Are you butch, femme, or neither?

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So you've figured out you're a lesbian? Congratulations! Now just one question remains: am I butch, femme, or am I just a lesbian? This quiz may hopefully help you on your journey to self-discovery.
Disclaimer: only you alone can determine whether you're butch, femme, or neither. This quiz is just a guide to help you along. Lesbians only, please, as butch and femme are exclusive to lesbians.

  • 1
    Growing up, were you a tomboy or a girly girl?
  • 2
    Which would you prefer to wear at your wedding?
  • 3
    Which role do you prefer to take when in a relationship?

  • 4
    What do you prefer to wear in your normal, day-to-day life?
  • 5
    Who do you prefer to have as a partner?
  • 6
    Do you prefer to take care of your partner or be taken care of by your partner?

  • 7
    Do you reject traditional femininity or do you subvert it? (In other words, do you perform femininity for other women and not men, or do you not perform it at all?)
  • 8
    Which lesbian figure do you most identify with, or like the most?
  • 9
    Do you enjoy traditionally masculine activities or lines of work (mechanics, construction, etc.)?
  • 10
    Finally, what do you most feel like you are?

Comments (19)


140 days ago
Same as you, jamelia.
692 days ago
It's not real im nnot a femme i took this test for fun.The test results dosent change either
874 days ago
I keep getting femme despite my answers mainly being neutral/masculine? The only seemingly “femme” answers I gave are me saying I like dresses (the everyday clothing one and the wedding one, that’s it),, clothing choice isn’t the only determining factor of these labels, you know. I see myself as in-between, more leaning to Butch.
904 days ago
uhhh, no

it said im femme but im kinda a tomboy, so i think im butch
950 days ago
I got femme, I new it lmao. ;)
957 days ago
I used to be super Tom-Boy and would hate acting girly but then i started liking really cute stuff and pink, still don't know though cause i need to redo my wardrobe from how it was before to really prove it, i only have leggings and stuff now because i hated wearing skirts a while ago and i haven't grown in forever so im short and still fit :(
962 days ago
I'm a stud but I got butch I guess it's the same???🏳️‍🌈
1018 days ago
I got butch yay but I really want to be an character designer but they didnt have that as a option so construction it is
1159 days ago
My crush is probably gay but I’m not sure she’s kind of girly but not really?! I don’t know what to do, I also barely know her. She goes to my school, we only talked once because of another friend. SOMEONE HELP ME PLZZ💖🤪
1164 days ago
Is it possible to be femme and butch, I feel I look butch but I act a little more girly.
1206 days ago
Bruh I got femme but picked the most butch responses/neutral how am I femme I literally radiate masc lesbian energy and everyone notices. Also just because I like other butches doesn’t make me femme does it?
1235 days ago
Someone make another quiz like this
1287 days ago
None it's still good
1345 days ago
Femme and I've only just come my friends
1491 days ago
I'm neither...just like I expected :) I have long hair and I like to paint my nails but I rarely wear dresses and skirts. I really do look like I'm totally in between...I like it :D
1549 days ago
No way am I femme! I’m so butch but I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’m not out hell I’m only 13 but I’m not femme!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈😁
1575 days ago
I see what you mean, it said the same for me 😒
1575 days ago
Did you rate the quiz Autumn?
1577 days ago
This test is not accurate I know for sure I’m a butch lesbian I’m always the dominate in relationship and love to take care of my baby girl and I she is the femme she always wearing makeup and dresses while I’m wearing jeans and a tee shirt or graphic tee with some chapstick and mascara this test needs to be edit or something don’t take it cause it inaccurate I’ve identified as a butch lesbian for 4 years