Does My Long-Distance Love Really Care?

So your long distance boyfriend/girlfriend is sending you a lot of mixed signals lately. Ugh - how disheartening!:( Try my quiz now to help you figure out what he or she is REALLY trying to tell you! I really hope it's nothing bad, but you need to make sure. Good luck!

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38 days ago

I'm 22, nearly 23 in few months.. I met this middle aged dude through social network (with a little research with his background, maybe 45-ish something, surprised he never post a single picture anywhere, which is mysterious). But hey, he's kind of cute and immature(silly way) with me during our conversation. we talked, send pictures (how fascinating! I felt special that he say i'm the one he only sent pic to), videos, sending gifts and voice messaging. so we felt in love after a month. we barely argue (maybe a few times of feeling tension but we have a discussion on that, communication matters, right?) everything is like a dream, he may be old but you know.. feelings.. he's way beyond perfect on how to treat me(only? I'm not sure).

Woman always have this natures of doubts, questions, insecurities and curiosity, right?

but the thing is, he don't mention some things about his past.

I used different method to asked about his marital status,
(eg, "It's almost valentine's day, don't you have a partner to go with?") he just answer it in different way and telling me all the valentine's tradition in his culture. It wasn't what I was looking-expecting for, which is just weird to me why would he dodge it instead of answering it. he could just told me straight that if he's married/divorce or single, doesn't have to be ashamed of that.. [NOTE: to any middle age guy came across here, please let your current partner know everything about you or you're just a let down..])

However! He told me that he want to spend the rest of his lifetime with me and that he always loves me to the point that he is out of breathe, telling me he wanted to kiss and hug me so badly everyday, compliments me about how beautiful and sweet I am, jokes a little to light things up.. + naked with each other and "make love"
(If he's so serious about it. why he never mention about wanting to marriage or have kids.. or introduce his real friends/parents to me? ---- can I believe him telling me that he did mention about him loving me in front of his colleagues and to some friends? is it just telling them he loves or just lying to make me feel awe? I don't know!!!)
@!!!!!(((As I found out he have admiring some other woman (younger than him) in the twitter. No, he doesn't know I was checking up on him daily to his feeds. and yes, I have to admit i'm just being a very anxious creepy stalker...))) AND ALSO, I'm terribly upset he have a post of saying "taking a screenshot of *her name*'s beautiful ass" after all the things he said to me??? and i just can't mention it up because he'll find out I was checking up on him literally everywhere?? Arghh this is killing me!)))

In this matter, I questioned myself of the red flags from him.
"Am I making a big mistake?"
"Did he love me or just being nice?"
"Maybe just a temporary and entertainment love to him?"
"Is it because I'm young and he wanted to take my "first"?"
"Am I just a prize to benefit him?" (Sexually frustration perhaps?)
"Does he treat me differently(romantically) as the others when i'm offline?"
"Will he behave and act the way he is when we met?"
and so on-

Unfortunately.. All these questions in my thoughts flashed to nothing but filled with loves when I'm with him.. I just love him way too much to losing him just to question him about all the things In my mind and what I've seen.. I'm at my absolute happy place.. and I smiled to the fullest than any of the time in reality or anyone made me feel. Honestly..He's also the brightest..(or just being polite?.. Although he have offered me to be open minded and speak up whatever I think but if he's that desperately to hid his status.. there must be something hurtful going on and tried not to go through of the past again, doesn't it? even if I'll be thinking about it but I'm just scared to lose him.. unless..) I'm back to feeling horrendous when i don't talk to him.

So tell me guys, Is it a good idea to keep going or to end things as soon as it is before I hurt myself..?

P/s: Sorry for the bad english, I just need advices.. pls comment above. I'm desperately need an answer from what other people thought of this. Maybe you can help with someone who have the same issue like me.

Q: Am I having a sugar daddy?..
A: If he have kids and also a father, He is.
If he doesn't have kids, then He isn't, consider himself as a lonely man deep down with a young and passionate empty heart.
But for me, I'm not entirely sure, Honestly.
"I don't mind spending my time and not hesitating to use my money on you" he said.
(Delicious Snacks and Beautiful handicraft is what I received, Cute.)
95 days ago
Feels great to know that he loves me! I know he does. He's 29 from Russia and I'm 16 (and a half!) from America. We love each other very much and although our love is forbidden (by my parents), we keep it a secret and chat online whenever I get the chance to, and he stops everything he is doing to make time for me and we always have a lovely time. I love him SO much!!! I can't wait for the day when he comes to meet me in person in America! I'm going to spoil and love him everyday!
109 days ago
178 days ago
I just love him so much, I've liked him since we met in kindergarten imao. I'm in 6th grade, so is he, I'm barely older r=than him almost 6 months older mainly because I was bot in January and him in May. I hope we stay together for a long time. :D
181 days ago
I just love him so freaking much he's so sweet and adorable i really love how he cares about me and i want to get married and live with him forever
322 days ago
I hope he really loves me.. Actually my age 24 and my bf is 45.. He was my step dad. We've been in love since five month ago and had🐬secretly (my mom doesn't know lol), i had🐬with other guy before especially my brother, my ex bf friends, cousin. But i love my step dad more ❤️❤️.. now we are in Internet relationship because my step dad is work in germany now. He text me more than my own mom xD, i hope when he comes back, we can had🐬and getting married ❤️❤️ i loves him so much #loveislove
327 days ago
Thnk gosh! I was about to cry a different quiz said she sees me as just a friend 😥😢
391 days ago
wow I really love this quiz but the truth I really love her but am scared to be hurt again
428 days ago
It said he definitely loves me . Just want this to be real and serious ❤️ because I am crazy about him☹️
458 days ago
I love this quiz! It's awesome
628 days ago
Lovely quiz i luv it a lot 😍
663 days ago
He/she loves you, but not as much as you love him/her. You guys will always try to catch up with each other, and that's good. Make sure you guys always make time for each other. Ouch 😪😫
750 days ago
It said he loves me. But I love him more lol
772 days ago
It said he definitely loves me but we haven’t met in person yet.... I’m a year older than him. Before in my school I used to like someone almost for a year but since I met him the only one I like is Ihim NO one else . Is that weird or am I just weird
786 days ago
It.. was expected he may love me but i knew i loved him more which is good and bad in a way but i hope we end up getting the same feelings exactly so im exo
818 days ago
“He/she might have changed their feelings toward you, or never really had any. Long-distance relationships can be challenging. Don't give up! You will meet someone way better! Just be patient.“ I knew it😪😪
902 days ago
This test confirmed what I knew (that he definitely truly loves me) and I’m glad cause I absolutely adore my boyfriend.
921 days ago
It was awesome I got better than best result.Thankyou so much
945 days ago
It was awesome I got a perfect result.Thank you 😊
964 days ago
We havent me in person or heard voice or seen face