How should you come out?

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This quiz is for anyone who wants to come out as lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pan, ace, or anything! Also, you can take this quiz for every person you come out to, since the results may be different. Remember to stay safe, and I hope coming out goes well for you!:)

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    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
  • 2
    Which answer best describes your personality?
  • 3
    Another personality question: how creative are you?

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    How do you view your coming out?
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    How do you WANT to come out?
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    What comes to mind when you think of being out?

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    Halway done! Here’s an easy question (does not effect score): what are you coming out as?
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    Is the person you’re coming out to educated on the LGBTQ+ community?
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    How much effort are you willing to put into coming out?
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    How visibly queer are you right now?

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    How many people already know?
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    Here’s another question that won’t affect your score. Choose a queer icon!
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    How many LGBTQ+ friends do you have?
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    How excited are you to come out.
  • 15
    Last question! This doesn’t affect the score. How did you like this quiz?

Comments (30)


13 days ago
@ash10 do it, if u have Supportive parents and if you are sure you are ♡ Good luck ¤
13 days ago
@alyssa just do it!♡ I mean,- u have supportive Parents you lucky one ;/ good luck!
13 days ago
@Ada omg you are just like me!! For real, i thought for a second if it was me, who wrote the comment ♡ First of all: Please only come out, when your really 100% sure, that u are. I've made the mistake to tell someone, and now they wont believe me, if i would come out as nonbinary. But please stay safe
14 days ago
I want to but I just-
I'm coming out as trans (I hope so anyway)
Any help in comments then please reply
Btw I'm trans guy (FtM)
Please no hate!
20 days ago
I just came out to someone for the first time and thankfully she didn't rlly care lmfao
45 days ago
Im only 12 and im bi and have a gf. I knew since 4th grade and i REALLLLLY want to tell my parents and there accepting 100% but i dont when to tell them and im really scareddd can someone just please force me to do it. Thank you :)
58 days ago
At least she didn’t overreact
58 days ago
I first wanted to see my mum’s reaction if I told her my classmates gay (which is true he told everyone in my class I’m proud of him and everyone accepted him🥺✌🏻🏳️‍🌈)
She was a little ‘meh’ about it and said he was too young and it’s stupid. She then told me not to be gay.
I’m straight, but I’m kinda am worried about her reaction if I tell her I’m a questioning straight demisexual...(No not I like Demi Lovato!)
58 days ago
I'm nonbinary trans. Is it a good idea to come out to the one grandparent I know will accept me, and ask her to keep it a secret from the other one?
77 days ago
I'm 12 will be 13 in january, and im pan and have a gf, my parets hinted homophobia, but also support. Most of my friends know im pan but my parents don't, I want them to know im pan (not about my gf yet tho xD ) but they'd most likely say: YoUr ToO YoUnG tOo KnOw YeT.
So im here. hoping for the best for everyon else, cuz I ain't comming out yet. ok im done bye
82 days ago
Hi i’m 13, i know that i’m bi that’s pretty obvious, i would need to be blind if I hadn’t figured that out, but lately i have been questioning my gender. I always thought that i was i cisgender girl but now i’m not too sure. I think i might be non-binary. Like being bi wasn’t enough i had to be trans aswell😕. I have nothing against it, but maybe having a bi and enby child is a bit too much for mom and dad, since they are the most homophobic people i know. I already told my mom about being bi. And believe me when i say she wasn’t happy to hear that. I guess the uncomfy feeling when being called a girl and the urge to cut my hair was not nothing. Anyways it’s not like they would kick me out of the house if they knew. So i guess should just tell them. Maybe tell my friends first tho.
86 days ago
I'm sitting here taking this quiz whit crying and eating tortellinis im coming out as non-binary hope it goes well for u to com out if you read this comment
95 days ago
I think I’m bi? I’m only 12, but I don’t know if it’s because subconsciously I want to feel special and different, or if I’m actually lesbian, or if I’m just bi. I know my parents will be supportive, but I don’t want to come out and turn out not to be bi!😭 someone plz give me advice.🙂
105 days ago
I don’t what to come out and I don’t now if I like women and men because i don’t have feelings for any of the genders
117 days ago
I am only 9 and i am gay as 💑.🏳️‍🌈💕
117 days ago
Im coming out on Friday and I am really nervous 😬
125 days ago
i am kinda scared to come out but this helped a lot!!
126 days ago
I’m also ten.. heh
126 days ago
I’m coming out of the closet- hopefully to my parents as Pan and Nonbinary and at some point I’ll have to tell them that I have Depression, Anxiety, Social Anxiety and have an Eating Disorder so that’s gonna be GREAT but good news is last night I told my cousin (Catholic and Nonbinary + is Lesbian) that my aunt is BI witch I did not know (She’s VERY catholic) and I think I’ve only told one friend who has a girlfriend and my mother doesn’t know about it I had to teach her what gay was my father doesn’t think that there’s not over two genders...sorry got a bit carried away umm have a great day...
136 days ago
I’m going to come out to my sister as Non-Binary/Enby soon. She’s apart of LGBT+ (she’s Bi) so she’ll accept me for sure. I’m kinda excited! Btw this quiz was great