sex life
The same amount as vaginal sex, or more
It will be included in our normal sex life, so it could occur every week
I don't think I could ever get used to that feeling, so maybe once, to try it. Maybe more if it's tolerable, but I won't do it that often
If it's also giving me pleasure, once every two weeks or once a month

25

How long do you think a normal anal sex session will last?

Until it hurts too much...because it will hurt
Not that long
A while, but I don't want him to come in my ass
Until he comes from penetrating my ass

26

When you are in the act of anal sex, but you want him to stop, what would you do?

I would say stop. He would stop, and afterward, we would talk about what went wrong, so we could do it better in the future
I would let him go on, and when he finished, I would say it was horrible, and he could never ask me to do that again
I would let him go on, because I know he wouldn't stop even if I asked him to
I would say stop, but he would keep whining that he doesn't want to stop, that he's almost there. But if I really put my foot down, he would pull his penis out
I would say stop and he would stop. But I wouldn't talk about it. I would just say, "It's not right for me right now"

27

What part would anal sex play in your sex life? (Info: The bacteria that live in the anus could be very unhealthy for other parts of your body because exposure can lead to infections.)

We would also do other sex acts. While we've planned to have anal sex, I would never let him penetrate my butt hole first, and then my vagina or mouth, without washing or changing the condom
When we're planning to do anal sex, no other sex acts will transpire. If we have anal sex, we will only do it in my butt
We would randomly switch between my ass and vagina or mouth, just like in porn movies

28

What would you be open to try to give you more pleasure during anal sex? (Info: Double penetration, such as a dildo in your vagina while his penis is in your asshole, can make anal sex a more intense and pleasurable act for a woman.)

Nothing extra
Some kissing and touching all over
He or I can masturbate me
A vibrator or dildo in my vagina

29

If he asked, would you remove the hair around your anus?

Nope. If I am willing to take it in the ass, then he should be OK with my hairy situation down there
Yes, I would remove it completely for anal sex. It's much sexier for him, and I would feel a bit cleaner and more comfortable
I know he doesn't care about a smooth entry, so there would be no need for it
Sometimes I would remove it for anal sex, but not always. It's too big of a hassle
I don't have any hair down there

30

If you had anal sex, who would you tell?

My lover and I would discuss who can know about it
It doesn't matter to me - everybody can know about it
Nobody
Only my best friend can know about it. My lover can't tell anyone, except maybe his best friend
I wouldn't want anybody else to know, but I think he would tell a lot of people. I don't want that, though

31

What if you get an anal injury during butt sex?

I would get mad at my lover, and never grant him access to my butt hole again
I would get medical advice, and have an open discussion with my lover about it, so it wouldn't happen again
I would let it heal, but I don't know if I would ever do anal again after that
I wouldn't care. It will heal itself

32

Do you have the feeling, "If I have to do anal sex, then he should let me stick something in his asshole"?

Yes, totally. Let's see if he still wants to do it in my asshole, if he also has to receive something in his
Yes, a little. It doesn't seem fair for him to ask me to undergo something that he won't ever have to endure
No, not at all. I don't see it as he does something bad to me, I see it as a part of sexual activity, as something we both can enjoy. Simply him penetrating my ass and me receiving his penis. Guys: And we would switch top and bottom
Yes, but he only wants to be the top, never the bottom. Although, I would like to also be the top from time to time (guy)
No, but I do feel that anal sex will only give him pleasure

33

Why do you think he wants to do anal?

He wants to reclaim my virginity. I wasn't a virgin when I met him, but I've never had anal sex (woman)
It's something taboo and kinky, and he thinks it's going to feel awesome because it's such a tight little hole
It's something that he's seen in pornos, and so he wants to try it for himself. Or he just wants to dominate me in another way
I think he wants to do it because it's something we can explore together, something new to try to keep things exciting, and something private and naughty we can both enjoy
I think a part of him is secretly gay (woman)

34

Are you afraid of having anal sex?

I'm terrified
I have my fears, but I trust my lover
Not at all
I'm pretty afraid. I will have to see how it goes

35

What are you the most afraid of when you think about having anal sex?

That it's painful AND dirty
That it will be painful/That it's dirty
I'm not afraid of anything
That I will feel used and humiliated
That he's going to tell everybody, so everyone will think I'm a slut

36

There are some actions you can do to get yourself used to anal penetrations. They will feel less painful, and maybe even pleasurable. What are you open to try?

