How Should You Come Out? Quiz

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This quiz is for anyone who wants to come out as lesbian, gay, bi, trans, pan, ace, or anything else! Also, you can take this quiz for every person you are thinking of coming out to, since your result will probably vary depending on the person. Remember to stay safe, and I hope that coming out goes well for you!:)

  • 1
    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
    Do you know that the person you want to come out to is accepting?
  • 2
    Which answer best describes your personality?
  • 3
    Another personality question: How creative are you?

  • 4
    How do you view your coming-out?
  • 5
    How do you WANT to come out?
  • 6
    What comes to mind when you think of being out?

  • 7
    Here’s an easy question (does not affect score): What are you coming out as?
  • 8
    Is the person you’re coming out to educated about the LGBTQ+ community?
  • 9
    How much effort are you willing to put into coming out?
  • 10
    How visibly queer are you right now?

  • 11
    How many people already know?
  • 12
    Here’s another question that won’t affect your score: Choose a queer icon!
  • 13
    How many LGBTQ+ friends do you have?
  • 14
    How excited are you to come out?

Comments (98)


843 days ago
I think I’m bi? I’m only 12, but I don’t know if it’s because subconsciously I want to feel special and different, or if I’m actually lesbian, or if I’m just bi. I know my parents will be supportive, but I don’t want to come out and turn out not to be bi!😭 someone plz give me advice.🙂
853 days ago
I don’t what to come out and I don’t now if I like women and men because i don’t have feelings for any of the genders
864 days ago
I am only 9 and i am gay as 🚔.🏳️‍🌈💕
865 days ago
Im coming out on Friday and I am really nervous 😬
873 days ago
i am kinda scared to come out but this helped a lot!!
874 days ago
I’m also ten.. heh
874 days ago
I’m coming out of the closet- hopefully to my parents as Pan and Nonbinary and at some point I’ll have to tell them that I have Depression, Anxiety, Social Anxiety and have an Eating Disorder so that’s gonna be GREAT but good news is last night I told my cousin (Catholic and Nonbinary + is Lesbian) that my aunt is BI witch I did not know (She’s VERY catholic) and I think I’ve only told one friend who has a girlfriend and my mother doesn’t know about it I had to teach her what gay was my father doesn’t think that there’s not over two genders...sorry got a bit carried away umm have a great day...
884 days ago
I’m going to come out to my sister as Non-Binary/Enby soon. She’s apart of LGBT+ (she’s Bi) so she’ll accept me for sure. I’m kinda excited! Btw this quiz was great
899 days ago
i’ve been feeling lesbian lately... that sounds wrong. i like so women more than i do men. i haven’t told anyone, and i’m worried that people will say it’s just a phase. im 11 years old so idk if i am too young, but i’m going to come out to be my bsf. wish me luck :)
899 days ago
I’m gonna come out in about a week after school starts on September 8th cuz I just took a gay test it said I was bi but i’ve taken many others and almost all of them said I was gay but I know I’m gay 🤗🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
900 days ago
I came out to my mom and she was ok with it I just wanted to thank u I am 11 years old and bi I also have to come out to my dad so ya bye
919 days ago
I'm bi at the age of 13 I've known for 3 years but my family might be homophobic
938 days ago
Idk if i'm lesbian or bi!!!! :(
943 days ago
what if you don't know if you're lesbian or not? (That's me!)
964 days ago
Thank you im coming out tomorrow
966 days ago
thank you
1006 days ago
Thanks this will be helpful
1007 days ago