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Do you need advice in something but you’re just too afraid to talk to someone, or just don’t want to... well here I can help with that.

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    Hello. Today’s thing is going to be a little bit different. If you need advice on something, please put it down in the comments below, so I can do a separate quiz on it. This way I know what to do the quizzes on because you guys told me. Thanks, and have a great rest of your day!:)

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6 days ago
Cool! (I have absolutely no idea what else to say)
6 days ago
Hey AddyNick, I’m homeschooled too!
7 days ago
Hi Dr. SQUID,
I am demi-pan (demi sexual pan romantic). I have 2 crushes, a girl and a guy. I am really scared to tell them. The girl already said she likes me and I just said, I maybe like you idk. She likes me sooooo much apparently. but the guy crush keeps staring at me in class ALL THE TIME but apart from that it seems like we're just friends. Uhhhhhhh help please! Should I tell them? Who should I tell?! I wish I can date them both at once :(
7 days ago
I'm magic :3
7 days ago
:D
7 days ago
Ravenclaw girl and AddyNick just do spaces after it like this:
10 days ago
It's just been a while since I've seen her. It's been over a year
10 days ago
Cupcake,

I’m so proud that you’re going to come out. That’s very brave! We all wish you luck! 😀

Sincerely,
Dr. SQUID
11 days ago
Hi again Dr. SQUID,

I'm still unsure of my sexuality, but I really do think I'm pan or bi. But I have too crushes now, one of them is a boy and the other is a girl. I don't know when I'll come out to my friends, but when I do, I'll probably play the song Girls/Girls/Boys by P!ATD, because part of that song says 'girls love girls and boys, and love is not a choice'.
I'll tell you if or when I decide to come out, but idk if I actually will ever come out
11 days ago
Addynick,

Oh cool! I’m kind of homeschooled too. Also it’s really cool that you’re into acting. Maybe it will be your carrier! 😀

Also friends grow apart sometimes and sometimes not. But I don’t think that’s the case here, maybe your friend may want to spend time with both you and her other friend. It doesn’t mean she likes the other friend better. No need to worry! 😀
12 days ago
It made perfect sense, thx. So I'm homeschooled and go to this school thing once every other week, and last year was my first year. Most of the people already knew each other, so I pretty much just sat with my younger siblings and Mom every time. I'm hoping to sit with someone else this year, cuz last year was boring. I also do a drama/acting (why did I put /, those are the same thing) and the last musical nine of my friends came back, so I had no idea where to sit at break. My mom said one of my friends was coming back next/this year, but I'm kind of worried that she'll want to spend all her time with another girl she became friends with last year.
Some of the things feel kind of awkward because I know--well, I don't REALLY know them, like we're not close or anything, but I sometimes talk to them, so asking if I could sit at their table just seems kind of awkward for me. (Especially at the school thing)
Sorry this is so long!
12 days ago
AddyNick,

Well good luck at school! You got this! Also no problem. 😀

And Karma is when.... okay so say someone does something bad or messed up to someone else.... then something bad happens to them in return. That’s karma. Another form of karma is when someone does something good, something good happens to them. So basically, karma is when someone treats someone or something a certain way, it comes back to them. Sorry if I’m making this confusing. I’m not very good at explaining things lol

Sincerely,
Dr. SQUID
13 days ago
I'm starting school soon, on Monday. Thx for the advice. What does karma mean?
13 days ago
Anyways, Cupcake, Ravenclaw Girl, AddyNick, please scroll down to find responses to your questions I hope they help you guys and I hope the short story also helps you all who are dealing with bullies. There is a even deeper message hidden within that story too. I wish you all the best!

Also Have a great day, everyone! Also are you guys starting school soon? I am oof. Also yay. Anyways, good luck everyone! You guys rock!

