Are you gay? - a gay man's perspective

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When I was coming out to myself, I spent a lot of sleepless nights looking for a quiz that would take my question seriously: was I gay? Now, looking back on it I wanted to compile a list of a few key signs that I can recognize in myself to help others who are looking for a quiz beyond basic stereotypes. If you are gay yourself and have any similar anecdotes to add, let me know and I may update the quiz.

  • 1
    Why are you taking this test?
  • 2
    Have you ever looked at another male and felt aroused at the idea of having their body?
  • 3
    When you find out that somebody is gay, in real life, a book, or other modes of entertainment, how do you feel?

  • 4
    When friends and family ask you what your ideal girlfriend would look like, how do you respond?
  • 5
    When you watch straight porn, how do you feel?
  • 6
    Have you ever unexpectedly felt the need to be close to one of your male friends?

  • 7
    Is there anybody else in your friend group who is LGBT or you/others suspect is LGBT?
  • 8
    Do you live in an area where being LGBT is common?
  • 9
    Have you ever found yourself staring at another male for longer than usual?
  • 10
    What are you hoping to see at the end of this quiz?

Comments (37)


22 days ago
Welp i'm straight as a line
39 days ago
When I answer truthfully and honestly I usually get bi or gay, rarely do I get straight, usually on test with odd answers. I have flirted with girls, but I've never really been sexually attracted to them, especially not recently, but it's different with men and males. If I'm bi I definitely lean more gay, though, I don't think I would marry a man unless God didn't exist.
52 days ago
I got probably gay, welp now I'm trans and gay fun.
53 days ago
i got maybe bi, yey :)
62 days ago
This is broken i got gay first then i tried again then i got bi even tho i picked all the straight answers is there no straight
65 days ago
i just came out as gay! im so happy! i like willeyyyyyyyyyyyy
78 days ago
I'm 100% GAY!!!šŸ˜ŠšŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ
82 days ago
It said it doesnt know but it thinks im Bisexual
92 days ago
I WAS GAY!!!!!!! (I knew it tho)
140 days ago
"You're are probably gay"

......welp now my family has two gay sons.....
149 days ago
šŸ˜ŠšŸ˜ŠI'd came out this morning to my parents, and it went well, so I'm happy i got the gay answer
159 days ago
Definitely gay. And that's true.
216 days ago
Im bi and my family,friends and a few other people know and are very supportive
286 days ago
I am bi. it thinks.
288 days ago
woo hoo Im gay šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ
311 days ago
thanks bob for taking the time out x
394 days ago
@David (and anyone else like him) - Trust me, no matter how scary this last month has been, you should and I don't think will regret it. It too within the last 12 months came out to myself. And I was 50 (now 51.) Yes, I have regrets it took so long, since I knew for about 30 years that I'm gay. Still, it's OK and without having walked the road I've traveled, I wouldn't be who I am now and would not have had some friends that are very dear to me.
FYI - I within the first 90 days of my epiphany, came out to most of my friends and family. No negative reaction, so while I was scared beyond words, it was wonderful.
I hope your friends and family are the same, but recognize that they may not be. So be safe.
420 days ago
423 days ago
Dang bro ur right, Iā€™m frickin gay
425 days ago
I'm gay yay hooray has to be 19 chars