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Toxic Or Not? Best Friend Quiz!

20 Questions - Developed by: - Developed on: 2021-06-16 - 1,799 taken - 6 people like it

Do you think your best friend (or just a friend) is really kind or is just pretending to be your friend and waiting for a chance to stab you in the back? Are you having uncertainties about what their intentions are at this point? Well, you will certainly find out if you just take this quiz! I'll give you a bunch of scenarios and questions and you will have to answer each one honestly and with care. Try to put yourself in your friend's shoes and see how they would act! Please keep one person in mind throughout this entire quiz, and think about their personality.

1

You and your (best) friend are at a party, and you see your friend kissing your crush! (And they literally know you like this person!) You confront both of them. How does your friend apologize?

Ummmm... my friend would NEVER EVEN THINK OF DOING THIS!
My friend would apologize sincerely, and say s/he wasn't thinking straight, give me a hug, and say s/he would never do it again.
S/he would say sorry and not talk to my crush ever again.
S/he wouldn't say anything and walk away.
S/he would shrug, and say s/he couldn't help it.

2

You and someone else's boy/girlfriend are kissing! Your friend walks into this special moment, gasps, turns, and runs away! What will she do?

Confront me about it, and tell me that wasn't something good to do, then tells me there has to be a reason for my actions. But s/he would NEVER tell anyone else, unless they thought it hurt me.
Walk away, but not tell anyone, and continue talking to you. Then, s/he forgets about it shortly after.
Laugh, and run away. S/he tells one person, but they're not really important.
My friend walks off, screaming into the halls that I was kissing ____'s boy/girlfriend!
My friend immediately goes to the boy/girlfriend of the person I was kissing, exaggerates the story a little bit, and gets the boy/girlfriend so mad. S/he then goes off and tells every person in sight.

3

Your friend and you both want the high citizenship award, but it only goes to one person in your grade... you both have been working so hard all year, and it all comes down to Class Day, where the principal announces awards. As your principal announces the high citizenship grade... it goes to you! How does your friend react?

S/he immediately comes to me and screams, "You TOTALLY deserved that. I'm soo proud of you, let's go!"
S/he finds me after Class Day and calmly says, "Good job."
S/he makes a face at me, gives me the silent treatment for three days, and then goes back to talking to me.
I go up to them the next day since they avoided me all yesterday and tell them I'm sorry. They yell at me and say, "You didn't deserve that. I did. You do nothing for this class or world anyway. That award belonged to me."
S/he tries to sabotage the event, and screams out to the principal, "There must have been a mistake or something, I know that belonged to me!"

4

It's finally your birthday, and you decide to throw a party at your house. Everyone is required to bring a present for the birthday girl/boy! What does your friend do?

DUH? S/he brings a present (or maybe two) for her/his bestie ;) that shows s/he knew exactly what I wanted
S/he brings a gift and a card, something that is sweet and shows respect.
S/he says s/he forgot a present and that they will bring it the next day, but they never did...
S/he tells you happy birthday, but doesn't bring anything.
S/he comes, embarrasses you, and doesn't bring a birthday present.

5

Does your friend try to change you to make you better, prettier, kinder, louder, softer, more outgoing, etc?

Not even a thought in my bestie's mind ;)
No but sometimes when I'm loud, they are disgusted.
Kind of
Yeah, most of the time
OF COURSE

6

Does your friend ever put you down?

NO of course not!
Rarely
Sometimes
Most of the time
All of the time

7

Does your friend try to put her/himself in the center, even if it means pushing you aside?

Of course not!
Rarely
Sometimes
Most of the time
All of the time

8

Has your friend ever spread rumors or gossiped about you?

NEVER, NO WAY!
They did it once, but apologized profusely after.
A couple of times
Yes, more than a few times
Almost every week/month, there's something new...

9

Is your friend overly competitive with you in a rude way, or always egging you on to fight them?

NO!
In a joking way
Sometimes, yes
Yep
ALL THE TIME

10

Has your friend ever told an extreme lie?

Never. Not extreme.
Yes, but it was to protect someone else.
Yep, and it wasn't nice
Yeah, and it ended up hurting a lot of people
Yes, and I never trusted them again.

11

Is the silence ever awkward when you're alone with your friend?

No, we could be completely silent and not weird at all!
I'm always a TINY bit uncomfortable
It's sometimes weird
It's usually really awkward
I have to make up an excuse to leave, it's so awkward

12

Is your best friend mainly sarcastic, or has a knack for sarcasm?

No, they're never sarcastic.
They are rarely sarcastic.
They sometimes use their sarcasm.
They mostly are sarcastic.
ALWAYS sarcastic!

13

Is your friend clingy, or always asking you to hang out when they know you're busy?

No, they know when I need space.
Not really, they almost always get it
I need to tell them repeatedly I'm doing something (could be short term memory loss tho?)
They never understand that I need to do something, and they're always texting me
They literally need me to send them my location and then they come get me...

14

Has your friend ever made you feel like if you wanted to get out of the friendship, you couldn't or there was no escape?

Nope, we're both very free and happy:)
I've thought about it rarely
I definitely feel overwhelmed/suffocated sometimes
Most of the time, I feel that way
I NEED TO GET OUT RIGHT NOW BUT I CAN'T

15

Is your friend making you feel more stressed than supported?

Of course not, I feel completely happy in this friendship and I know I can always rely on her/his support if I need it.
They almost always support me, I rarely feel stress
Half and half
I feel more stressed than supported
S/he is always on my case about everything and I get absolutely NO support from her/him

16

Do you feel safe around this friend?

Always.
I rarely feel like I am in harm's way
Sometimes, I don't feel safe but I usually do
I almost always feel like someone's gonna get me when I'm with her/him
All of the time, I feel very scared

17

Do you feel like you have to watch what you say around them so as to not upset them?

No, anything I say will not be taken harshly; my friend understands.
Rarely do I feel that way
Sometimes, I feel that way
Most of the time, I feel that way
I feel that way all of the time

18

If you guys make plans, how late do they usually get there?

They're never late/we've never made plans
5 minutes at the most
One time, they were 10 minutes late
They've shown up 30 minutes late before
They've not come at all

19

Does your friend make you feel guilty for hanging out with other friends without them?

No, never.
Rarely, they give me a hard time about that
Sometimes, they don't like it
Most of the time, they beat me up about it
They constantly harp on me for that

20

Does your friend tell you one thing, but then you heard she said the exact same thing differently to someone else?

Nope, not even once.
Rarely, I hear that
Sometimes, they do that
Most of the time, they do that
They're always telling me something different than what they tell someone else!

Comments (1)

Jeffrey (89215)

417 days ago

My bestie is great and loves me like a brother

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