Are You a Love Addict?

I am very needy.

I fall in love almost over night.

When I fall in love, I obsess. I can't help myself.

When I am looking for a relationship, I will get involved in almost anyone who shows interest in me.

I tend to smother my partners.

I will hold onto a relationship no matter how unhealthy it is or what the cost.

I always fall in love with the wrong people.

I either trust the wrong person, or I can't trust at all.

When a relationship ends, I feel as if my life is over.

When a relationship ends, I want to kill myself.

I take on more than my share of responsibility for the survival of a relationship

I find myself loving people from a distance.

I really don't feel good about myself.

I really don't know who I am.

Sometimes I feel superior and other times I feel inferior. I rarely feel "just right."

A lot of the time I feel alienated, as if I don't fit in.

I can't stand being alone. I don't enjoy my own company.

I am very lonely when I'm not in a relationship.

When one relationship ends, I get into another one as soon as possible.

I am terrified of never finding someone special to love.

In relationships, I don't know where my needs, wants and values leave off and my partner's begin.

I can't say "No" to my partner.

I try hard to be who my partner wants me to be. I will do anything to please him or her.

I have very few interests outside my relationship.

I will suffer rather than let go of a relationship.

When I start to get involved with someone, I become terrified that they will do to me what others have done in the past.

I am very controlling in relationships. This is the only way I can feel comfortable.

I don't know how to fight fairly. I attack people when they disagree with me, or give them the silent treatment.

I am very sensitive. It really hurts my feelings when people criticize me.

I react negatively to anything that feels like rejection.

I just know that a romantic relationship is going to be the answer to my problems in life.

I don't have the energy to make life better.