Am I A Lesbian For My Best Friend? Quiz

Think you might be attracted to your best friend? Don't feel embarrassed if you do - it's truly not uncommon. Take this quiz to find out if it’s true love, just a phase, or nothing at all, really.

  • 1
    Think of the person you might be a lesbian for. Now, got her in your brain?
    Think of the person you might be a lesbian for. Now, got her in your brain?
  • 2
    If this person asked you to hang out, but you already had other plans, you would:
  • 3
    You and this person are having a casual conversation. You:

  • 4
    This person asks you to spend the night. You're watching a movie and she puts her arm around you. What do you do?
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    How long have you known her?
  • 6
    Has she ever flirted with you?

  • 7
    Are you comfortable changing clothes in front of her?
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    How do you flirt with her?
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    How often do you see this person?
  • 10
    Have you ever wanted to kiss this person?

  • 11
    Do you think about this person when you're waking up or going to bed?
  • 12
    How do you feel when you first see her in a day?
  • 13
    If this person told you they liked someone of the opposite gender, you would feel:
  • 14
    If this person told you she had a crush on you, which of these would you most likely do?
  • 15
    If this person told you she likes you, which of these would you most likely do?
  • 16
    Are you sad/lonely when you haven't seen this person in a while?

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    Do people ever joke about you and this person being a couple?

Comments (108)


41 days ago
I really like her like a lot we’ve been friends for almost a year or a little over that and I genuinely love her but I know as a matter of fact that she doesn’t☹️.. like there is quite literally no chance at all.. idk if I’m aroace or pan..
138 days ago
i've kissed my best friend before (my first kiss), we've said we both liked each other but like we're also kind of confused? known her since i was 3, flirt all the time but feel too young to date. idk if its a crush or love tho
182 days ago
So basically I have this friend (they go by they/them) I knew for 4 years, I liked them when I first meet them but never told them. The next year we told each other we used to like each other we then stared to date more down the road. It was only for a day and to make the girl they like jealous. When we broke up I told them I actually like them and they ghosted me for the half of the school year, until I texted them again. It’s been 2 years I think I like them again, we came a lot closer and we flirt all the time but thats what besites do RIGHT!? A couple of days ago this guy told them he liked them, they said they aren’t capable of being in a relationship cuz of personal reasons I shouldn’t say. Idk if I’m jealous or angry but ik I don’t want him to take them away from me and idk if it’s cuz their my bestie or I like them. Yesterday they sent me two tiktoks abt liking your best friend and the other one spelled out “I love you so much but I don’t know how to tell you because I know you love someone else..” and idk if their joking like always and idk if I like them platonically or romantically. HELP!!
189 days ago
i might be pan or bi but im not quite sure...most of my crushes were based on personality but a couple were based on looks so impossible to tell
189 days ago
thought i was straight but my close friend has been coming to mind since last night and i get butterflies too...but i kinda still like this one guy named nolan who i think she likes too. i dont think i have a chance with her but she is quite open to me so maybe? she is EXTREMELY hot with loooong brown hair deep brown eyes and a stunning smile. shes a bit younger than me (only by 8 months so im 12 shes 11) and is shy sweet and super nice. i dont know my sexuality yet and i dont want to ruin our friendship so im gonna stay quiet. im having a major gay crisis PLEASE HELP
257 days ago
At the very least, i want to know if she even likes girls before even considering saying something thats probably stupid. Also, i dont have a friend who really knows both me and my crush so i don't feel like i can really talk to any of my friends about it.
275 days ago
We've been best friends for such a long time (almost 9 years) and I don't want to lose her at all... It's stupid how she's the only person who's ever made me freak out and start trembling out of nowhere and standing and staring at her like an 🌻. We went out together once and I almost kissed her but I chickened out. Is this just a phase? Should I avoid it since my parents are homophobic? I've been in pain for months..
304 days ago
So my best friend began dating this guy, who I've known since 1st grade, and every time I was around them i got really bad anxiety, like they were going to third wheel me. My friend broke up with him and i am so much better now, but another thing fueling my anxiety was that I already liked my best friend and he got to her first. Now that he's gone people have been shipping us and we always blush at this and i kinda want her to realize that i wouldn't mind dating her. Should I ask her out or just move on? Cause i mean ive always liked her since we were little, i thought she was my friend, but i now know that im in love with her.
310 days ago
So guys basically shes my best freind and shes in a relationship but idrk if she wants to b in it anymore since she finds it awkward and the other person doesnt reciprocate as much. I like that they r together i think i ship it but i also have feelings for her but i wouldnt say that since im not sure she even thinks im gay. People have shipped us before lmao and also today she asked if she sent three paragraphs saying her love to me and asking if we could date what would i do, me being me i joked about how id leave her on delivered. She seemed to get kinda offended but she was joking she was like "lmao ur destroying my ego" but anyways i hope shes happy and yeah.
314 days ago
329 days ago
I want sooooo much for this girl to say she loves me.. I met her at my local theatre and it seems like we became friends instantly. I liked her immediately. Like like. So love. I ditched my old crush, another girl and found a new one. The problem is she is super shy and I think she gets bullied at her school. 😢😢 The sad human from Davenport Junior Theatre.
407 days ago
IM CONFUSED!!! I think my best friend likes me but I’m not sure and I don’t want to hold her hand or hug her if she’s not into girls. But I know when people like me because I can just tell. I also feel like she likes me but I’m not totally sure. PS Please help me 😅😫
431 days ago
I'm just a confused teenager girl help me here.
431 days ago
@Miki OOF same here, sending you my best wishes well.. I'm still not sure about myself but I hope I'm still straight😩 Do you know any way I could just stop doubting my sexuality and stuff? I'm not homophobic but it's forbidden for me to have any romantic or other more than friendly interaction with a girl so I really want to get this done... Thank you :)
431 days ago
SHOOT. It's literally forbidden for me to like girls and I feel like I like her but she's so straight and I want to get this feeling off of me, I don't want her to know and I don't want her to feel uncomfortable around me. I definetly don't want to ruin our friendship either because I love her... I'm not against the community, but please if some of you know how I can get my straight ness back I would be very pleased, please let me know if I can do anything to get over this. I'm supposed to be a straight girl who has a crush on her guy friend but I never imagined things would escalate so much...
432 days ago
I like my best friend and we're both into girls so should I shoot my shot?
467 days ago
My bestie is a lesbian and a nonbinary. i really like them. but we are in middle school and they are gothic i am visco idk what to do but i am hpoeful.
518 days ago
So I keep having these dreams of me and my best friend having sleep overs and being very close to each other. And I’m bi so I don’t really mind being in love with her and she is omnisexual so it could work out. But I’m like really weird and she is like the cool kid in school. So I’m not sure if she has feelings for me or if she just thinks of me as a friend. Another problem is that it could break up our friend group of three and we have all known each other since we were 5. I really don’t know what to do. Can someone please give me advice?


542 days ago
My crush (who is my best friend) is straight and I’m bi. Welp. I got that I like her enough to start something with her. One of my other friends came out as bi today so if I ever did develop feelings, we could work although she likes her best friend.
543 days ago
I got “ You might like her enough to start something with her.”
I also have a crush on another girl (who happens to be my best friend) but I think she has a crush on another one of my female friends. They get along really well and I’m happy for them but at the same time I’m kinda sad.

Now about this first girl, I asked her if she could live with a partner who owned a pet, and she said no she couldn’t imagine living with any partner. Not sure if that means with a romantic partner, or with a different kind of partner.

Please help...