Are you butch, femme, or neither?

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So you've figured out you're a lesbian? Congratulations! Now just one question remains: am I butch, femme, or am I just a lesbian? This quiz may hopefully help you on your journey to self-discovery.
Disclaimer: only you alone can determine whether you're butch, femme, or neither. This quiz is just a guide to help you along. Lesbians only, please, as butch and femme are exclusive to lesbians.

  • 1
    Growing up, were you a tomboy or a girly girl?
  • 2
    Which would you prefer to wear at your wedding?
  • 3
    Which role do you prefer to take when in a relationship?
  • 4
    What do you prefer to wear in your normal, day-to-day life?
  • 5
    Who do you prefer to have as a partner?
  • 6
    Do you prefer to take care of your partner or be taken care of by your partner?
  • 7
    Do you reject traditional femininity or do you subvert it? (In other words, do you perform femininity for other women and not men, or do you not perform it at all?)
  • 8
    Which lesbian figure do you most identify with, or like the most?
  • 9
    Do you enjoy traditionally masculine activities or lines of work (mechanics, construction, etc.)?
  • 10
    Finally, what do you most feel like you are?

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Comments (5)


108 days ago
I'm neither...just like I expected :) I have long hair and I like to paint my nails but I rarely wear dresses and skirts. I really do look like I'm totally in between...I like it :D
167 days ago
No way am I femme! I’m so butch but I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’m not out hell I’m only 13 but I’m not femme!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈😁
193 days ago
I see what you mean, it said the same for me 😒
193 days ago
Did you rate the quiz Autumn?
194 days ago
This test is not accurate I know for sure I’m a butch lesbian I’m always the dominate in relationship and love to take care of my baby girl and I she is the femme she always wearing makeup and dresses while I’m wearing jeans and a tee shirt or graphic tee with some chapstick and mascara this test needs to be edit or something don’t take it cause it inaccurate I’ve identified as a butch lesbian for 4 years