Do My Mom/Dad/Siblings Abuse Me?

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So, you're worried a family member or members might be abusing you (this could be physically or emotionally). Well, take this quiz to find out if your suspicions are correct. It will tell the truth and ONLY the truth, I promise. I really hope you're not being abused, but if you suspect you are, you probably have some basis for worrying, and action needs to be taken.:(

  • 1
    Do they (or does he or she) tend to begin an argument for no reason?
    Do they (or does he or she) tend to begin an argument for no reason?
  • 2
    Do they (or does he or she) blame you for something you didn't do, knowing you didn't do it, and just did it for amusement?
  • 3
    Do they (or does he or she) ignore you even when they're in a good mood?

  • 4
    Do you ever get scared to say "no" to them, and only them?
  • 5
    Do they (or does he or she) ever forget all about you, or not care about your safety, or know you're in trouble but do nothing about it - even laugh?
  • 6
    Do they (or does he or she) ever threaten to hurt you physically, or even do so for no reason?

  • 7
    Do they (or does he or she) ever humiliate you in public?
  • 8
    Do they (or does he or she) ever control your behavior, or try to? And hurt you if you don't do whatever it is?
  • 9
    Do they (or does he or she) they try to manipulate you to forgive them when they did something REALLY bad to you?
  • 10
    Do they expect you to do EVERY LITTLE THING for them? (In other words, for you to be their servant?)

Comments (167)

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3 days ago
I guess I'm not abused even tho she verbally insults me,forces me to tell her things I'm not comfortable with,forces me to get out of my comfort zone in any situation,leaves at like 9am and comes back to 9am-2am,just tells me to toughen up,threatens to hit/leave me,doesnt say sorry in the situations,says i love you to push aside my anger even tho it doesn't fix a thing,doesnt bother to care about how i feel,shares every little thing about me no matter if its trauma or private,lies,etc. Yep not abuse just tough love is all❤❤❤ and then my sisters dad! Oh he's awful 😍 i rlly can't handle tough love lol not abuse lmao 🤗 wow❤ so many awful things i left out that they all do...Oopsies I guess!
5 days ago
PLEASE DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE!!! I promise you'll be better
8 days ago
Apparently I’m not mentally abused even though I’m severely depressed, want to commit suicide and feel like the only people that care about me are my friends at school...
8 days ago
XxniyaaXxcashhh
I honestly don't know what you could do but maybe try calling the police?
Commiting suicide should never be an option and running away
You must be smart enough to know what to do but it is still a bad option
8 days ago
Iamshe
it's best to AGREE with that answer
I feel so bad for y'all
8 days ago
ANISA (12) CALL THE POLICE
THAT IS A FRICKIN MAJOR PROBLEM
16 days ago
So they always yell at me and whoop me so once i tried to call the police and my bum butt got caught like they thing they own me like a toy and btw she punched me today on my arm this is why I wanna run away from this dumb family :>
16 days ago
My parents think that every thing that I disagree with is that I am always wrong. My mom always tells me that I fit my bras because she thinks I cant "Be better than her" in her opinion. When I have therapy appointments she makes it so that she has to come with me so whatever I say she can get pissed and say "You're a crazy🚔🚔" then she rolls her eyes and says that I am lying. My mom treats my brothers like kings as I'm treated like an ant. I don't know what I can do. I got this result:
So, are you being abused, or is it something less sinister? Three words: Call the police. Trust me, your family is getting close to killing you! I'm seriously telling you, you HAVE to do something. Please - program the police's phone number and numbers of friends who could help you in a crisis into your phone right now. Stay safe and good luck. And btw, you don't deserve this, not for a minute.
18 days ago
I knew my dad was abusive and probably neglectful a while before I took this. So, about last year it started with my dad. He threw me across the room and he gave me rug burn and dislocated my elbow, and then my mom was standing there just looking at me and my sister, which my dad threw, and she didn’t tell him to stop, and he told Zoe to stop crying even though he almost broke her arm too! Then, he said he would take me to the hospital after. I knew he was lying because he was practically saying it so sarcastically. He never took me to the hospital. Then a couple weeks later, he started hitting my brother, and spanking him. He says bad words, but my dad doesn’t have to hit him you know? Then, when my sister says her back hurts or her mouth hurts, he just walks away or he yells at her. My sister is 13 and whines so, I guess she could just talk like a normal 13 year old girl, but still. I also told him that I needed to go to the hospital so bad, because I think I have cancer or arrhythmia. And cancer is super serious, but he just laughed and said “Ha, you think your life is bad?” And then I said yes and he left. He doesn’t care about us and my sister was at the table yesterday drawing and dad immediately started yelling at her and then he slammed a plate on the table and broke it. A piece of the plate also almost cut her arm. I’m pretty sure he just wants us to do his chores so he doesn’t have to. Dad doesn’t love us, and I’ve told him to stop being fake but he never listens he just sits there, on the couch not saying anything.
19 days ago
Olivia try to get that on video and then turn them in
19 days ago
I feel so bad for y'all Not Saying, Anna,Olivia, Favour, and David
25 days ago
Olivia I understand exactly how you are feeling but remember it’s not your fault and you deserve the whole world so pls don’t try to end it u still have a lot to live and i know you have a bright future just keep on trying i get it it’s also really hard for me because my parents don’t understand me and assume what they don’t know i hope you feel better and i feel broken everyday too and they broke me so remember it’s not our fault and if nobody loves you i do❤️
26 days ago
I'm being ignored most of my life. By friends, teachers and family. Plz help. My brother and I really feel like we're suffering from emotional abuse. My parents, they used to be so caring but they changed. Plz help
26 days ago
I can't go back if i run away. They will hurt me and yell at me and I will kill myself. I already gash my arms and legs and the cuts keep getting deeper and deeper. HELP
26 days ago
I have turned them in before but they get mad and fake being nice. I don't know what to do and I'm scared to call the cops
26 days ago
I have tried to kill myself 3 times. I am running away from my house. My mom is verbally and physically abusive. She threatens to slap me and would go through with it. I hate living with my whole family and would rather die. I don't know where to go, and I'm scared.I just want some one to fix me.THEY HAVE TO FIX ME, IM BROKEN AND THEY HAVE TO FIX ME.
27 days ago
My parents are abusing me but I’m afraid to call the cops
29 days ago
So, are you being abused, or is it something less sinister? Three words: Call the police. Trust me, your family is getting close to killing you! I'm seriously telling you, you HAVE to do something. Please - program the police's phone number and numbers of friends who could help you in a crisis into your phone right now. Stay safe and good luck. And btw, you don't deserve this, not for a minute.
My parents do this to me and my brothers since I was six they were 4 and 2. It’s still hard t call the cops on them though!!!
37 days ago
Liv very sorry about that but try calling the police on your mom
38 days ago
Im Olivia pt2. whenevr i would try to stand up for myself she would make me appllogise and make me feel guilty. I am not suicidal but i hate this life. But i love my dad... he is the greatest. He is the reason i havent run away yet.