Am I Heartbroken?

We've all been through breakups that we didn't want to happen. It's so hard to let go sometimes, even if it's ultimately for the best. If this has happened to you in the last little while, take my quiz to see if you're still heartbroken, or if you've progressed toward healing.

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    How much do you think about him/her?

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13 days ago
So it started in June. I was hanging out with my friends and they brought some guys around. I had this secret obsession with one of them. He was this hot, mexican guy that all my friends since 6th grade, had a tiny crush on (even my gay ones). So him and I took interest in each other and we would make out and id sit on his lap and all that right? well I never felt the 'omg I like him!'. when I say that, I mean genuinely like yk? but he was hot and I was trying to find a distraction with all my personal issues. me and my friends would hang out without him and with this other guy that was in his grade (a grade older); lets call him owen. so owen had a crush on one of the girls i hung out with and i never really never took notice of him. but then one day he randomly snapped me. i responded and after that day we texted every moment we could. then when we would hang out in person, wed be flirting all the time. then one night i went to his friends house (along with the girl he liked) and he told me to come over to him, and we were flirting and somehow we ended up cuddling. i fell asleep on him and when i woke up, that's when i realized how much i actually liked him. i snuck him over for the first time and we watched movies and stuff and then he kissed me. i had never been more happy. then we hung out more and more and more. everyday we would hang out. he would tackle me and pin me down and just held me there until i kissed him back. oh my god i liked him so much. him and i would facetime all the time. before he went to work, after, all through the night, during the day, in the car, at friend's house's, just everywhere. since he was in the grade above me, i didn't know anyone in there, but he wanted so bad to introduced me to his friends. everything was so perfect. but then, my mom found out he snuck over and went ballistic and banned me from ever seeing him again. that includes just texting. she took all my devices and everything. but i needed to talk to him. so i used my old iPod and he helped me so much with my mental stuff that newly developed and i just completely fell for him. my heart just loved him so much. the one person i would;d seriously do anything for, i was banned from seeing. it was terrible. him and i would text on snap ALL the time. every chance i could get without getting caught pretty much. i told him i loved him eventually and he said it back. i was head over heels in love with him. but then the worst thing imaginable happened... he slowly fell out of love. he would tell me constantly that he needed a break and while I'm over here thinking that "he just needs to focus on himself for a little bit, but well be back together soon.". boy was i wrong. he completely fell out of love and my heart shattered. absolutely shattered. I've never loved a human being this much. seriously never. i put a wall up for mus people but not him. he got me in every aspect a person could. he was my freaking soul mate. i lie to him saying that I'm completely over him and I've forgotten about him, but that is so far from the truth. i think about him on a daily. everything reminds me of him. i still love him and thinking about dating someone else is unimaginable. i just cant process it. no one will ever make me feel the things I've felt towards him. since the year 2020, I've developed the skill of cutting people off so easily. i cut off my best friend and didn't even bat an eye. no tears or anything. I've done that with so many times and its easy for me . but with him, its impossible. i don't know why its like that. i just cant. no matter how hard i try. but anyways, I'm just trying to start my healing process but i don't know how ill ever get over him.
23 days ago
I did like him at the first time but he didn't love me he saved me from my drowning own problems I helped him when he was mad or sad and me and he meet on Oct 23, 2020, but after my break up he promises me that he never break up with me so I was happy to see him but he was just used me and cheat on me and so we broke up on Jan 27 2021 I want to choke myself and myself so I think I am drowning again I still love him please help me it still hurts me
35 days ago
I liked him so much even though we didn't talk that often. He is carefree, but kind, funny. I wanted to confess to him since two days but didn't get the chance. I don't know why I felt so attached to that boy but I suddenly started to smile whenever he was around and he was so warming. There was so much that proved he might have had a crush on me. Today, I confessed my feelings to him and he looked deserted for a few seconds and mumbled that he liked to talk to me and thing got very silent for a couple of minutes. Before he left, he said he'll think about it. I've worried for so much time, and now I don't even know if he does like me or not. I didn't want to, but I couldn't hold back my tears and I don't know what I can do to forget about him now. I don't enjoy anything anymore I'd just stare at my wall all day long.
