Should I Come Out To My Parents?

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This test is to help people decide whether it's the right time to come out as gay, lesbian, bi, pan, trans, etc., to their parents. If you've been wondering if you should (and I think that's probably why you're looking at this quiz), test yourself and find out! And good luck, whatever you ultimately decide to do.

  • 1
    When gay marriage was legalized in the U.S., your parent(s):
  • 2
    Is your parents' religion against homosexuality, transgenders, etc?
  • 3
    Let's say you have a friend named Sam who is queer/trans. You're going to go to a party where Sam will also be and need your parent(s) permission to go. When you ask them, they say:
    Let's say you have a friend named Sam who is queer/trans. You're going to go to a party where Sam will also be and need your parent(s) permi

  • 4
    A same-sex couple are kissing on TV. Your parent(s):
  • 5
    Do your parent(s) have queer, homosexual, trans, etc., friends?
  • 6
    Do your parent(s) support Westboro Baptist Church?

  • 7
    How old are you?
  • 8
    How long have you known you're queer/trans/bisexual, etc?
  • 9
    Why did you take this test?
  • 10
    Are your parent(s) in a same-sex relationship or transgender/queer/agender, etc?

Comments (108)


6 days ago
heyo so idk if i should come out to my parents because my mom is fine with lgbtq+ (she never directly told me but once we were talking in the car and she said she'd be fine if i dated a girl or if i didn't date at all). mY dAd ThOuGh...he is HELLA HOMOPHOBIC so i don't wanna tell him. i'm probably just gonna tell my mom though lol why did i add this comment-
9 days ago
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11 days ago
Okay.... Im 11 but i already have a girlfriend... is that weird? I mean, i haven't even came out to my parents..
15 days ago
Ok ok so Iโ€™m 12 coming on 13. And I know that I am a lesbian and I have been struggling with weather I am gay or bi for 1 and a half years. And I am sure Iโ€™m a lesbian but Iโ€™m super scared to come out,
19 days ago
Well, my dad and grandpa are kinda against lgbtq+, and I'm afraid they might not want me anymore if I come out as bi, I am only 12, they'll probably say it's a phase.. but still have a wonderful day
20 days ago
WhAtEvEr im still coming out to my mum ๐ŸคฉHOPE I DONT DIE-
21 days ago
Im coming out tommorow๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜.
36 days ago
I'm literally gunna come out tomorrow like YEET YEET
37 days ago
I have known I like girls but my parents especially my dad don't like how people would date the same๐Ÿ’—so. I'm kinda scared to even mention things about it around them.
38 days ago
Iโ€™m 100% sure Iโ€™m a lesbian but Iโ€™m super scared to come out because 2 days ago my mom said I the phone if my daughter would ever like girl it would be just ugh and I got really scared but then I went to the store with her today and I saw pride flags and stuff so I got a pride (rainbow) lanyard itโ€™s so nice.anyways Iโ€™m just scared to come out so yea.โค๏ธAnyways bye have a wonderful day
43 days ago
I'm only 10and I just want to come out to my parents so badly and u can it's to hard to
44 days ago
i'm bi and my mum is christian. she doesn't support lgbtq+ but she doesn't mind them as she has gay friends. i'm just not sure how she would react if i came out because she practically threatened me if i was gay LMAO. i have a piece of writing that i did tonight and it's pretty long. i'm just not sure when to give it to her. i'm out to all of my friends tho
46 days ago
I'm scared to tell my mom she is single and I'm 13 my bff said she had a crush on me and I'm really scared to tell her she is not against lesbians.but still her friends are lesbians
48 days ago
The person Iโ€™m dating is biologically female, but they identify as non. Iโ€™ve decided Iโ€™m gay, and gender fluid, but I donโ€™t know if I should break up with them or not, please help me, aaaaaaaaah
54 days ago
Hey Iโ€™m lesbian and proud of it ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ
55 days ago
I'm 14 and female and I know I like girls but I don't know if I'm les or bi. I've only known I like girls for a few weeks. I'm so confused and conflicted about what to do.
56 days ago
thank god i heard the song "Girls Like Girls"
56 days ago
So should you come out to your parents about your gender/sexuality? I've got very good news for you - it sounds like it's OK for you to come out. Your parent(s) believe in equality and seem supportive. This is so fortunate, and I wish it were the case for all people in your shoes. Good luck.
58 days ago
I think i will tell my perents
60 days ago
Hello people! I am a bi demigirl. My parents know I am bi and are fine with it but they don't know i'm a demigirl and they don't support genders other than cis. Some of my friends know and i'm really scared that the news will get to my parents some how. Anyone have advice?