What Conflict Type Am I?

Arguments can be quite unpleasant. And every person reacts to them differently.
Some people seem to almost enjoy them and have them under control, others find them awful and avoid them as much as possible. Conflicts are unavoidable in our everyday lives. No matter with whom we quarrel, the way we react to them is usually pre-programmed. But how do you deal with conflicts, and how do you feel about them?
The Thomas & Kilmann model is based on five different conflict types. In this test, you will find out which one you are! You will be asked questions about yourself and presented with different scenarios that you have to evaluate.
Good luck!

  • 1
    First of all, how do you feel during a conflict situation?
    First of all, how do you feel during a conflict situation?
  • 2
    What is one of your best qualities?
  • 3
    And what is one of your worst qualities?

  • 4
    Which of these is most true about your childhood?
  • 5
    Imagine you're on a train. A ticket inspector comes by and a man who doesn't speak English has bought the wrong ticket. The ticket inspector doesn't understand the man, gets angry and wants to fine the man. Do you intervene?
  • 6
    Imagine you have a group project. There are 4 of you and 2 have already chosen what part they will do. The third person wants to do very little and dump most of the work on you. How do you act?

  • 7
    How intimidating do others find you? 0 = not intimidating at all, 10 = totally intimidating
  • 8
    Do your conflicts often escalate?
  • 9
    How direct are you? 1 = not at all direct, 10 = extremely direct
  • 10
    How much do you stand up for yourself in a conflict?

  • 11
    Would you manipulate people in a conflict to solve it?

Comments (1)


89 days ago
For 45% you are: The Rejector: Avoidance