Am I In A Toxic Friendship?👤
If you have to ask this question, then I am really sorry for you. Please take my 'Signs of a toxic friend quiz' now to help you discover whether you are indeed in a toxic friendship - and, if so, to see if it's worth trying to repair. Good luck! I hope my toxic friend test helps you and your friend.
I may not come back to any quiz of yours or anyones bcs i know everything now.....
And I 😍 love her
I hate it
Sorry for all caps just ranting.
bruh, just leave the friend group and if you still want to be with your crush then try sitting next to him in class or "accidently" bumping into him
A few days later, that same girl was trying to force a boy in our group to go to a club, and he didn't want to. He was already in 3 unnecessary clubs beacause of her. She got very upset when the boy wanted to spend break with another kid. She forces that boy to play with us. She told a boy she didn't like him beacause he was the enemy.
He's nice enough.
Then, we got replaced, me more so than Eden.
And she didn't even CARE I went to another friendgroup. But no doubt she'll notice tomorrow.
And the friendgroup I hang out with are one of the 'enemies' and my crush.
She vents to me so randomly, sometimes causing me to have panic attacks. She only talks when its relevant to her like she doesnt actually care about me. She claims I'm her "Number 1 always" but then if we're playing a game, she'll just leave if her friend wants to play smth else without telling me or inviting me to join. I know shes toxic. I know she's 😻 up my mental health. God, she makes me want to harm myself (there's other reasons i want to as well, but she's the main reason.) We're not talking atm and my mental health is going back up again, but the second we start talking again i just know i wont be able to deal with it. Shes my main friend still, even though we're not talking. I have 5 friends irl, but we don't rlly talk online. The person I'm talking about is online. I love her. I'm stupid lol.
Lesson learned: Cut off toxic friends before you yourself end up doing something stupid, so that no one gets hurt in the future. And KNOW when to, because those red flags could be right in front of you, but be careful.
This probably didn't make any sense, typing this at 1:39 am, but at the very least I let it all out.
We were really good friends for a long time and did so much together, but unfortunately, time did its thing and eventually she completely forgot I was ever there when we were with our other friends, and heck I was right next to her most of the time and she didn't even speak to me unless she needed something. I did understand tho, I was too quiet most of the time, and that probably put it in her mind that I was boring compared to her other friends. Which I likely was, at least in her eyes. My inability to say no also added to me feeling somewhat used, etc. and that I never disagreed to anything she said.
The thing is, I only realised all that after I made my huge mistake (don't think I want to talk about it here). What made me struggle to make it up to her is knowing that she didn't care about how I felt about everything, and now, I'm stuck between knowing she was a bad friend and then thinking whether or not it was worth parting ways with someone I couldn't fully make up for my mistake to and maybe I should have spoken up more. I mean if I spoke more in the first place I probably wouldn't have been feeling 🕊, and she wouldn't have gotten bored of me in the first place. idek tho, looking back at things, I regret a lot, despite how she made me feel. But again, time did its thing, and I'm happy she's got friends she's closer to than me, and that I'm not bothering her anymore.
Side note: why do we all have terrible friends?
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