Sex is in our faces much of the time, from what we watch, to sexually charged banter and stories of sexual escapades among friends, right down to which public bathroom it's more acceptable to use. To have sexual impulses rarely or not at all can make you feel you're flawed in some big way, or that you're simply invisible.
But wait. Like other types of non-heterosexuality, being asexual or "ace" isn't a choice YOU make. It's something you are; something that is or isn't happening with you. So don't be hard on yourself for simply being you. It could be you only feel sexual urges under select circumstances, or once you've gotten to know someone. In the latter case, it's actually wise to not rush into sex with strangers.
The quizzes in this section can help you determine if you're indeed asexual. Of course, they are no substitute for honest self-reflection. And you definitely shouldn't make major decisions or take drastic actions because of ANY quiz result. OK? Try the quizzes here, and feel free to add your own if you feel inspired. Your effort just might help someone who really needs it.