42 days ago
we met january 9th 2021 and that was the day i felt so happy he saved me whenever i was drowning in my own problems,i helped him when he was sad,i love him and dont think i can move on from him,hes gone now and i feel like im drowning again i dont know what to do he wont even talk to me. it hurts,he promised he pinky promised he wouldnt leave me even after all the fights he stayed i cant live without him i know were young14/15 but i know hes thre one for me and the only one i need in my life,will if you ever read this please dont leave me i love you so so much
67 days ago
Call me some freaky yandere or whatever im shattered i knew this guy since 3rd grade in a middle schooler now we were friends he told me stories like when he was little he called wensday wedsday i did not forget even though it was long ago i moved from that school for 4th grade mother ditched me for drugs i was so naive to believe my dad and his gf me and her have an a bad history of hell and i returned for 5th grade i ask his best friend if she remembers me she says no and awkwardly walks away i qestion alot if he remembers my brother and his cousin are friends you think we would discuss that but nothing were worlds apart for sure i could never bring my self to talk to him and he is gonna eventually come out to his friend about his feelings to her if my suspicions are right or another girl it just 🐤how my shyness is going to ruin my chance
76 days ago
I fell in love with this girl, and we had been best friends for about three years. Recently, she moved. My heart is broken. She’s moved on from everything and I’m left, unable to heal and let go. She’s my soulmate, but she doesn’t love me back.
83 days ago
update: we had a half day at school and we made a lot of eye contact but didnt talk and we're in diffrent classes so it we wouldn't have anyways. anyways after school our whole friend group dicided to hang out (following the covid protocoles) and we started laughing and talking and i kept feeding him candy and it was like old times even though therewas a lot more that's what she said jokes -_- but thats middle school middle school boys for ya. ofc the other girl was there (read my previous story) but i guess i'll have to get use to being the other girl in his life.
84 days ago
i want to move on but tonight we talked it out and were good even though i didn't say all i wanted to. i want to move on but were good friends and he's going through a lot. but it completly shatters my heart when i see him cause he replaced me wth a new girl and he gets jealouse cause im getting closer to one of his friends. ive cried for 2 hours and i still have to face his at school tomorrow when he thinks everythings good but my heart is secretly breaking into thousands of sad pices. idk how to explain it but we started of friends but then liked eachother but then he dated someone and i moved on ad we stayed best friends cause he knew me better then ayone. so a year later he breaks up with the girl cause she was jealouse thinking we liked eachother even though we told her we didnt so many times evn though i did but i still dont know about him. out of know were hes all of a sudden bffs with this girl he had hated for years. apperently he hated her before cause he thought se made up arumor aout another girl (which she fu***** did) and now oh look at that we dont talk anymore. so i dont evn like him but i was going through a lot when this was going on and i dont know if this can even happen but i think i got emotionaly attached to him and when he just pushed me away sudenly it created acrack in my heart whicheventually fully broke. anyways fast forward to today we're talking and he says you dont tell me anything anymore. and i say bc you dont talk to me. youre always talking to (were going to call this girl maddy)maddy. and he says i tell you both the sae stuff. and i say it desnt seem like that but ok can we please not fight lets jst forget aout this and he says ok . then i pretty much decide need to move on and get over him and i can do that by coming clean. so i text him pretty much everything i just told you and he says that he still cares about me and that he can be friends with both of us even though he still calls her his bff. so he thinks we're ok i think we've gotten somewhere but not enogh to be normal again. tbh its never going to be the same with maddy here now. so i feel replaced and confused. who know best friends can break your heart too? and i have to see him tomorrow -_-
92 days ago
She is my ex bff he was really toxic and fake
117 days ago
hi, my gf just broke up with me. she said that she was unsure and now said she only looks at me as a friend.
173 days ago
Hey you! Yes you, your probably heartbroken but you have to move on cause if you don't then how will you develop to mature and try put new things? I don't wanna make this short nor long so ill do medium. Forget that stupid boy/girl, and just move on with your life! Do you wanna heartbroken forever or what!! Move on and say how you feel to a trusted guardian. I'm heartbroken, but it doesn't affect my studies!! So move on you need to.
173 days ago
Okay everyone, please I'm heartbroken too but we all have to be positive. Talk to someone you trust, I saw a few comments and I feel awfully bad.. Please remember your unique and beautiful and you slay girl/boy! Now, forget that douchebag and have some fun in your life for awhile! Move on, that's all I can say. I bet your a lovely person, and that person doesn't deserve you. Someone else who's way better deserves you! I know your all amazing, and it's their loss. They broke your heart, so now you break their hearts. Talk to someone you trust and they'll help you, please remember everyone deserves to live. YOU deserve to live. Forget about dating/crushing for awhile, and pick up those pieces of heart and put them back into the shape it was. Sorry this is long but hopefully this helped you! I'm feeling better helping people, if this didn't help you.. I'm so sorry but remember your beautiful and you will find your loved soon~ don't give up. Stay healthy!