Sincerely, Dr. SQUID

(P.S the heart emoji thing auto corrects the word 💗 to the heart emoji. Not sure why. But the heart emoji was originally meant to say “dummy” lol darn autocorrect”
13 days ago
Oof the heart emoji was meant to say “💗”. Oof darn Typo.
13 days ago
Kailieasiew

This is a short story I wrote based off a dream I had about a shark the other day. I recreated it to try to pass of as a myth/cautionary tale. Feel free to tell this story to any bully or group of bullies. It may help. I hope it does. Now remember this is all made up. None of this really happened and “Kailieasiew” is not real. (hehehehe o rllyyyyyyyyy) I believe that everyone has the right to their own opinions and that everyone should be themselves. These characters are not based off of my opinions or anyone I know’s opinions. They were created to pass on a message. Please be advised that this short story contains some violent details and complex situations, and deeper meanings. This may be unsettling to some readers. It is suggested that you do not read it if you are sensitive to those themes. Enjoy! 😃

The sea was calm, the wind hummed, the sun beamed down on the itty bitty ship sailing in the big blue sea. In the ship was Grandmother, Grandfather, Tina, Abbigail, Hope, Harold, and Dan.

Suddenly, Grandmother noticed a sharp fin slicing through the choppy waves. Chills sent down Grandmothers neck to her fingertips... in which she bit to try and calm herself. Grandmother despised the ocean and only went with Grandfather because he can be an 💗. She didn’t want anything bad to happen to him. So she’s there for like.... to make sure he doesn’t do anything overly stupid. The fin stopped inches before the boat. Tina, a entitled girl who picked on others for merely the fun of it. A girl who kept her life inside instagram... she stepped toward the edge of the boat. Her eyes soon met with the shark’s. The shark’s eyes were pitch black... soulless.... and empty. Unlike hers, which were emerald green, and full of amusement. She laughed at the shark, trapped in the sea. Not able to live as a human. Not able to see the things humans do. Tina wanted to snap a picture of the beast for her instagram. So she leaned forward, then the shark leaped up and grabbed her around her thin, overly starved waist. It still wasn’t small enough for her because Tina believed that she had to be pretty to be anything. She believed she was far more beautiful then any other woman. She believed that chubby people were not worthy of living and a waste of air. She believed that only she was worthy to walk this Earth. She believed that whomever did not fit her expectations.... should not be on this Earth. The shark sunk it’s teeth deep inside her torso... into her ribs. You could almost hear the sick and unsettling snapping and cracking bones. Tina’s screams echoed through the air. The shark thrusted it’s head from side to side. It used its powerful jaw to brutally fold Tina in half and fit her down its throat to be dissolved over the course of time. Abbigail, a selfish, narcissistic, girl who only thought of herself all the time and constantly bragged whenever she could. She was fake.... but she tried to help her friend. Abbigail hurried over to the edge of the boat. Cowering more and more after each step she took. The shark then pulled her in too. Ripping off her crusty weave to reveal her long silky blonde hair underneath in which she hid for who knows why. Then the shark dug it’s teeth deeper into her soft scalp, tearing through the flesh until her whole body was only a pool of flesh afloat the ocean’s surface. The smell reeked. Then Hope rushed to the scene. A woman who was against those who were attracted to the same gender or both. This scared her so she choose to shame them. Hope then was taken as well. Then Harold.... who was live-streaming the whole thing for views or whatever. He got closer for a better shot and soon disappeared beneath the waves. Then Dan, a man who wanted power and only power. He wanted everyone to go by his rules. He was horrible to people quite often. Then suddenly, he too was taken. Grandfather was merely a kind man who had wanted to save those who remained alive. So he grabbed his knife and leaped onto the shark. Grandmother tried to stop him but failed. Grandfather lost his balance and soon met the same fate as the others. Because sometimes the most kind and innocent people with well intentions do not always get fairness. Grandmother watched as the shark emerged, victorious. Shark then faded into nothingness. For it was not a shark at all. It was merely something else. It’s job, karma. It’s name, Kailieasiew.