Inserting more than one finger, or a small object like a toothbrush, in my anus
Inserting a butt plug or an anal toy in my butt hole. (Info: Butt plugs are great for preparing your anus for penetration, as they get your sphincter muscles to relax.)
Inserting one finger in my ass
The thought of a penis being up there is bad enough. Nothing else is allowed to enter my rectum

37

How will you apply lubrication when engaging in anal sex?

I don't think I will use a (real) lubricant
Lube on his penis
Lube on the opening of my anus, and on his penis
Lube a finger deep in my anus, on the opening of my anus and on my lover's penis

38

When you are not constipated, anal sex is normally quite clean. Feces only gather in your anus when you are about to move your bowels. To be absolutely certain, you can take extra precautions. What are you open to trying?

I'm open to cleaning my anal area completely out with an anal douche (Info: It's a small pump so you can put water in your butt. Between five and 20 minutes after inserting the water, you will feel the urge to go to the toilet, and you'll release a mixture of water and poo that was in your colon. So, your butt is completely free of poo)
I don't think I would need to do extra preparation or take extra precautions
I'm open to moving my bowels before engaging in anal sex (Info: This can occur hours before you'll be anally penetrated - no new feces will have gathered in that timespan). I would also take a shower to wash down my butt
I'm open to moving my bowels before engaging in anal sex
I would take a shower and wash down my butt

39

How would you or your lover react if there were a bit of poo on his penis when he exits your anus?

My lover or I would be disgusted, and wouldn't do anal again for a long time
Poo is something that can easily happen with anal sex, so we would be grownups about it, and just clean it up
That's SO gross! It's one of the main reasons I don't want to do anal
I would find it dirty, and it would kill the mood
I would find it dirty, but we would just clean it off, and not make too big of a deal out of it

40

In which positions do you want to try anal sex? (Info: The position does a lot to make anal more pleasant. Doggy style is the most well known, but your anus is less relaxed in it than if you'd spoon, stand up, or do missionary or girl on top.)

Any position we can imagine
I haven't even thought about different positions
Doggy style
The first time, I'd want to try a position that let me control the speed and how deep the penis goes in my ass. Maybe me on top, so we both find our ideal rhythm. But after that, we would probably find one position we will use most of the time

41

How many times are you willing to try anal sex before giving up? (Info: The butt hole is a very sensitive part of your body because a lot of nerve endings come together there, similar to the clitoris and vagina. But for many women and men, getting anally penetrated is not enjoyable right away and can hurt in the beginning. After a bit of trial and error, you will find a rhythm that you can both enjoy.)

I'm willing to try it a lot, but if it hurts a lot, that would put a hold on this little experiment for a while. But it wouldn't mean the end of me trying anal sex
I'm willing to try it a few times, but if it keeps hurting, I would give it up
I will try anything once, but if it's awful, no more than that
I don't think I would give up. I'm convinced that I can enjoy it
I think I will never really enjoy it, but if I can tolerate it, I would do it on special occasions

42

What do you find the most important when it comes to having anal sex?

That it be clean
That it's tolerable and he doesn't want it too often
That we both get pleasure
That it's something taboo and naughty
That he enjoys himself

43

Who wants to have anal sex more?

He wants it more, but I can see myself doing it for him
I'm not really interested, but he really wants it
He wants it more, but I'm also pretty curious about it
We both want it. We want our relationship to be exciting, and anal is something we can explore together
I want it more

44

Thinking about having anal sex, you feel...

Terrified
A bit afraid...I don't really know what to expect
Naughty
Excited
Horny

45

Now that you've taken this quiz, you feel...

Now I know for certain it's not for me
Not really afraid of anal sex anymore, because I see more benefits for myself. It's pretty likely I'll be trying it in the near future
More educated on the subject, and more comfortable to try it the right way (not the porn way). But I don't want to rush it...we're going to take it really slow
That the only reason I would do anal is for him, but I'm OK with that
I'm still pretty afraid, but I might try it nonetheless. I think I'm just not a fan of having something in my ass

Comments (30)

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27 days ago

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28 days ago

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56 days ago

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Ummm (87134)

333 days ago

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354 days ago

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ally (53125)

398 days ago

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Sam (34845)

421 days ago

I am 10 and lost my veginati at like 5. I always have sex

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457 days ago

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472 days ago

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501 days ago

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Phoenix (16826)

621 days ago

I'm 12, male and these questions were mainly for women

ahaj (94613)

828 days ago

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?????? (29489)

830 days ago

I am twelve so I don't really believe in this quiz but . . . . . :(

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