Am I Being Abused?

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Are you a little uneasy about your relationship? Are you unsure if you are just being paranoid? Are you positive that you're being abused and just looking to back up yourself? Here is the place to find out for sure.

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    My partner teases me in a hurtful way in private or in public.

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Welpscrewlife (85779)
13 hours ago
I'm deeply sorry for all of you and would take your places so you could have a better life ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Anon (84058)
21 days ago
It cencored bi*ch and a$$hole btw, thets why there is heart emojis
Anon (84058)
21 days ago
I did this one because there were none for parents. Im a 13 year old girl and im afraid of my family. My parents have hit me on multipe occasions and scared my friends away, they have even killed my two bearded dragons and a bunny who i domesticated. Im scared of them, and they constantly yell at me for everything. They call me dumb, 💗, 💗, stupid, incompitent and lazy. Ive tried telling someone before and they called the cops, but it didnt work and it only got worse. They put so much pressure on me and yeall at me for hours if i do something slightly imperfect. I wish i was 18 already, i dont want to live with them, id rather be homeless.
Liliana (48556)
29 days ago
John doe, when you go to court, PLEASE tell the judge that your father was abusive and that you were defending yourself. Know that NO NONE deserves to be treated like your father is treating you.
john doe (99756)
127 days ago
My father gets physical with me often. If there is an argument that doesn't lead to that, he's still screaming. He yells all the time at both me and my sisters, but he only ever hits me. I'm afraid of him, but I'm more afraid of what i might do to him. I don't have a phone, and the only reason i'm able to type this right now is because I told him i was writing a report. I'm not allowed to talk to my friends on anything except the house landline, and only for 30 minutes at a time, once a day. My mom used to try to stop him from trying to hurt me, but recently she's been keepings quiet. Last night was the worst it's ever gotten. My mother was talking to me about keepings my room clean, but it was midnight and i wanted to go to sleep. I asked her to leave me alone, and then went into their room to get my antidepressants. (they keep them locked up because they're afraid i might overdose) I turned to leave the room, but my dad stepped out of the attached bathroom and grabbed at me. i caught his arm and he told me to let go. I did. He started yelling at me because they had found one of the landlines in my room. I had taken it because my girlfriend, kara, has been going through some hard times and was cutting. so I wanted to make sure she could talk to me if she needed help. I had tried to explain this to him before, but he had insisted that I didn't need to do that for her, and that she could take care of herself. Anyway, I was trying not to get in a fight with him. so i went to leave the room, but he stepped in front of me. I told him to let me leave but he refused. I started yelling and then he grabbed me and threw me to the ground. We started wrestling on the ground and he started choking me. I grabbed a piece of wood that was on the ground and i hit him with it, and he let me go. at that point my mom called the cops on me, and i ran out of the house. I waited on our front steps for them to arrive. I'm already on probation, so most likely I'm going to go to jail once the report reaches the judge, but i expected to be taken in right then. the cops arrived and I told them what happened. It was difficult because my lip was swollen and i was crying, so i don't think they believed me. either way. my mother told them not to arrest me. at that point i was tempted to hit one of the cops, just so i could get away. I didn't because i had promised kara i wouldn't go to jail. they told me to head back inside and not make them have to come out there for the rest of the night. This is not the first time my dad and i have had a fight like this. it won't be the last either. I'm only writing this because kara told me to. I'm scared and i don't know what to do. I don't even know if what he does counts enough in a courtroom. He's making my life miserable. please help me.
Emilie (00099)
247 days ago
I'm not gonna go too into it but my mom does drugs and drinks alcohol and we get in fights often. Even if it is about little stuff. She always blames me, even if I'm not there and it's stupid. I'm only 13 and this has been happening since June when school ended. My birthday is in late July so technically It has been happening since I was 12. My mom threatens me with killing herself or other people, she yells at me for no reason, she hits me if I annoy her too much to wake her up etc. She often blames her problems on me and tries to make me drink and do drugs, (Pot) but I always say no. The past few days I have been walking from the bus stop to my house, and that is 2 miles away. She knows the times I get out but she doesn't want to get up and get me from the bus. I honestly sound pathetic but I'm leaving a lot of details out. I have Trichotillomania (hair pulling disorder) and I have this huge patch on the back of my head and all this stress shes putting on me with watching my 7 year old brother and 19 month old sister and with school and social media is overwhelming and it's making it worse. I sound pity but there is much more i'm missing out. Sorry to waste your time...
Zizi (51833)
265 days ago
Unknown please call 911 and seek help. I'm so sorry for what is happening to you and your children. I hope you get out of there and you and your kids have a better life. You deserve it. Stay strong xxxx You might not be religious but I belive God will always be there for you and you can pray to him for help at anytime it can be in your head it doesn't have to be out loud.
The Falcon (85290)
273 days ago
