Am I Asexual, Or Aromantic? - The AroAce Test
Let's help you explore your identity and uncover whether you resonate with the asexual, aromantic, or both spectra! If you're here, chances are you're curious and seeking clarity, and you've come to the perfect place. This carefully crafted quiz is tailored to provide you with invaluable insights into your potential placement along the aro or ace spectrum, guiding you towards a deeper understanding of your unique self. Get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and let's uncover which aspects of these spectra resonate most strongly with you!
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I‘ve always known that I‘m probably asexual because I’ve never felt this „omg he/she‘s so handsome“ feeling that everybody is talking about and I really don‘t understand what‘s so appealing about 💑or stuff like that. But I didn‘t thought I was aromantic because I thought I had several crushes in elementary school (this was actually just my „everyone has a crush so I need to have one, too“-phase). Now that I think about it it was pretty obvious tho. I‘ve never really got all those romance movies my mom forced me to watch with her or why the hell I would want to get married or have kids or stick my tongue into someone elses mouth.
So anywaysss my best friend confessed to me around christmas. She said that she had a crush on me for a long time and that I was perfect and she wanted to be together with me, which came extremly surprising because she had a bf ar the time that she was starting to hang out with more than with me. And idk I was used to like ppl back when they said they liked me bc that‘s just how it works so I said yes and suddenly we were together. And ngl I was really happy bc she told me all those nice things that she never told me before such as your so pretty or your so funny, you know? And I just assumed that was a sign for me that I had a crush on her, too.
So then all this dating stuff happened and at first it was just going out to eat and talk about stuff casually. But then at some point it started to get all hand-holding and cuddeling and I just felt so uncomfortable at any touch to the point where I waned to cry when I thought about us cuddeling, which is super dramatic, am I right? But still I don‘t wanna feel that way and I was trying to describe that to her before because she told me our friendship wouldn‘t be over if I descided to leave her. But she doesn‘t see, to get the hint. What the hell do I do?? Do I tell her I‘m suddenly aroace and then sit next to her at school like nothing‘s happened..
Because she has those „noone really loves me or cares about me“ thoughts lately. And I really don‘t want my coming out to escalate in her having a mental breakdown and us fighting…:/
Does anyone have an advise maybe?? As fellow aromantics or asexuals
Other times: HOLY CHEESUS IM AROACE AS HELL
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