Am I Aromantic?🔐
Haven't quite felt those butterflies or heart-fluttering moments with anyone special yet? 🦋❤️
Don't worry, we've got your back! And hey, that doesn't necessarily mean you're lacking in the passion department – if that's what's been on your mind, you might just be thinking about 'Asexuality.' But no sweat, we're here to help you unravel the enigma that is your romantic identity!
It's time to find out the truth! Grab your favorite snack, cozy up, and get ready to take this quiz.
Pick your best friend (that's not you girlfriend). Try and think about if you feel any different around her than around your best friend. You can also see what deeper qualities you like about her (you want to be with them 24/7, you feel a deeper bond, but not really that spark, ect.) Just analyze your feelings, and figure out why you love her. Chances are that if your are doubting your feelings, you are, sadly, most likely going to not be in love with her. That is okay. You can talk to them and tell them the truth. She will, most likely, be sad when you tell her, so you could also keep it to yourself and try to just keep a deep bond with them.
https://www.wikihow.com/Relationsh ips/Am-I-Aromantic-Quiz
I hope this helps. Please add another comment if you need a little more clarification. Also, if you add another comment, please add (if you have them) other feelings of doubt about your relationship being love.
I really think i love my gf but when i think abt that i get so confused and want to cry, i do want to love her and i think i do but ¿¿¿what if i don't love her and i don't know it??? She's just so beutiful, sweet, smart, funny and gives the best gifts and poems ever, she's one of the best persons i ever meet but i'm not sure if i can love her the way she loves me and it's just so sad bc i want to be with her for the rest of my 😻 life but i don't know if what i feel is love or something else bc feelings are just so mf weird and im not sure if it's bc im autistic and feelings are so strange to understand for me or im just broken or smth :(
I can relate to you a lot, because I, too, started thinking I might be asexual at a pretty young age, (around 13 as well I think), but I was scared to admit it, because what if I was just not old enough? What if I would start feeling all those things later? I thought I couldn't tell for sure at such an age, and so I resolved to come back to it when I was 16 and reevaluate it then, because at 16 surely people started to have all these sexual feelings for real, right?
Well, I'm seventeen now, and this summer I went to my first pride parade while proudly holding up my asexual flag. I didn't even wait until I was 16 to accept the lable, I didn't have to, because the more I thought of it, the more the concept of asexuality resonated with me. I came out for the first time to my best friend when I was 15, and I am proud to say that I am becoming more comfortable with my identity with each passing day.
Aromantisism was an entiraly different pill to swallow, and it took a lot more self-reflection to come to terms with it, because, quite frankly, I didn't want to be aromantic. But I've slowly started to accept that part of me as well, even though I still sometimes hesitate to admit it, because what if it changes? What if one day I fall in love? I think, however, that I can find peace in knowing that sexuality is fluid, and that it is okay to change.
I can't tell you for sure if you are asexual or aromantic or not, but I can tell you trust your own feelings, and not to hesitate because you feel you're not old or experienced enough. And also, allo-romantic people don't really doubt their crushes, because they have no reason to. Just the fact that you think your crushes might not be real can actually say a lot.
I know I eventually found a lot of peace in understanding and, most importantly, accepting my identity. And you don't have to decide right now. You can take your time, you can wait until you feel old enough, but you shoulnd't let your age or meaningless what-ifs stop you from embracing who you are. And I mean, you could be worse off. You could be in the stage where you just assume you must be bi or pan, because you feel the same for everybody! (Which is just nothing.)
Also I recently started thinking have I ever actually had a crush on anyone before? I don't think I have ever had a crush on anyone real and I am starting to doubt my last fictional crushes. Could I be aromantic too? I am so confused please help
25% demisexual, reasonable as well
17% aroace, meh I would prefer to date someone
8% aromantic, 👆
8% not aro, I'd rather be ace tbh
For 42% you are: You are mostly aromantic.
You might form close and strong friendships, enjoy sex, feel arousal, find people attractive and want kids, but you don't fall in love.
Sounds about right lol
25% aroace
25% demi
17% ace
0% aro
guess I'm not then ok
and then the term aromantic comes up
I THINK I AM AROACE
there are way more reasons I cant break up with her-----fear of loosing a close friend (could lead to loosing friend group),hurting her,embarrassing her and loads more-----I definitely care abt her,but it is in a platonic way
WHAT DO I DO
SOMEONE PLSSSSS HELP ME
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(ps.if u didnt get the imogen and nicck thing---i am so disappointed in u)
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