oh dear lord child, that is crazy and i understand cutting and starving yourself because you want to die but don't it will only make things worse. If you can call the police or someone you trust do it right away! For real no joke this is serious and if you can observe little things she does. Like drugs or alcohol your going to need more proof then marks and starvation. mainly because kids who get adopted have hard past so they might do it to them selves just because and they might take starvation as one clue but your going to need multiple clues. Now stay safe and know that your loved
Mackenzie (55266)
277 days ago
Help my mum abuses me ever since she adopted me... she punches me and shoves me down the stairs and smashed my computer.she has tried to drown me and here are some things she says:
"If u don't fu*king 💗 I'll tie you to the toe all if my car and drag you along a rick covered road I I don't care if there is nothing left of u!"
I don't want to say anything else but u have been cutting my self and starving my self... HELP!!
Mackenzie (55266)
277 days ago
Omg I am so sorry... I am too gobsmacked to say anything
The Falcon (07924)
277 days ago
i have ben in a relationship but not like you would think he lowered my self confidence then got us gf and bf then he was very sexual like every part he made me have💗and once i found out i was pregnant he whipped me and gave me black eyes and blocked out all contact with family it's not fun not to mention i actually had to give birth to a baby who would live in a home with a man throwing wine bottles at me and abusing me locking me in rooms and making me have💗without me saying i wanted too. now that there was a baby in the house it was hard then one day he threw 20 glass bottles at that baby and it died. RIP i loved you Timothy :( luckily i am in a better relationship and more careful of trusting others now. save all who are in sexual mental or physical relationships...... it's not fun
Kate (72187)
277 days ago
i have be physically abused it is hard, but Unknown i feel very bad having kids in a abusive relationship must be very hard not to mention 6 oh my ,my abusive relationship was very hard and to think having 6 kids in this wow, stay strong i feel your hurt and cry for help and getting starved is way harsh to think i was mentally abused well on the other side your were mentally and physically abused, and you must stay there a bit longer call 911 if you can call someone you can trust get the help line and once your safe get some therapy your going to need it it's crazy to think about 35% of people are abused every month remember stay strong and hold on a bit longer.
Unknown (72187)
277 days ago
My husband has abused me for years i am afraid and scared he has threatened to harm my 6 children i have 4 daughter's and 2 son's he has threatened to sexually abuse my daughters if i do not stay and has already started beating them, my 2 son's are the youngest their twins and only the twins were his real son's the twins are about 3 years old i am afraid whatever i do will hurt them and effect them because me and my 2 eldest daughter's are near death, we have ben starved and locked in rooms and beaten harshly for the actions we have made i don't know what to do my 2 youngest daughters are scared to death of what might happen to us i pray to god that we get out of this soon i have been doing things and not getting caught although i am not able to sneak food/use the laptop (and no there is a code he knows i might try to seek 911 either way i can't keep this up much longer.
Titi (72187)
277 days ago
i have been abused by my Husband for about years 20. i started getting abused when we were bf and gf and i had gotten pregnant, we had been in a relationship for about 25 years it wasn't till i got pregnant that i started getting abused about 2 years later we got married now i did not know what to do or who i should tell, with a two year old and an abusive husband it was hard i had been beaten with a belt, and ben locked in my room so many times i felt i needed to die every night i got a nightly beating which was about 2 black eyes and 3-5 scars my two year old daughter was traumatized and she was also so getting abused it was hard it was only till recently me and my now 10 year old daughter had gotten out of this and, we are still very traumatized from the experience
jinx (61806)
343 days ago
Have been in a peaceful relationship for two years, he would like to take me away for the weekend and lands up getting drunk, locked me on the veranda of a three story motel for half an hour, and when he decided to let me back in he walks past me and punches me in the face three times, he then knees me twice in the groin. I,m still trapped there and lucky he fall asleep, i take myself home with two black eyes , a swollen lip and bruises to my groin. When he see me the next day he ask 'what happened to your face' he dose not even remember.
Henry (50445)
359 days ago
Ellie, Abbie, You need to get out of there. I know you're probably scared but tell someone you trust. Call a helpline, they'll help you and keep you safe. Call the police, tell a loved one. Nobody should have to go through that.
Ellie (37828)
362 days ago
I have been in hospital so many times I have lost count he belts me daily so much by the end of the night I'm black and blue I don't know how to deal with this any more I have been dealing with it for 10 years each year it gets tugher and the abuse gets worse I just wish he would stop I was pregnant but I lost it due to the abuse but I am glad I didn't bring a baby into this Im just waiting to be belted again I can't do this anymore it's driving me crazy I feel that I'm going mad
Abbie (37828)
362 days ago
I have been abused for 8 years I'm so scared to leave incase he finds me but I fear for my children I just don't know what to do I'm stuck he has threatened to badly hurt my daughter if I go I'm so scared I'm absolutely terrified for my life and my children's life's
Jess (47256)
501 days ago
I took this test because i have been feeling as though im crazy, ad though its all been in my head. Maybe im not crazy after all. I dont know what im going to do with this information.
Chris (89538)
521 days ago
I took this test, I'm a man. I have been abused by my ex partner for years, she destroyed any relationship I had with my family, friends, work mates. Destroyed my business because she was jealous.
Yes women can be abusive