“Am I Lithromantic/Akoiromantic?” Quiz - Test Yourself Now!

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There aren’t many quizzes for lithros/akois out there, so I decided to make one. NOTE: This quiz only covers a very small portion of the possible identities, and therefore will not be accurate for everyone. Please be open to doing more research and coming up with your own conclusion instead of assuming I am right. This is an internet test, after all, and is mainly just for fun. Please note that I don’t want to confuse or hurt anyone. Thank you!

  • 1
    Have you ever had a crush?
    Have you ever had a crush?
  • 2
    Have you ever dated before?
  • 3
    How often do you get crushes? (Note: This might vary from person to person, depending on type, expectations and age.)

  • 4
    Scenario question: Your crush just confessed that they like you. Your reaction?
  • 5
    Do you think there will be any romance in your near or distance future?
  • 6
    Another scenario: There’s this really cute person at school/work, and you find yourself attracted to them pretty quickly. What do you think?

  • 7
    How do you feel about romance?
  • 8
    Which of these do you suspect that you are?
  • 9
    What is your opinion on "friends with benefits" and QPRs (queer platonic relationships)?
  • 10
    Have you ever actually experienced a romantic moment with someone?

Comments (17)


21 days ago
I do fantasize about romanticism thanks to media I like n stuff, a healthy relationship seems like a cute idea to me but I find impossible for me to actually date someone. That last bit just causes me, what I would call, repulsion.undefined
44 days ago
I have no idea how to feel whenever somebody flirts with me or they want any thing sexual thats fake(as in a joke). I dont know if im a person who loves any romantic attention while giving it back aswell but i actuallly dont want that type of relationship. I need help figuring out what my identiy is- I actually need help figuring it out tho lol

(somebody help me figure it out i beg)
72 days ago
I don't know why im letteraly mad for that guy i'm really desperate i can't concentrate on anything anymore when i think about him this make me confused
77 days ago
Please help me I dont know what i'm going to do with this please give me advice
77 days ago
I am also having issues with my sexual orientation at this time because im lesbian and im confused if i'm neptunic and I also felt attraction to a boy something that rarely happens to me
77 days ago
I'm demisexual and my profile is grey so I think it's right
113 days ago
I'm dating someone currently, and I've liked her for a really long time! I told her I liked her over a slides presentation and she said yes. I was really excited to date her but I don't feel the "butterflies" or really "romantic" with her at all. And the things that I used to think that were amazingly cute of her before we started dating became normal/not something special to me. I love her so much but I feel questioned if we're really romantic or platonic. She isn't into those "coupley" things like sending cute messages or stuff - she's rude but in a joke way. Like calling me stupid, sorta like teasing? idk. i feel like I'm lithromantic cuz I don't like her the same after we started dating but I told her id stay with her forever so I don't wanna break that promise.
126 days ago
I feel not good with romance, but I think I am lithromantic
161 days ago
(2) And honestly, I'd rather daydream about fictional characters.. I don't know why. It just seems way safer for me just because I know fictional characters won't like me back. And that's exactly it, I'm scared of people liking me back. I do like it when guys tease me a bit, call me pretty in any *hot* way possible but when it comes to them confessing and totally meaning what they said, I fear that.
161 days ago
Being lithromantic is hard for me. There would be some times that I start daydreaming about someone because I love them that much, but I realized I had maladaptive daydreaming. I liked to daydream of them and it continues so I could satisfy myself. There was times my crush confessed to me, and it was difficult to tell them I like them too, it is true that I do, but it was just hard. I did anyways but after we broke up I had a mental breakdown and realized I never actually liked being in that relationship, and I was slowly loosing interest, too. That event helped me realize I'm one of you, lithromantics! Having these kind of mixed feelings is hard for me because I'll never understand if I'm contented with who I have, or if I'll ever be ready for a relationship at all, but I'm glad to be special
252 days ago
Literally learned about lithro/akoiro today, and I think it's the closest thing to my romantic inclinations thus far, but I don't lose interest in someone if they show signs of reciprocating. My big thing is I don't want to be in a relationship. I think if someone told me they liked me but didn't want to commit to anything, I might? Be able to handle it. I do think I have shades of aromatic, but I do get crushes and kind of wonder "what if" without wanting much more. So I guess I'm somewhere between lithro/akoiro and aro.
325 days ago
Aww, only 4% of us are aro! Come out come out wherever you are!
740 days ago
For 30% you are: Alloromantic! You experience romantic attraction in the way society “expects” you to. Basically you’re not aromantic or on the aromantic spectrum.
25% of 1549 quiz participants had this profile! Profile A

Your score wasn't clear.

You could also get this result:
For 30% you are: Greyromantic! You rarely experience romantic attraction (either infrequently or weakly, or both). You are on the aromantic spectrum! Profile B

Your score wasn't clear.

Or even this one:
For 30% you are: Lithromantic/Akoiromantic! You experience romantic attraction in a fairly allo or grey way, but the second someone reciprocates those feelings, you loose all feelings for that person. Profile C

Ok, but like, what am I...
755 days ago
First I got 50% lithro then 40% lithro then 50% grey demi. My score wasn't clear lol
781 days ago
I got 75% Akoi, hmm... do not want to be this way but ok
789 days ago
I got 40% alloromantic, 30% greyromantic,20% aromantic,10% lithromantic. Honestly I think I’m grey/demi
854 days ago
I got grey romantic.Idk if that’s true or not but yeah...