How should you come out? Quiz

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This quiz is for anyone who wants to come out as lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pan, ace, or anything! Also, you can take this quiz for every person you come out to, since the results may be different. Remember to stay safe, and I hope coming out goes well for you!:)

  • 1
    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
  • 2
    Which answer best describes your personality?
  • 3
    Another personality question: how creative are you?

  • 4
    How do you view your coming out?
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    How do you WANT to come out?
  • 6
    What comes to mind when you think of being out?

  • 7
    Halway done! Here’s an easy question (does not effect score): what are you coming out as?
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    Is the person you’re coming out to educated on the LGBTQ+ community?
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    How much effort are you willing to put into coming out?
  • 10
    How visibly queer are you right now?

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    How many people already know?
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    Here’s another question that won’t affect your score. Choose a queer icon!
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    How many LGBTQ+ friends do you have?
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    How excited are you to come out.
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    Last question! This doesn’t affect the score. How did you like this quiz?

Comments (67)


3 days ago
I’m 10 and I pretty sure I’m non-binary and bi I’m so scared and need help so I’m not coming out till I’m 18 so I can move out if they don’t except me (they probably won’t except me so that’s why I’m waiting till 18)
10 days ago
I really loved this.Also,queers I'm proud that you guys have joined the community.
I love you guys,queer or not.
37 days ago
Remember!: this is your story, your life, your business. Never feel like you're being forced into coming out, (could include stuff like, "but they're your best friend/family member, they deserve to know) it's your decision to make. Don't come out unless you're positive you're ready and it won't affect your life negatively.

-a trans boy
37 days ago
Hello to anyone who sees this. I did this quiz because I’m afraid. Some of my online friends know about me being trans. No one else knows. They accept me and don’t make misgender me. I’ve known them for quite a while.. I think almost 2 years.. currently I’m 15 and I live with my dad alone and many things stress him out. I couldn’t possibly tell him about me being trans... we’ve been having a hard time ever since we moved to another country. When we visited my mom in japan they had a big fight. It’s been over 2 years but I don’t think I can come out. Hopefully there’s other people feeling like me.
37 days ago
Still not gonna come out anytime soon
37 days ago
It’s hard being the only lesbian in my house but whatever
37 days ago
I took the test don’t think I’ll come out anytime soon
50 days ago
I a scared to come out as trans to my parents.I am 11 and this is a lot of stress what should I do?
68 days ago
Hey everyone, I just want to remind whoever sees this that you don't owe it to ANYONE to come out. Okay? You don't have to tell anybody if you're not ready, you don't ever have to tell anyone if that's what you want. You can tell the whole 💗 world if that is something that YOU want. And if you're just starting to figure out your identity, it is perfectly okay to keep it to yourself. Don't ever think that you have some obligation to come out to specific people. You have the power to tell or not tell whoever you choose, yeah? I love you and I'm so proud of you, and I promise that everything's gonna be okay
68 days ago
i'm actually really excited to come out to my brother in a few days!! i finally feel ready to tell someone who's not just an online friend and i'm pretty sure he'll support me or at least keep it from my parents. it's gonna be so good to have someone on my side who knows hehe
73 days ago
Well then I already have a piece of paper explaining everything from the weird way I sometimes but all lot of times but never feel attraction to my very minority sexuality to my funky as heck gender and I think I might sometimes within this month
78 days ago
I just hope to come out someday lol I started to know I'm lesbian 7 years ago when I was literally ten lol
I think my mom already knows (i once told her i have a crush on a girl) but my dad has said a lot of homophobic things so im pretty scared to come out :(
85 days ago
And also Even buy pride stuff in front of my mom and she didn’t care she just got for me this just proof she supports lgbtq and my dad bring his past that he used to gay as insult when was kid then he learned that was missed and doesn’t that anymore think goodness
85 days ago
Tbh I know for a fact my amazing parents will be hella of supportive because have cousins that are part of the lgbtq community and also some even friends are part the community as well and my dad and my mom they both generally fully support lgbtq my made a point by saying I love you no matter what she actually generally telling the truth and my dad also said similar thing the only reason I am bit scared of is of coming out as pansexual then turned out I am just straight and have tell them that but doubt I isn’t straight for a fact but that is only worrying coming out
106 days ago
I'm kinda scared. I'm not even 100% sure of my sexuality, but I know that someday I'll have to come out. My mother and sibling are very supportive, but my dad's very queerphobic. He has stated several times that, if he ever finds proof that queerness is completely okay and all, he'll change his mind. I don't know how to tell him, and I don't want to attend conversion therapy. Plus, I'm a minor, so if he kicks me out I'm screwed. Help.
128 days ago
I have no idea how my mum's going to react but I got a bag packed, money saved and possibly a place to stay. I think I'm gonna come out tomorrow but I might chicken out bcs she's said transphobic things before and I'm scared.
134 days ago
Also every time I come out to someone I feel super sick to my stomach and I wish it weren’t that way
134 days ago
Ok so the girl I want to come out to is my bestie, I’m also a girl, and I thought it would be kinda weird because I think she may be gay as well? And I have a pretty good idea that she’s kinda into me, and if I came out I think it would be kinda awkward but I don’t know and it’s just killing me. Did I mention I like her as well?
152 days ago
okay so i'm bisexual and i go by she/her pronouns (possibly she/they?) and i want to come out to my parents. my mom is very supportive of the lgbtqia+ community, but my dad is questionable. my mom said that she supports everybody and that every sexuality and gender identity is valid, but my dad has said some transphobic things at times. he supports the lgbtqia+ community but i can tell he judges them sometimes. im very introverted and shy and i just moved to a new town and it's a really nice town (very liberal) and they're very supportive of queer people. my close friends are pansexual/bisexual/lesbian and i have a trans cousin (ftm, they/he pronouns) and my family supports them. im a little nervous as well bc i can't tell if i'm pansexual, lesbian dealing w comphet, or even biromantic????? idk dude
161 days ago
Helpful quiz! I’m still really nervous about coming out, lol.