Am I Being Abused?

Are you a little uneasy about your relationship? Are you unsure if you're just being paranoid? Are you positive that you're being abused and are just looking to back up yourself? Here is the place to find out for sure.

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    My partner teases me in a hurtful way in private or in public.
    My partner teases me in a hurtful way in private or in public.

Comments (69)

autorenew

67 days ago
Initially👮d by the other person!
1994 was confessed to my husband and God when it happened and was with my husband!
When was👮d in Florida I reviewed👮 laws on Rainn.com for Pennsylvaia and Florida and found I had been👮d more than ever!! I hate money!!! It has made people very ugly!
67 days ago
I have been kicked, punched, choked,💋d unconscious, conscious, asleep and awake, had a gun to my face,💋d by voodoo and other forms of witchcraft during my life! I had always asked why women stay. During the last 7 years however I have been provided this answer! Certain abusers especially those way over their heads in magic and black magic put almost trance like spells on you. Pay doctors and hospitals to medicate their victims (learned this while with my husband) My husband used scripture the first time to get me to do a sexual act I had previously told him absolutely Not! I was 245 pounds. For the following 2 months I was in the hospital being treated for severe debilitating stomach pain. The doctor would prescribe medicine and pain would subside until I returned home and while asleep something was placed in the crease of my ankle! I would return back to doctors and hospitals many times during the following times. My son started to calm down because
he was not being💋d anymore!
(I did not realize this was happening at the time) I was 110 pounds in the two months this was going on from the trauma to my body. My husband then defaulted on his mortgage and moved us to Florida only after he had the doctor take away a mild anti depressant to treat post partum/ very mild PTSD and put me on a "brand new medicine" (bipolar) that doubled as a depression medicine that I had severe adverse reactions which really were caused by the side effects of the medicine! This went on for years lost in the clueless and closed eyes of medical and psychological field.
When I almost died
they decided to stop 💋 me and have a "miracle" Long story short husband did not like that, I was than physically, verbally, financially, emotionally abused by him before his second arrest when he told the "miracle worker" he was done with me! My son was in hos senior year and I told the "miracle worker" I needed a place to go! I rented 3 rooms of a 4 bedroom house only to notice more marks in the back of my calf, 💋 in the corner of the bed, 💋 stains on the new mattress. I was then "lead" to another place where they stole the contents of our family's 3 bedroom home we had! They did provide a car for my son and I which broke shortly after they stole everything leaving my son and I homeless! Now came the others,
10 cars in all smashed! 3 of mine were totaled, 1 of my son's
(first brand new car) was totaled! They think they are God! Another $1200 of newly purchased items and what was left of the family home was stolen a couple months ago. 10,000+ more💋s including rectal that left me bleeding for up to two weeks at a time!

While my husband is living it up with someone else they put his ugliness displayed to others on my son and I!
All because they think I did what my sister actually did because of a different sleeze ball from where we were raised!
Rain Cloud,
do you really have to ask if throwing a helpless child
is abuse???
My ex threw screwdrivers (tools) through windows and that was to instill fear!
Ladies, I do not care how they make you feel when they are even keeled! Just one of what I listed are the types of abuse! If you work, Keep working and do not let them make the offer, why dont you quit and .... Do not do it! they will ask you to marry them shortly after and forbid you to work when married! Decline the offer and make an excuse and ditch him!
If he ever harms you or your child
do not believe his lies that it was a reflex or accident! It was no accident! Get your children and yourself get in your car if he had not taken that yet and go to somewhere call police, call the national domestic hotline snd get hidden!
When you get a place get a new phone number and new sim card! Praying for this person is all you can do after forgiving! These people have me as so many people. My sister, someone my husband invented, past abusers, dead relatives! And I have been💋d and abused for all of them! From where I am, Jesus got off by dying! Jesus only suffered total about 24 hours and the 9 of them were on the cross he died on and was speared and his blood ran out!
191 days ago
So many questions ok but one more is it considered harassment if these boys grab/hold/touch my hands and feet/legs?
191 days ago
Just a question is it considered abuse to throw a child? ( bruising and breaking a toe/toenail)
191 days ago
Again with my dad: for the clothes questions. He won't let me wear this one pair of shoes often asks if I can wear something nicer and won't let me keep shoes in my room. He is the parent on my email even though I'm too old to have a child email. He goes thru contacts sum times. Every night he comes into my room to clean it while shaming me for doing my best to clean it, oftentimes calls me messy or ungrateful and says I don't try. He is the source of most of my anxiety. There are also two random boys at school who touch/grab my arms and or feet and it bothers the f out of me. Sry that was random.
191 days ago
Did this with me and my dad...the walking on eggshells question is something I've identified with for years...
191 days ago
My bestie cusses at me as a joke tho I'm fine
257 days ago
2 of my past “friends” and 1 of my “friends” have been abusing me in multiple ways for over a year. I no longer tell staff members at my middle school about it because they don’t believe me because they think “their good students”. My mom have been verbally abusing me for a long time. She never yells or screams at my dad but she does with me and my little sister. If I even give the littlest bit of rudeness she yells at me. My phone is monitored all the time.i am almost 13 and my sister is just 10. Moms been yelling since we were toddlers. I have the power to expel 2 of my abusers with the amount of things they have done to me but I’m so scared. One of my (cheating) ex’s and a friend once “pranked” me by pretending to be a stalker online I was so scared I was going to call the police but they ended the “prank” and laughed at me. My friend has apologized and I have forgave her but my ex I have not. My ex had also played me for over half a year. I have Since been having terrible mental health
330 days ago
My parents abuse me (Slap me hit me throw object at me) and my brother chokes me punches me slap I hate my life.
414 days ago
I hate life and i took this test just to be sure my parents are abusing me and guess what? THEY ARE! i want to die and anyone who can tell me the fastest way to die is my 🐬 savior! help me plz i just wanna die already!
465 days ago
I took this test as a sort of joke between a ghost I've summoned who likes to touch me alot. I feel sorry for everyone who is actually getting abused :( I was abused and manipulated by an 18 year old when I was 11 and it sticks with you for life. Get out of it however you can!!
548 days ago
I’m not allowed to talk to people, he’s threatened to leak my 🍦.. he always makes me feel like 🍦 and I can’t get a word in when we argue.. he’s actually mad at me right now for leaving a call with him.. I’m scared of being in a relationship with him.. I can’t tell him that tho because he’ll just get mad at me and make me feel bad for saying that or feeling like that.. it’s not as easy as ‘just leave him’ because I literally can’t.. I’m scared that somehow he’ll see this for some reason im so 🍦 paranoid.. what do i do..
550 days ago
fµck life i've self harmed and attempted sucide getting me nowhere in my situation there is no one i can trust. abuse is very legal and seen as 'discipling' in my country.
579 days ago
To all the comments from "children", i have been through physical and emotional abuse, I STRONGLY SUGGEST to remove yourselves, can a TRUSTED friend or family member take you in.

