Am I Being Abused?

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Are you a little uneasy about your relationship? Are you unsure if you are just being paranoid? Are you positive that you're being abused and just looking to back up yourself? Here is the place to find out for sure.

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    My partner teases me in a hurtful way in private or in public.

Comments (15)


Emilie (00099)
70 days ago
I'm not gonna go too into it but my mom does drugs and drinks alcohol and we get in fights often. Even if it is about little stuff. She always blames me, even if I'm not there and it's stupid. I'm only 13 and this has been happening since June when school ended. My birthday is in late July so technically It has been happening since I was 12. My mom threatens me with killing herself or other people, she yells at me for no reason, she hits me if I annoy her too much to wake her up etc. She often blames her problems on me and tries to make me drink and do drugs, (Pot) but I always say no. The past few days I have been walking from the bus stop to my house, and that is 2 miles away. She knows the times I get out but she doesn't want to get up and get me from the bus. I honestly sound pathetic but I'm leaving a lot of details out. I have Trichotillomania (hair pulling disorder) and I have this huge patch on the back of my head and all this stress shes putting on me with watching my 7 year old brother and 19 month old sister and with school and social media is overwhelming and it's making it worse. I sound pity but there is much more i'm missing out. Sorry to waste your time...
Zizi (51833)
87 days ago
Unknown please call 911 and seek help. I'm so sorry for what is happening to you and your children. I hope you get out of there and you and your kids have a better life. You deserve it. Stay strong xxxx You might not be religious but I belive God will always be there for you and you can pray to him for help at anytime it can be in your head it doesn't have to be out loud.
The Falcon (85290)
95 days ago
oh dear lord child, that is crazy and i understand cutting and starving yourself because you want to die but don't it will only make things worse. If you can call the police or someone you trust do it right away! For real no joke this is serious and if you can observe little things she does. Like drugs or alcohol your going to need more proof then marks and starvation. mainly because kids who get adopted have hard past so they might do it to them selves just because and they might take starvation as one clue but your going to need multiple clues. Now stay safe and know that your loved
Mackenzie (55266)
100 days ago
Help my mum abuses me ever since she adopted me... she punches me and shoves me down the stairs and smashed my computer.she has tried to drown me and here are some things she says:
"If u don't fu*king đź’— I'll tie you to the toe all if my car and drag you along a rick covered road I I don't care if there is nothing left of u!"
I don't want to say anything else but u have been cutting my self and starving my self... HELP!!
Mackenzie (55266)
100 days ago
Omg I am so sorry... I am too gobsmacked to say anything
The Falcon (07924)
100 days ago
i have ben in a relationship but not like you would think he lowered my self confidence then got us gf and bf then he was very sexual like every part he made me haveđź’—and once i found out i was pregnant he whipped me and gave me black eyes and blocked out all contact with family it's not fun not to mention i actually had to give birth to a baby who would live in a home with a man throwing wine bottles at me and abusing me locking me in rooms and making me haveđź’—without me saying i wanted too. now that there was a baby in the house it was hard then one day he threw 20 glass bottles at that baby and it died. RIP i loved you Timothy :( luckily i am in a better relationship and more careful of trusting others now. save all who are in sexual mental or physical relationships...... it's not fun
Kate (72187)
100 days ago
i have be physically abused it is hard, but Unknown i feel very bad having kids in a abusive relationship must be very hard not to mention 6 oh my ,my abusive relationship was very hard and to think having 6 kids in this wow, stay strong i feel your hurt and cry for help and getting starved is way harsh to think i was mentally abused well on the other side your were mentally and physically abused, and you must stay there a bit longer call 911 if you can call someone you can trust get the help line and once your safe get some therapy your going to need it it's crazy to think about 35% of people are abused every month remember stay strong and hold on a bit longer.
Unknown (72187)
100 days ago
My husband has abused me for years i am afraid and scared he has threatened to harm my 6 children i have 4 daughter's and 2 son's he has threatened to sexually abuse my daughters if i do not stay and has already started beating them, my 2 son's are the youngest their twins and only the twins were his real son's the twins are about 3 years old i am afraid whatever i do will hurt them and effect them because me and my 2 eldest daughter's are near death, we have ben starved and locked in rooms and beaten harshly for the actions we have made i don't know what to do my 2 youngest daughters are scared to death of what might happen to us i pray to god that we get out of this soon i have been doing things and not getting caught although i am not able to sneak food/use the laptop (and no there is a code he knows i might try to seek 911 either way i can't keep this up much longer.
Titi (72187)
100 days ago
i have been abused by my Husband for about years 20. i started getting abused when we were bf and gf and i had gotten pregnant, we had been in a relationship for about 25 years it wasn't till i got pregnant that i started getting abused about 2 years later we got married now i did not know what to do or who i should tell, with a two year old and an abusive husband it was hard i had been beaten with a belt, and ben locked in my room so many times i felt i needed to die every night i got a nightly beating which was about 2 black eyes and 3-5 scars my two year old daughter was traumatized and she was also so getting abused it was hard it was only till recently me and my now 10 year old daughter had gotten out of this and, we are still very traumatized from the experience
jinx (61806)
165 days ago
Have been in a peaceful relationship for two years, he would like to take me away for the weekend and lands up getting drunk, locked me on the veranda of a three story motel for half an hour, and when he decided to let me back in he walks past me and punches me in the face three times, he then knees me twice in the groin. I,m still trapped there and lucky he fall asleep, i take myself home with two black eyes , a swollen lip and bruises to my groin. When he see me the next day he ask 'what happened to your face' he dose not even remember.
Henry (50445)
182 days ago
Ellie, Abbie, You need to get out of there. I know you're probably scared but tell someone you trust. Call a helpline, they'll help you and keep you safe. Call the police, tell a loved one. Nobody should have to go through that.
Ellie (37828)
185 days ago
I have been in hospital so many times I have lost count he belts me daily so much by the end of the night I'm black and blue I don't know how to deal with this any more I have been dealing with it for 10 years each year it gets tugher and the abuse gets worse I just wish he would stop I was pregnant but I lost it due to the abuse but I am glad I didn't bring a baby into this Im just waiting to be belted again I can't do this anymore it's driving me crazy I feel that I'm going mad
Abbie (37828)
185 days ago
I have been abused for 8 years I'm so scared to leave incase he finds me but I fear for my children I just don't know what to do I'm stuck he has threatened to badly hurt my daughter if I go I'm so scared I'm absolutely terrified for my life and my children's life's
Jess (47256)
324 days ago
I took this test because i have been feeling as though im crazy, ad though its all been in my head. Maybe im not crazy after all. I dont know what im going to do with this information.
Chris (89538)
344 days ago
I took this test, I'm a man. I have been abused by my ex partner for years, she destroyed any relationship I had with my family, friends, work mates. Destroyed my business because she was jealous.
Yes women can be abusive