Why Do Some People Hate Me? ¯_(ツ)_/¯

You've probably always heard that, "Not everyone is going to like you." Still, it's kind of a harsh thought that someone actually dislikes you!

But don't worry, because absolutely everyone wonders about this sometimes. Maybe you get a fakey vibe from a coworker or classmate, or a certain person never seems to look you in your eyes when you talk.

Anyway, find out what you might be doing to cause these things (if anything) and what you could possibly do about it.

  • 1
    If somebody were in your way, how would you tell them to move?
    If somebody were in your way, how would you tell them to move?
  • 2
    Are you mean to anyone?
  • 3
    Why would you think people dislike you?

  • 4
    Are you mean, or nice?
  • 5
    Do you think you're attractive?
  • 6
    How many friends do you have?

  • 7
    Do you have any enemies?
  • 8
    Have you ever done anything to make people mad?
  • 9
    Why would you think people dislike you?
  • 10
    Do you feel you're likable?

Comments (99)

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39 days ago
I’ve got a classic “had friends, tried to make the new girl feel as welcome as possible, now they like her more than me” story. I tried so hard to make everyone let her in, but now I feel like they like her more. I’m getting so tired of this. I just want to go back when I was a younger kid and redo everything. I was so antisocial and that title is stuck on me now. I want to restart.
42 days ago
I just started hanging out with like a group of friends, (mostly asian) and I started feeling like I belong there a few days ago. (Keep in mind I also have another smaller friend group from Elementary school). Theres two people: Z and A. And this is the scene: I was walking with P (The friend who introduced me to the friend group) and I saw A and Z walking together, holding hands. When I made it out of the building with P, I asked her: "Is A dating Z? Because I think they were holding hands." I wasn't sure if they were because I've never heard of them as a couple and she said: "Really?" I reply with: "Yeah, do they like eachother or something?" She responded to that: "Well, I've asked Z and she said that A is weird and disgusting and I also asked A before and he said he didn't like her, are you sure they were holding hands?" And I say: "Yeah, pretty sure." She was really excited, perhaps because she thought that they were dating a long time ago and this was the only evidence. Later in my 7th period class, P wanted me to tell K and Ann (Two other friends in the same group) what I saw and I did. They seemed really excited. P said she wanted to ask A and Z. (A was also in my 7th period class). The next day, she told me in my 4th period class that she asked Z and she said that they weren't holding hands. I asked P if Z was mad at me and she said: "She seemed mad at first, I don't think she is now." I still don't know if she was trying to make me feel better or not. In the meantime, I have 4 classes with A, and he does not seem happy with me. For some reason, K and Ann also do not want to talk to me. I'm not sure what I did wrong but perhaps it's because of false information? Please tell me if this is the truth.
I'm never good at controlling my actions so I'm probably blind about what I did. Hopefully they were just busy that day 😓
107 days ago
a girl hates me and i have no idea why...im closeted nonbinary (afab) and out bisexual, love video games a little too much (legend of zelda breath of the wild) and have done nothing to her until she started being an a$$h0le...
173 days ago
No thanks it says people don't dislike me but really I feel so lonely,invisible and an outcast in all occasions
173 days ago
I'm not really disliked? Not true they ignore me and make me feel invisible
182 days ago
So, do people dislike you, or is it something else?

From the answers you gave, I don't think people actually DISLIKE you. But it could be that they are wary of you. You could be unknowingly doing things to make people hesitant about interacting with you. Of course, no one is completely self-aware all the time, and we all unintentionally do things that others might find off-putting. It's normal and even unavoidable to do this occasionally.

Really!?!? I thought everyone disliked/hate me.
222 days ago
I always cry because of all things that happen
371 days ago
thanks i have been hated for 4 years :')
377 days ago
dumb, everyone hates me and it said youre a pleaser
465 days ago
i feel like this quiz was made for girls mostly..
bunch of the wuestions did not make sense
468 days ago
For 30% you are: So, do people hate you, or is it something else? I don't think people hate you. They are just wary of you. You just gotta be nicer to people around you. Think how you would want to be treated in a given situation, then treat the person like that.

(・∀・)🔫 i hate my life
468 days ago
For 40% you are: So, do people hate you, or is it something else? Take another test because this one won't give you legit answers. Sorry, I know that's probably not what you want to hear after answering so many questions.
well ig even the quiz is --
471 days ago
i always🐬with peoplee
482 days ago
I feel like i am not really into groups and stuff cause I am not able to catch up with my friends's lifestyles.
482 days ago
Why am I so lonely :'(
482 days ago
I knew I'd get 100 cuz I have no friends and I get bullied at school :')
513 days ago
I knew it 70% ofpeople hate me!
557 days ago
Why everyone hates me:

I am quite shy so no one knows me that well. And I also got accused of stealing my classmates phone and vandalising the school lockers. I’m pretty sure I know who the culprit is tho… but I need to double check in case it isn’t. Anyway, my boyfriend left me and dated my best friend and whenever I talk to my best friend, my boyfriend just grabs her hand and walks away. So I can’t talk to her now, great. And she hates a certain Kpop group, and it happens to be my favourite. We had a row, and in the middle of it, my ex boyfriend came in and had a fight with me cuz he took her side -_-… So anyway, they ditched me, and they seemed to gossip about me and so now the whole school hates me, even the teachers.
577 days ago
For 40% you are: So, do people hate you, or is it something else? Take another test because this one won't give you legit answers. Sorry, I know that's probably not what you want to hear after answering so many questions. seriously though.
579 days ago
everyone hates me my best friend got mad at me because my gf broke my heart and he got on her side.