How Should You Come Out? Quiz

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This quiz is for anyone who wants to come out as lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pan, ace, or anything else! Also, you can take this quiz for every person you are thinking of coming out to, since your result will probably vary depending on the person. Remember to stay safe, and I hope that coming out goes well for you!:)

  • 1
    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
  • 2
    Which answer best describes your personality?
  • 3
    Another personality question: How creative are you?

  • 4
    How do you view your coming-out?
  • 5
    How do you WANT to come out?
  • 6
    What comes to mind when you think of being out?

  • 7
    Here’s an easy question (does not affect score): What are you coming out as?
  • 8
    Is the person you’re coming out to educated about the LGBTQ+ community?
  • 9
    How much effort are you willing to put into coming out?
  • 10
    How visibly queer are you right now?

  • 11
    How many people already know?
  • 12
    Here’s another question that won’t affect your score: Choose a queer icon!
  • 13
    How many LGBTQ+ friends do you have?
  • 14
    How excited are you to come out?

Comments (98)


297 days ago
I still have a lot of anxiety about coming out as trans (ftm)
315 days ago
So Im a trans fluidflux boy and also aroace, and im really nervous about coming out as both to my best friend. I know they are supporting (they are genderfluid and ace themselves) but still... Good luck to everyone!
352 days ago
So I'm a demigirl and also pansexual and I'm so nervous about coming out to my family so I'm doing as many quizes as possible to try find out what to expect. I think that my mum will support me but I'm not so sure about my brothers. Good luck to anyone else who is coming out soon!
356 days ago
I’m 45, married and recently found out that my son is bisexual too. I wasn’t sure about myself until about 2 years ago but I started playing with ‘toys’ and that’s when I new I liked guys too. But as I’m married to my wife I’m happy as I am. If we should ever split up or I loose her, god forbid, I’ll maybe look for a guy to be with then.
371 days ago
I’m 12 and a lesbian, my parents are divorced so it’s hard to come out. I hope to come out to my 20 year old twin sisters soon. Wish me luck
392 days ago
I'm scared to come out to my mom, I know she's going to be supportive, but my cousin came out as bi, now my mom thinks she only dates girls ;-; and it's not that she doesn't know what being bi is, it's just the fact that she focuses on the different in people, and now she's gonna think I only like girls... also I have a REALLY religious family, they do not support lgbtq+ AT ALL! Sooooo Im really scared, wish me luck!!! xoxo!!! :3
406 days ago
I'm coming out to my dad and I expect the worst😢
411 days ago
I’m coming out soon
And I think my parents will
Accept me!!!😍😀🥳
415 days ago
I'm super worried about coming out, I'm thinking of writing my mom a note on my 15th birthday. I've tried coming out before and even told her I use he/him pronouns and she still misgenders me. Maybe she'll at least humor me for my birthday. :)
416 days ago
im nonbinary and i like girls but i am way nervous about coming out
430 days ago
I'm lesbian and 12, and my mom and dad are homophobic, I thinking about waiting until I'm 16, and at my girlfriend's house, and write a letter, BTW I am single for all the lesbians, and bisexual girls!
434 days ago
I’m 10 and I pretty sure I’m non-binary and bi I’m so scared and need help so I’m not coming out till I’m 18 so I can move out if they don’t except me (they probably won’t except me so that’s why I’m waiting till 18)
441 days ago
I really loved this.Also,queers I'm proud that you guys have joined the community.
I love you guys,queer or not.
468 days ago
Remember!: this is your story, your life, your business. Never feel like you're being forced into coming out, (could include stuff like, "but they're your best friend/family member, they deserve to know) it's your decision to make. Don't come out unless you're positive you're ready and it won't affect your life negatively.

-a trans boy
468 days ago
Hello to anyone who sees this. I did this quiz because I’m afraid. Some of my online friends know about me being trans. No one else knows. They accept me and don’t make misgender me. I’ve known them for quite a while.. I think almost 2 years.. currently I’m 15 and I live with my dad alone and many things stress him out. I couldn’t possibly tell him about me being trans... we’ve been having a hard time ever since we moved to another country. When we visited my mom in japan they had a big fight. It’s been over 2 years but I don’t think I can come out. Hopefully there’s other people feeling like me.
468 days ago
Still not gonna come out anytime soon
468 days ago
It’s hard being the only lesbian in my house but whatever
468 days ago
I took the test don’t think I’ll come out anytime soon
481 days ago
I a scared to come out as trans to my parents.I am 11 and this is a lot of stress what should I do?
499 days ago
Hey everyone, I just want to remind whoever sees this that you don't owe it to ANYONE to come out. Okay? You don't have to tell anybody if you're not ready, you don't ever have to tell anyone if that's what you want. You can tell the whole 🐤 world if that is something that YOU want. And if you're just starting to figure out your identity, it is perfectly okay to keep it to yourself. Don't ever think that you have some obligation to come out to specific people. You have the power to tell or not tell whoever you choose, yeah? I love you and I'm so proud of you, and I promise that everything's gonna be okay