How should you come out?

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This quiz is for anyone who wants to come out as lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pan, ace, or anything! Also, you can take this quiz for every person you come out to, since the results may be different. Remember to stay safe, and I hope coming out goes well for you!:)

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    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
  • 2
    Which answer best describes your personality?
  • 3
    Another personality question: how creative are you?

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    How do you view your coming out?
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    How do you WANT to come out?
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    What comes to mind when you think of being out?

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    Halway done! Here’s an easy question (does not effect score): what are you coming out as?
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    Is the person you’re coming out to educated on the LGBTQ+ community?
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    How much effort are you willing to put into coming out?
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    How visibly queer are you right now?

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    How many people already know?
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    Here’s another question that won’t affect your score. Choose a queer icon!
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    How many LGBTQ+ friends do you have?
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    How excited are you to come out.
  • 15
    Last question! This doesn’t affect the score. How did you like this quiz?

Comments (44)


3 days ago
@help me plz, I have a few names

-Adrian (maybe neutral?)
-Jester (neutral I think)
7 days ago
My mom says I'm to young to know
12 days ago
Okay so I told my mom I was lesbian and she didn’t really care. I also told my friend and she is bi. My sister is bi too so I have nothing to worry about because I realized I changed and I am something else. I know they will be supportive I just don’t want to do it for a second time. Btw I realized I am asexual panromantic and trans ftm. I just want people to know who I really am and use the right pronouns. If people could give me some ideas on how to do it that would be great or just force me to do it
13 days ago
I have a gf, I am a girl btw, and when I told my mom I am lesbian she said I'm to young to know but I've been since as long as I can remember never been attracted to boys only girls. She doesn't believe my what do I do? I am almost 16 tommorow
13 days ago
I got that I should just be chill and write a letter. I am so nervous to come out. My Dad is so homophobic he will probably kick me out but I won't be able to live with myself if J don't do this. Wish me luck! :)
33 days ago
I've got an amazing and creative idea! I'll make a closet from paper (not just a drawing but something you can OPEN) and I'll write inside "I'm a Lesbian and I'm coming out of the closet"!
Isn't it an awesome idea?!
40 days ago
Oh my god Robin me to
57 days ago
someone already said this but its buried deep in the comments so ill say it again because omg its a pretty good idea. Hide in the closet and then when whoever you are coming out to is kinda just doing nothing jump out of the closet and when they ask you what your doing you say "im coming out of the closet, im _________.
61 days ago
I I am a very strong Christian. It says in the Bible that man shall not sleep with men but that is misunderstood. What it is referring to is that man shall not sleep with other men’s wives. God loves everybody for who they are.I have several by gay/lesbian friends and I myself am Bi. Maybe you telling him could change the way he feels about it
73 days ago
But, almost all my family is homo-
87 days ago
one of my friends is cristian and he hates gay people aghhhhhh heeeeeeelp i actually really want to tell himmmm
91 days ago
my name isn't any of your concern

if you see this here are some ideas:
call them and tell them you're going to jail and once they start freaking out say jk but i might be gay
wait until 3:00 am or really late when they're awake and come out of the closet(literally) and when they ask what you're doing say"im coming out of the closet, im gay"
tell them
hang a pride flag in your room
okay thats all i got
103 days ago
I have no idea what to do
141 days ago
I’m coming out as non-binary to my friends and I’m still having trouble accepting myself, like what if i change my mind? I don’t want to seem indecisive or a faker but i just want to be truthful and be me, even if i cant present how i want to...
160 days ago
@ash10 do it, if u have Supportive parents and if you are sure you are ♡ Good luck ¤
160 days ago
@alyssa just do it!♡ I mean,- u have supportive Parents you lucky one ;/ good luck!
160 days ago
@Ada omg you are just like me!! For real, i thought for a second if it was me, who wrote the comment ♡ First of all: Please only come out, when your really 100% sure, that u are. I've made the mistake to tell someone, and now they wont believe me, if i would come out as nonbinary. But please stay safe
162 days ago
I want to but I just-
I'm coming out as trans (I hope so anyway)
Any help in comments then please reply
Btw I'm trans guy (FtM)
Please no hate!
167 days ago
I just came out to someone for the first time and thankfully she didn't rlly care lmfao
192 days ago
Im only 12 and im bi and have a gf. I knew since 4th grade and i REALLLLLY want to tell my parents and there accepting 100% but i dont when to tell them and im really scareddd can someone just please force me to do it. Thank you :)