Let's Turn You On! Lesbian Test

A quiz that aims to be a genuinely helpful online way for girls with questions to figure things out - if only just a little. Made especially for those struggling with compulsive heternormativity. All wlw welcome. Take it now and I bet you'll feel better about things soon!

  • 1
    What type of man do you feel you've had a crush on, mostly?
    What type of man do you feel you've had a crush on, mostly?
  • 2
    When you envision a man you could possibly be with long-term, what do you see?
  • 3
    When you think of having sex/being in a relationship with a man, what do you feel?

  • 4
    Give yourself ten seconds. Think of every man you consider attractive that you can. How many did you get?
  • 5
    Now, think of every attractive woman that you can. How many did you get?
  • 6
    Who, in general, do you focus on in (heterosexual) kissing or sex scenes of movies and TV shows?

  • 7
    Do you struggle to relate to heterosexual romances?
  • 8
    Do you ever interpret platonic fondness for a man as a crush?
  • 9
    Do you feel inexplicably happy when seeing gay couples in public?
    Do you feel inexplicably happy when seeing gay couples in public?
  • 10
    Separated from all politics, prejudices, discrimination, etc., does the idea of being with a woman make you feel happy?

Comments (283)


18 days ago
hello there!

Yes, I am that person.

Fellow jtards, the Acroway sent me here this year.

Hope you all meet me soon!
52 days ago
@hi I have the same issue
136 days ago
hey there,
i just took this test because i had a very very deep talk with a friend today. She is really cool, has a wonderful personality and is open-minded.
I am really confused with my sexuality (i may be lesbian, rn i feel comfortable with this label, but i fell in love with a guy some years ago and im confused.)
but what i wanted to tell you is the chilled attitude my friend has:
she told me she really likes two girls from her class, and she might be lesbian and polyamorous, but in fact she labels herself like this: (i try to reconstruct and translate (from german) what she said)
"i just want my sexuality to be a little part of my daily life, like i tell you "this morning i drunk a cup of coffee" i could tell you "i'm queer". it doesn't matter to me that much, as long as im happy. I'm fine with being confused."

i thought it could help you as long as youre still confused like me.
have a great day be gay
and have a great day be confused or hetero or bi or etc. :)
168 days ago
@Killie The way I did it is if people ask, tell them honestly. Also, I think a good way is to start putting pride stuff subtly into your outfits and just get people to ask questions. It's hard to start a conversation like "Hey yea I'm gay" but I think it's probably much easier to talk about if you're not the one breaking the ice. Also, although this is just a theory, allies may be more likely to recognize the pride items and ask about it. Hope this helps!
186 days ago
Also, for some reason guys are just not appealing but girls are.
186 days ago
I've been questioning if I'm a lesbian or not for a while now and I think I might be [I only feel 1% lesbian though]. When I took this quiz, it said I'm "pretty gay" but I'm actually just a mix of ace, straight, and I'm slightly lesbian because I kind of feel like there's butterflies in my stomach when I see a pretty girl.
187 days ago
Hi I'm a lesbian and don't know how to come out to people.
217 days ago
what the heck is heteronormativity
233 days ago
@GirlInRed Yes Ik how u feel, I am 10, and ive been feeling like that for years now..
240 days ago
It said I was “pretty” gay I’m very surprised it was like really on point ‘cause I’m bicurious
256 days ago
I loved this quiz! And it told me I’m lesbian which I kind of knew but I don’t know how I’m going to come out lol
300 days ago
Dear @LesbianWitch
the last comment was directed to you. i wrote the wrong name.
Are you still here? your last comment a year ago made me cry... of happiness because i finally didnt feel alone.
write to me:)
Girl in red
312 days ago
@Billie eillish fan (59436)

Its almost a year later and I doubt that you will see this... i only found your comment now. I still feel the same way as i did a year ago. I still have enormous problems with my sexuality. I constantly tell myself that i cant be lesbian and i try to find reasons to convince myself im not, like picking a non-ugly guy and telling myself that im crushing on him just because i like him as a friend. (Maybe i really am... but its not the same feeling as when i fell in love with my best girl friend)
I just feel a little lost ❤️ I know deep down that im a lesbian and ive been questioning since im 9 years old.
All my bisexual friends tell me im lesbian too. I dint know what im so scared of
How did you overcome internalised homophobia?
Please help❤️
✨girl in red
315 days ago
It says that I’m pretty gay- I’m confused
329 days ago
it said i am very gay :>
372 days ago
it said i could be bi, pan, straight or anything else and i just need to figure myself out. but ive taken like 50 billion of these and im pretty sure im Bi but my family is super mormon and if i tell them ill be shunned cause i kinda like girls more than guys, but am still into both. help me please
391 days ago
@Pleaseeee u need answers (85308) (and everyone who'll ever encounter this)
Your parents may think they know you better than anyone else, but in the vast majority of cases, they *think* they know you, or they know an older version of you, etc. Point is, your mom shouldn't have anything to say regarding you orientation (you're the one with confused feelings, not her) and the test is just made to help you see things more clearly, there's no quiz that'll screen your level of gayness.
Ask yourself. The only thing that matters here is you, and how *you*'re feeling. And, more importantly, take some time to explore. Don't try to have your sexuality figured out too early, because it might change, and leave you even more confused.
On that note, I'm super gay and super proud. Hope you'll come to terms with your identity soon, if that's what you wish. ~
400 days ago
hi I’m really confused about what I am supposed to be it said I am gay my mum is still insisting that I am strate and I feel a little uncomfortable
403 days ago
oh my god thank you sm for this test! it's the first one i've taken where compulsory heterosexuality was taken into account. I hope you can make more
427 days ago
mine said i am gay , and know i have a girlfriend and i love her so much this test has literally changed my life