Are you gay? - a gay man's perspective

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When I was coming out to myself, I spent a lot of sleepless nights looking for a quiz that would take my question seriously: was I gay? Now, looking back on it I wanted to compile a list of a few key signs that I can recognize in myself to help others who are looking for a quiz beyond basic stereotypes. If you are gay yourself and have any similar anecdotes to add, let me know and I may update the quiz.

  • 1
    Why are you taking this test?
  • 2
    Have you ever looked at another male and felt aroused at the idea of having their body?
  • 3
    When you find out that somebody is gay, in real life, a book, or other modes of entertainment, how do you feel?
  • 4
    When friends and family ask you what your ideal girlfriend would look like, how do you respond?
  • 5
    When you watch straight porn, how do you feel?
  • 6
    Have you ever unexpectedly felt the need to be close to one of your male friends?
  • 7
    Is there anybody else in your friend group who is LGBT or you/others suspect is LGBT?
  • 8
    Do you live in an area where being LGBT is common?
  • 9
    Have you ever found yourself staring at another male for longer than usual?
  • 10
    What are you hoping to see at the end of this quiz?

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Comments (20)


14 days ago
17 days ago
Dang bro ur right, I’m frickin gay
19 days ago
I'm gay yay hooray has to be 19 chars
23 days ago
Alright so, I’m currently out as a Non-binary lesbian. I was born female. I’m questioning if I’m a trans gay guy. I feel more comfortable with male honorifics. I don’t have any male friends, but I tried to answer this as best as I could. I know I’m not male, but I don’t care. I got that I’m gay, and I feel like that’s honestly me, but I’ve never kissed a guy OR a girl, so I have no idea.
29 days ago
Thank you.
44 days ago
I got gay... which is what i am. i just wish i could come out to my family but there all homophobic so yay for me.
53 days ago
Hooray, I got what I wanted! Gay! :D
151 days ago
I'm gay apparently 😂 I thought I was pan but ok
171 days ago
Im GAY yay
172 days ago
192 days ago
Ok that’s nice enough
206 days ago
I agree. I’m bisexual and just not found the right man.
218 days ago
“It’s hard to say yourself since you don’t know what you are”
I thought that was the point
250 days ago
i think this test was great and I learned a lot about myself.
262 days ago
lol I'm too scared to tell anyone I'm gay
343 days ago
Yes...i am confuse....
i love men and girl too..
Only find just loving partner....
430 days ago
100% 🍭 💕 it ,
It feels so right.
468 days ago
Ce test est exellent , du vécu
506 days ago
its a nice test, and its right as i do want to come out to myself
650 days ago
I too get annoyed by quizzes that are not serious and use stereotypical questions/answers. It doesn't occur to some people that there are men and women out there who are genuinely confused and would like some idea of who they are. While quizzes and tests are probably not the best way of finding out as I doubt they can ever be 100% accurate, if they think it helps them even a litte, then they deserve a test/quiz that is at least serious and tries to be accurate as possible.

Your quiz is not bad at all but there is not that many questions and there is a few answers that are missing from some questions such as the straight 💗one, some people may not actually watch 💗at all, nevermind the straight/gay ones. lol

If you could add more questions and more anwsers. (as long as they serious of course) that would be great.