Am I Being Abused?

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Are you a little uneasy about your relationship? Are you unsure if you're just being paranoid? Are you positive that you're being abused and are just looking to back up yourself? Here is the place to find out for sure.

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    My partner teases me in a hurtful way in private or in public.
    My partner teases me in a hurtful way in private or in public.

Comments (38)


55 days ago
It was so hard being abused. No body deserves it, and no one should believe they do. I know from experiance that that is hard to believe because the abuser makes you think it's true and it's all your fault. but it's not. you deserve way better. ❤
56 days ago
it kinda made me mad reading the questions because they were only directed at abusive boyfriends. like wow that’s very discouraging, you seriously want this to only be for about half the world?
98 days ago

Childline they always help or the police also don't be like me u don't deserve it please reply 5 people a day die by suicide cos the lesbian or gay in the UK don't be one of those people 😥😫
126 days ago
I've been abused my whole life. The one constant I thought I had, abandoned me. She is awful to me, calls me names, says I will get an abusive partner when I grow up, and she won't help me escape him/her. I know everyone will skip over this, but is there any way to get away from her, without ąlerting Social Services, or running away? Please, I beg of you, I am slowly losing grip on my life. I want to die, and I cut yesterday, after being clean a year. Someone please tell me how to stop this
127 days ago
I f* hate my life I should go die cause I'm worth nothing but yet again I do still have gf but maybe I should I'm just a bit of useless S*t
128 days ago
I also did cut myself and got bullied alot coz I was teck emo in primary and secondary school well I still do cut myself this world don't need a disappointment like me bye world 😭😫
128 days ago
Oh also my parents got drunk alot and i-ii don't w-ant to to say an anymore but God bless u all that u guys won't get hurt like I did
128 days ago
I had every sort of abuse well it seems like it I've had sexual abuse abuse by family ect u name it and I had it and I F* DONT CARE B** IT'S WAS TOATAL BULL* parden my french but I also got abuse that I was lesbian well I still am but now everyone that has abused me are now in jail yay me and I also live with my gf hehehe and yes am girl Jordan is just my name don't judge treat others how u want to be treated
139 days ago
My older sister constatly hits me for no reason and blames it on me. I tell her to stop but yet it has continued for years.. I have told nobody... I never had the idea of abuse...
278 days ago
Wasn’t *** sorry lol
278 days ago
I didn’t realize for months. Not until I finally went behind her back and talked to my friend. Make me realize so much. Tried to talk about it. She kept cutting me off. Never got to finish talking about it. Before I talked to this friend she would threaten to push me when I would make her mad. And she started doing it. I have more than 10 marks and 3 knots on my body from just last night. We got into it and she kept jabbing me with her fingers. Pushing me away. telling me she will hit me that she want playing. Pinned me against the wall and grabbed only my arms to where it still hurts. This happened at 2am this morning it is now 11:51 pm. All her stuff is moved out and she is gone. But yes I feel bad about it. She’s going around saying that I’m telling everyone she abused me. Which I’m not. She’s trying to make me think I’m in the wrong still. That she’s not abusing me. Never would of thought.
334 days ago
So am in a situation av been with my kids dad for 11 in October at the start we was 16 I got pregnant fast live was fab I just come out of care and finally had a family of my own anyways I had my baby about 3 months later I get pregnant agen this is where it all starts we move out my dad's house an we r independent am now going on 18 at this point he hits me calls me names cheats on me I forgive I'm he goes to prison I chose to stand by my man months go by and I find someone new I move on am out of my hole have been it its going well kids dad still thinks am with I'm at this point he tryed to kill I'm self in person wen I told I'm I moved on wudnt let me go I choose to try agen with open eyes this time am now thinking have I don't the right thing time went on we had about 3 happy years agen I lost my dad had a other baby the names started agen we never really got over the past I guess I blocked it out to move on in a way we'll wen I was pregnant the last time something happened we had a s💗 on the stairs but this time I hit back I scared I'm I cud see I didn't so the hitting stopped but now it's more I feel paranoid and wen I think I see the old signs I pull I'm but now I feel like he's smarter and knows how to work me even my own step mum has sed r u OK y didn't u stand up for ur self av I just grown to out up wif it or has he changed and now I am paranoid am lost and sick of all this 💗 and over things and depression so on I can go on all day thanks for reading xx
397 days ago
I'm 60 years old. I never got Hought I would be saying this about this man but I am becoming very afraid of what he might do. Most of what he does is verbal and mind games and just nothing at all. I have a kidney infection which is very painful, going into the 6th day. He won't clean up or bring me food, just the bare minimal, and only wh n I ask. He begrudges my requests by rolling have s eyes, but r acting like he didn't hear me and making me repeat the request, for in
449 days ago
My parents do drugs and let horrible things happen to me and my brother. My mom has trapped me in corners, yelled at me, calling me a w**** and a sl** and b**** and other stuff I'm not going to say. She lets alot of stuff happen to me. My dad let's boys come over and do stuff. I hate them so much.
478 days ago
Unkown: Go to someone at school, a teacher, if you are at school, or tell a family member. Never feel like you need to self harm, and no, you shouldn't die. If you feel threatened GO TO THE POLICE! They helped me, when my ayah was cruel, they'd help you too. I promise, you are not alone, and there is a better life. You just need to hold on long enough. A motto I live by, and I believe it is true, is 'the moment you give up, is when the next miracle is just around the corner'. I don't know you, and I want to help you. Never give up, and go stay with a friend, if you need to. He can not stop you, no matter what he says.
493 days ago
I took this test because my dad has been ruder than usual, yesterday, he threatened to not let me see my freind at all. I’m wanting to do self harm, my results were moderately abused, i have been trying to act nice, but my anger seems to come back, i’ve Been wanting to die, and i rarely talk to my parents now, i just don’t feel safe anymore, i feel like anything i do will lead to another fight, i need help, please.
517 days ago
mine isn't physical abuse.....yet. it's my mom, she screams at me, and has threatened to put me on the streets several times. In front of others she loves me, and gives me cuddles and kisses, but when we're alone she hates my guts. I think she's regretting adopting me, and sometimes it gets too close to being hit for my likings. She backs me into corners, and more than once, I've gotten burns because I was backed into a radiator. If I tell anyone, she says she'll reveal my secrets to EVERYONE she knows
532 days ago
I did this because of my brother , he is 6'1 and I'm 5'2 , I feel im powerless . A few days ago at school he hit me in the head so hard and smashed my head into a door. Ive been dizzy since . There was people around and yet no one noticed . He is serious with drugs and alcohol and when he's smocking weed hell threaten me and say that if I dont have some then hell slit my throat . I dont know what to do , these are the most recent but there's a million more things that have happened in the last week . I'm weak and so scared haven't slept in days . Never sleep . Never eat because I'm fat , always get reminded that . No one cares . My parents hate me and remind me that I'm a selfish brat that doesn't deserve to live . I dont eat sleep or leave my room . I'm very selfish totally . Everyone at school insults me . Might not be alive soon
535 days ago
I'm deeply sorry for all of you and would take your places so you could have a better life ❤️❤️❤️❤️
555 days ago
It cencored bi*ch and a$$hole btw, thets why there is heart emojis