177 days ago
hundred of peaces of my heart was broken that day. i had a HUUUUGE crush on him until i just did something that broke my heart. we are still best friends. i just feel empty the day he did that and now. I am trying to get my feelings back for him. I still have a crush on him, but on the inside i just feel empty
307 days ago
I want to die I can't take this heartbreak anymore I can't even imagine life without being with them so since I'm selfish and I want them but they don't want me i don t want this life I'm so tired I don't wanna do this anymore I just want to love them until the day I die never will i ever find someone i cared for so much I love him so much it's killing me to know he's forgotten me
309 days ago
(both 16 i feel like Im too young to be this sad) we met over social media at the start of lock down, he gave me everything that i ever wanted in a relationship but we never met but he lived about 30 mins away from me and in the same town as some of my friends and they knew him. we face timed most nights and we both admitted we liked each other a few days into talking. we both got along so well it was unreal and i fell for him quickly. about a month into face timing everyday he admitted to me that he really wanted to ask me out but he knew i wanted to be asked in person plus we had never met before and couldn't meet for the meantime as the UK was under strict lock down, he even told me that he just stayed up for three hours whilst i was sleeping thinking of the perfect way to ask me out. a few weeks after this me im and my best friend had a group face time which meant alot to me that he wanted to make such an effort so i told him i loved him when she left the call and he said it back, it was like a dream he was perfect and i loved him. we called each other girlfriend and boyfriend even tho it wasn't official but it was like we were dating. we lasted for about 2 months i think and today its 2 months since he ended things due to his "commitment issues" because his ex was horrible and treated him badly and cheated on him and he said he loved me he didn't want to hurt me anymore then he had but this person was completely different it was just like he didn't care about me he was just on playstation whilst on ft to me balling my eyes out like he never cared. i just will never understand how he just stopped caring and not wanting to work things out so quickly i don't want to believe all the times he said "i love you" was a lie but i don't know what to believe. i haven't spoken to him since that night because I am to stubborn to pop up and talk because what is there to even talk about anymore i still love him i just miss what we had and what hurts the most is hes not thinking of me and probably hasn't thought of me since that night and is on playstation with the lads whereas I am sobbing my little heart out thinking ab all my memories of him and how happy he made me. i just want to be happy or know when ill be happy again. if anyone wants to talk to me ab their problems pls snap me and ill listen because this 🍦 hard and id hate to think anyone is this sad and alone @tasha_awan12
312 days ago
I didn't cry because of her, I cried because of what happened with her. we both got banned by our parents from seeing each other, I haven't seen her since last week. I gave her a hickey and she gave me one and we got banned from seeing eachother… but my parents didn't care when it was a boy. it just breaks my heart and im feeling ain I shouldn't feel at 14 years old.
322 days ago
I have loved and even loving him for 6 years but he don't dare to talk with me and sometimes i even think he does not consider me as his classmate. We had many memories in class 6....now we're in class 9. I don't have anyone to share my feelings and this one-side relation is totally a secret to my parents and family members......al i can do is to cry silently every night and whenever i am alone........i need someone to speak to.....
325 days ago
I know im young.. but im completely falling down a black hole of just nothingness. Drowning in a Ocean of thoughts. I dont know what to do anymore. And i dont know- I-Im just breakfast Inside....
We say we are fine but what we realymean is... someone... please.. Help me...
345 days ago
I'm breaking inside and I don't know what to do..
378 days ago
I've had a crush on him for 7 years. I never confessed my feelings because he's been my brothers best friend for 12 years and his family is like our family and I don't want to ruin anything but it's so hard. Every time I see him he's SO mean and I begin to fall out of love with him but then he does something or says something so nice to me that I fall right back in love. I just wish I knew what he thought of me. I'm 99.9% sure he hates me, but I can't help but have hope. I've seen him have a crush on every single girl at our Church except for me. A few years ago, my best friend told me she loved him. I told her I'd back off. She told me after I told her how I felt. My heart was shattering because a few years before that I overheard him tell my brother he liked her. She stopped liking him very fast, and recently we were playing t or d with my other friends and they asked me who I liked and I said "Keller" and they were surprised I still liked him. They all think he is a douche but he's... idk... perfect? The fact that he can speak his mind and not care what people think in this world where everything has to be pc is... nice. My sister was even surprised she said "Him? But he's a jerk!" and I said "yeah I know." and she laughed saying "I love that you admit that but still like him" and the thing is I don't know what to do!! I don't even know if I love him or if its the fact that he was my first and only crush that I just feel attached to him. He's 4 years older then me and I don't even know if thats okay. I'd have to wait till I was 18 to be in a relationship with him and he'd probably already be in one by then. Love or whatever this is is hard and stupid and frustrating and painful and wonderful and beautiful and amazing... Liking a guy for years will confuse you, especially when you know he'll never like you back. I have feelings for him, and I've accepted the fact that he doesn't have any for me, I'll bury my feelings deep inside, I'll lie when people ask if I'm okay, I'll watch as he falls head over heels for a girl and I'll keep my mouth shut, but that doesn't mean I'll be crying when no one is looking. If I have to be miserable for him to be happy, so be it. He comes before everything, and I won't let my happiness get in the way of his.