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What is my primary love language? 💕

10 Questions - Developed by: - Updated on: 2022-11-05 - 813 taken - 3 people like it

There are 5 different love languages, and it is often the case that you will find them to be of varying importance. Almost everyone has a primary language of love in which you most often communicate your affection for someone else. It is closely connected to what you also most like to receive in order to feel loved by your partner.
But what is your primary language of love? How do you show your love, and what do you expect from your partner? Find out in this little test and learn more about yourself!

Both people in a relationships and singles can take this test. If you're single at the moment, think of the questions as hypothetical scenarios. Your relationship status does not affect your love language.

Have fun!

1

You haven't seen your partner for a while because he/she was away. What are you most looking forward to when you see him/her?

Lately I have been stressed and he/she said he/she would treat me to a massage when he/she gets back!
I've been working out a lot and I'm looking forward to his/her reaction to my outward change.
That we can finally cuddle and kiss again!
That we can go on trips or watch movies at home!
He/she said he/she brought me a great souvenir. I wonder what it will be?

2

Your partner comes home from work/school/university stressed. How do you cheer him/her up?

I give my partner a big hug and lie down on the couch with him/her, give him/her a cuddle.
My partner has been wanting something specific for a while, I order it for him/her so he/she has something to look forward to.
I cook my partner his/her favorite meal and clean up a bit to make him/her feel good.
I spend a lot of time with him/her tonight. For example, we play a board game together or go out.
I tell my partner how proud I am of him/her for working so hard and how diligent he/she is.

3

What impresses you on a first date?

When we get physically closer and closer in a very natural way because the chemistry is right. Everything seems so exciting, like in a movie.
If one pays for my meal or gives me a very expensive gift, maybe even on the first date. Wow!
Woman: When someone offers to pick me up and also take me home, that's mega sweet./Man: When someone offers to cook me something. The person puts a lot of effort into the first date, that makes me happy.
When we talk a lot about each other and our experiences. I love long conversations!
When someone gives me a compliment that no one has ever given me before. He/she must have really gotten to know me.

4

What can't you do without?

I just need a lot of attention from my partner. Just sitting next to each other and everyone doing something else, that's not really my thing.
I would like to be reminded by small gifts that I am loved. (e.g. flowers, snacks)
Actions speak louder than words. If people really love me, they will also participate in the household, for example, or be there for me when I'm not feeling well.
Cuddles, kisses, (sex) and hugs. That's what I love in a relationship.:)
I want a lot of validation for my character and looks, so compliments are very important to me.

5

Which of these would you be most likely to do in public?

Telling my partner how happy I am to be spending time with him/her right now
Laughing out loud with my partner about inside jokes
Holding the door open, carrying the umbrella or giving my jacket to my partner when he/she is cold:)
Hold hands/wrap my arm around my partner
Buying my partner something great that he/she saw in the shop window

6

Think of one of your relationships that failed. What did you miss most?

We hardly spent any time alone and he/she didn't really care either.
I never ever received a sweet gift like flowers and if I did, the person didn't put any thought into it and just gave me something that had nothing to do with me.
My ex(es) only thought about themselves and I was left to do and plan everything on my own in the relationship.
Physical closeness. He/she didn't want to be touched or never touched me, (no sex), no kissing, just nothing.../We had a long distance relationship and could hardly see each other...
He/she just never said nice/uplifting words to me or even told me that he/she loved me.

7

What kind of gift would you prepare for an anniversary?

The most important thing is that we spend a lot of time together! We put away our cell phones and go to a zoo, for example, take souvenir photos and focus on our trip!
I would like to do something where I can be close to my partner. For example, ice skating, going to the beach, or even dancing.
I would prepare a small book with 20 things why I love my partner and decorate it nicely with memories!
I would buy my partner a thoughtful gift, for example, very expensive jewelry. Maybe a necklace, with a heart pendant and a photo of us in it.
I would spoil my partner. We would take some time to spend a relaxing day together and maybe even have a spa day. In the morning, I'd prepare breakfast in bed, and in the evening, I'd cook an elaborate meal.

8

How should partners ideally be to each other, in your opinion?

Compassionate and sensitive
Sincere and spoiling
Romantic, warm and gentle
Loving and interested in each other
Attentive and reliable

9

Can you be without your partner for a while?

Not really, I find it extremely difficult.
Actually yes, you don't have to see each other every day. But of course it shouldn't be too long.
If we at least talk on the phone or text once in a while, it works, but otherwise I'd rather not.
Yes, we also trust each other a lot. But of course I would miss him/her too.
A little bit. As long as he/she spends a lot of time with me afterwards, it's okay.

10

Your best memory from your current relationship/ from an older relationship is?

When he/she gave me a ring/necklace/something else that represents our relationship.:)
When we talked on the phone well into the late night for the first time:)
When he/she confessed his/her love to me and told me why he/she loves me:)
Once when I was feeling really bad, my partner took care of me in the sweetest way.
When we kissed for the first time:)

Comments (4)

ally (04292)

53 days ago

i got pyshical touch

Brooklyn (00922)

82 days ago

I got Words of Affirmation

Maddie (13837)

164 days ago

Crush is what the emoji is it replaced it when I looked for crush emojis

Maddie (13837)

164 days ago

YES FIRST COMMENT. I love my 🥰

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