How Should You Come Out? Quiz

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This quiz is for anyone who wants to come out as lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pan, ace, or anything else! Also, you can take this quiz for every person you are thinking of coming out to, since your result will probably vary depending on the person. Remember to stay safe, and I hope that coming out goes well for you!:)

  • 1
    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
  • 2
    Which answer best describes your personality?
  • 3
    Another personality question: How creative are you?

  • 4
    How do you view your coming-out?
  • 5
    How do you WANT to come out?
  • 6
    What comes to mind when you think of being out?

  • 7
    Here’s an easy question (does not affect score): What are you coming out as?
  • 8
    Is the person you’re coming out to educated about the LGBTQ+ community?
  • 9
    How much effort are you willing to put into coming out?
  • 10
    How visibly queer are you right now?

  • 11
    How many people already know?
  • 12
    Here’s another question that won’t affect your score: Choose a queer icon!
  • 13
    How many LGBTQ+ friends do you have?
  • 14
    How excited are you to come out?

Comments (98)


39 days ago
I was looking for the "everyone on the internet that dosent know it me" answer on question 11 lol
101 days ago
@michael wasowski i read the whole thing if u think ppl will think ur polyamorous just gell the what polysexual is they will accept u just the way u r ok girl me and my gf r ready to go public and i think we r gonna tell ppl and show it at school

im 12 year old going to year 8 in 2 weeks and im a girl i came out as lesbian to my foster carers may and my mom last week
101 days ago
@????? for me my parents said that my sister came out as lesbian before and it made me wonder if they wanted me to come out so just like ask ur parents maybe like if they maybe were LGBTQ or if they knew anyone and they will like help u then u can say what u r im sure theyll love u the same and i came out to my foster parents my autistic bro my mom and my friends and they love me the same ok just be urself 🏳️‍🌈❤
101 days ago
well i want to cut my hair short but im too scared to ask my parents in case they think its too lesbian coz i came out to them in like may i think and they said not to tell ppl in case they bully me but i kinda wanna come out i already have a beautiful gf and i just need advice to tell my parents i want to cute my hair coz i go back to school in like 2 weeks and i wanna cut it before school so if u guys have advice id love to hear it 🏳️‍🌈
109 days ago
I still need help I am so scared and nervous but kind of excited. I’ve been putting it off for about a month because I am so nervous. Please give me advice 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
110 days ago
I got the result to write a letter but my friend doesn't understand a lot of words
118 days ago
Im desperate to come out now as I have partner who is he/they/them & fem & I’m
Gender queer & fem & love them soo
Especially after getting out of a straight relationship of 18 years,
I feel soo much myself now it’s amazing feeling & all of you are all inspiring

120 days ago
@Issy things will get better! At the end of the day, it's the people who love you for who you are that matter. I haven't come out to me parents yet but I know they don't think non-binarys a real gender. So I'm just planning to spend more time with friends and people who accept me, and then when I'm older I don't have to speak to them again. Ik we're in different situations but I hope this helps!
138 days ago
I posted 43 day’s ago and I still haven’t came out yet it is so hard any advice
139 days ago
i came out to my friend. she didnt care(lmao)
141 days ago
i really wanna come out to my friend, but she is besties with a horrible girl, who goes on abt starting the lgbtq craze!!!! ugh. if i say "im a demisexual demigirl!" shell be like oh me tooo!! without even knowing what that means.
142 days ago
@michaewasowski i tjink u should tel him. it wilget harder the longer u wait. go 4 it!!
152 days ago
By the way, good luck to anyone coming out soon! You'll do great! It will BE great!
152 days ago
I'm polysexual and I am ready to come out. I'd like to be 100% out by the time summer is over and school's back on, but of course I'll have to come out at school too. I'm scared people will assume I'm polyamorous because of the 'poly' at the start... I am not polyamorous though. And I am a girl, my pronouns are she/her/hers but I'm fine with they/them/theirs also I'm 12 and in Year 7 going into Year 8. I'd be out already if I didn't have this little problem of having a boyfriend that I need to break up with.... I realized that I like all genders except boys. I want to stay friends when I break up, but I don't know if he'll accept it because we've been together since we were 5. And the worst is that I was apparently the one who decided we were boyfriend and girlfriend. WE WERE FRICKING FIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also there's this other tiny problem about the fact that he lives on the other side of the world because my family moved house and then so did he BUT FURTHER AWAY!!! So we won't see him this summer which means I'll have to break up with him over FaceTime which is super sad because I don't want to hurt his feelings, especially if he really loves me. I've been wondering whether I truly like boys for over a year now and I've wondered about my sexuality for maybe 5 months? I figured out me true sexuality only a few days ago so the few friends I came out to as lesbian I'll have to do it all over again. I realized I was polysexual because I have a crush on somebody my age who is neither boy nor girl. They are just so proud of who they are, their personality and they are so beautiful and kind and funny..... Problem is, we met at a 4-day long summer camp. I have them on Messenger Kids, but I think we'd need to meet each other several more times before I can tell them I love them. I bet no-one is reading this now. It is very long. I'm sorry. I just really needed to pour out my heart, to someone, to someTHING. I haven't told the entire story to anyone. A few people I've told them parts of it but... *sigh*. At least I know there's a possibility my crush likes me back, as I've caught them looking at me a couple times and I know that they identify as lesbian so they could like me as I'm a girl. And they seemed happy that I noticed when people used their incorrect pronouns and called them 'girl'. I also call them by their correct pronouns and I think they noticed. I'm sorry this is so long. If someone has read this far, please help me. It would help immensely if I had advice on all of this.
173 days ago
im kinda nervous. i pretty shure my parents will except me cause my aunt is lesbian. im mostly worried they'll say " have you thought long and hard about this" and that will make me nervous all over agian.but i will come out befor the end of this month june! wish me luck:)
181 days ago
okay guys so i have a great idea if you dont share a room with anyone hang a pride flag in your room stand in front of it and holler to your parents that you need help doing something in your room when they come in to help you they'll see the flag(if this does not help sorry)
181 days ago
Hi i am 12-13 and trans and bi. Im not the only one in my family like this i have cousins, brothers that are like this too but my brother came out to my parents and he says that they are finer with it. But call me parinoid i dont think they have. They have been treating him different. But hey im probally just parinoid right. Right????????
192 days ago
Ok so, I've been mainly just watching a lot of LGBTQ+ themed shows lately because I'm too scared to come out. Out of all of them, 'The Owl House' is my favourite. It has probably some of the best representation I've seen - in the show they don't make a huge deal of it, they just treat it like something normal and honestly that's what I love about its representation. Not only that, but it has an amazing story too. Especially season 2.
225 days ago
idk how to do this
225 days ago
Hi I’m only 12 but I really want to become a boy 🙃 I took the quiz but sadly I’m struggling as I made a example saying “like If I was trans….” But my dad turned around and said I hope you don’t go down those lines I laughed it off to keep my cover but I’m now awake at 3:00 in the morning crying what do I do? I took another quiz which showed to me that i am suffering from severe depression and my best friend has recently become my bully. I feel so stranded and lost 😞