Do people think of you as a ‘mean girl’?

Do you try to make more friends and invite them into your group?

Do you look for the best in people instead of just noticing their faults?

Do you try to consider how other people outside of your friend group could be affected by your words or actions?

Do you try to be happy for others when they succeed, even when you’re jealous, instead of being rude or snarky?

If you notice someone sitting alone, do you invite them to sit with you and your friends?

Do you compliment people when they do or look well instead of tearing them down when they don’t?

Are you happy with how you are instead of having a strong desire to be better than others?

Are you a good winner instead of a boaster?

Do you focus on the other person in a conversation instead of going off about yourself?

If your friends are talking not so nicely about someone else, do you tell them to stop instead of laughing with them?

Do you believe it’s wrong to assume something of someone with a ‘stereotype’ even if it seems to fit them?

Do you consider others’ needs above your own?

Do you try to get to know the ‘real’ version of someone?

Would you give something up for someone even if they’re not a close friend?

Do you believe that people are often more than what they seem?