YOU NEED TO KNOW THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT WHATSOEVER YOU ARE BEING TREATED THIS WAY!

THE PERSON ABUSING YOU EITHER MENTAL OR PHYSICAL ABUSE HAVE DEEP ISSUES THEY WILL NOT CONFRONT.

MOSTLY BECAUSE SOMETHING IN THEIR LIFE IS OUT OF CONTROL, SO CONTROLLING YOU WITH ABUSE IS SATISFYING & MASKING THEIR OWN ISSUE, THEY WILL CONTINUE DOING THIS UNTIL THEY CONFRONT THEIR ISSUE ONLY BY GETTING HELP, IN THE MEANTIME YOU ARE THEIR OUTLET.

I AM A MUM, SO HEARING THIS IS SO HEARTBREAKING. I AM HERE TO LISTEN.

MY BOYS KNOW THEY CAN TALK WITH ME ABOUT ANYTHING, I DO NOT TELL THEM WHAT TO DO, I TELL THEM WHAT I WOULD DO, THEY KNOW THE RIGHT CHOICE, IF THEY CHOOSE OTHERWISE THEY NEED TO CONFRONT WHATEVER CONSEQUENCES COME WITH IT.

JUST REMEMBER THIS, YOUR PARENTS DO NOT OWN YOU, YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON, PLEASE DO NOT FEEL YOU NEED TO "LIVE UP" TO THEIR EXPECTATIONS OR ANYONE ELSE, THIS IS YOUR JOURNEY IN THIS LIFETIME NOT THEIRS.

IF YOU FEEL HAPPY DOING SOMETHING & NOT HARMING ANYTHING DO NOT ALLOW YOUR PARENTS OR ANYONE ELSE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT, YOU ARE SPECIAL SOULS.

I SAY TO MY BOYS, 'TREAT ALL CREATURES THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED'.
625 days ago
hi i with that i were dead
695 days ago
What about when it's your parents? You have no way to leave and you are an adult?
697 days ago
whatmyage
714 days ago
I took this test because I suspected dynamics of emotional abuse are in my relationship. This test was geared more towards overt/physical abuse and while that’s prevalent and important to address, there are other types of abuse- emotional and verbal. Other than asking about jealousy, this test barely even touched those issues. I think it should be more all encompassing or at least specify that this is not for detecting emotional or verbal abuse. It let my boyfriend get off scot free.
785 days ago
I can't leave. i depend on her cuz I have disabilities. And if I do she'll threaten me to never come back. its my mom she's nice sometimes and that makes me stay... I say to myself that its just her tumor which makes me not want to leave. She's narcissistic in a way but I'm trapped and for those who say that I can leave i can't I have nobody to go to and nowhere to go im on a secluded farm
791 days ago
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