Kailieasiew took form of a human and sat in the lunchroom.
“Lille is so lame. A total loser.” Becky laughed.
“Right?” Jackie agreed.
Kailieasiew shook its head then spoke, “I want to tell you all a story. About my grandparents and their experience at sea. I think you all need to hear it.”
13 days ago
Ravenclaw Girl,

I’m so glad to hear that you guys are into each other!!!! 😃

Now if you know you like L and he likes you too, but P likes you.... then you might have to lightly let down P. Even if P is a bit weird that’s okay because everyone is weird in their own way and it’s not really fair of us judge them off of that. As long as they’re a good person deep down. Now, it is soooo annoying when you’re with your crush then someone comes along and interrupts! But oof. Maybe try and set up some one on one time with your crush. He obviously likes you back. But sometimes it’s best not to rush into things. Two of my friends really liked each other and were friends already but then they rushed into a relationship. It ended like a month later. Sometimes waiting can be good. Painful and agonizing... but good too sometimes. Now I’m not saying this is always the case.... just saying. Now if another dude likes you then oh no this has turned into a love pyramid. Oof. Not sure if that’s the right term but whatever. Anyways, let them know you don’t like them they way they like you sooner then later. You guys got this! Best wishes! 😃

Sincerely,
Dr. SQUID
13 days ago
Cupcake,

Hello! Sorry I’ve taken so long to respond. I’ve not been on here in a while. Anyways....

Ravenclaw Girl raised some great points! There is a line between thinking someone is good looking and attractive or being attracted to them. Deep down, you may not know it yet but if you search deep down then you’ll know if you’re bisexual, pan, lesbian, or straight. You shouldn’t feel like you have to hold this inside. Whenever you’re ready, and if you want to... come out to your friends. Friends are people who can tell each other anything if they want to. Also if they are against gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and pansexuals, then they may not be happy to hear your news. But if you think they’ll treat you badly because of it then they are not good friends. It doesn’t matter who someone is attracted to. Everyone has the right to like who they like and love who they love and live the way they want to. Everyone can have their own opinions but they can’t force others to think what they do. Everyone has the right to their OWN opinion. You’ll know when you and if you want to tell them you’ll know when you do based off their reaction if they really care about you. You’ll know if they are good friends. True friends, and if they’re worth keeping as friends.

Coming out is a very brave thing to do. Especially if you’re constantly bullied or picked on. If you want to show the bullies that you’re not going to let them effect you, then do what you want to do. If you want to come out then go ahead. Don’t let them stop you. Who knows why the bullies are the way they are. Maybe they are acting off of a fear or something and choose to make others feel fear. Now I’m not making excuses for them because they still have no right to pick on others. I’m merely putting that out there though. Try standing up to the bullies. Let them think they’ve won. If they think that they might back off. If not, then show them who’s boss. I’m not encouraging a physical fight or anything, just let them know that they can’t push you around. Or I have a short little story I wrote that may help. I’ll type that in in a little while. Anyways, you can do anything! Don’t let the jerky bullies win. You have more people with you then against you. Take a stand, and show them that you are who you are and you’re still a great person. You got this! 😃

Sincerely,
Dr. SQUID
13 days ago
Someone/AddyNick,

Hello! Sorry I’ve taken so long to respond. I’ve not been on here in a while. Anyways....

Everyone feels lonely at some point and it’s a totally okay feeling to have. However sadly, sometimes people feel lonely all the time. You see, I am very shy myself. However I learned some tricks to overcome it for the most part, gain confidence, and not let shyness hold me back from things. I hope these help you too:
1. Maybe if you haven’t already, try asking yourself why you feel this way then once you’ve decided why try to come up with why you’re letting it hold you back
2. If there’s someone you want to be friends with then go ask if they want to be friends. The worst they could say is “no”. If they say that then they are a butt head and you’re better off without them
3. Be yourself! Don’t let shyness hold you back. It’s totally okay to be shy as long as you don’t let it effect your wellbeing or hold you back from things.

If you still find yourself feeling lonely or shy, try asking yourself these things:

“What is holding me back?”
“Why is ________ holding me back?”
“What can I do?”
“Maybe I can try finding others who feel the same way I do... then we won’t feel like that anymore and we can be in this together!”

Remember, it’s always possible to find happiness within yourself. Also there is billions of people on Earth and lots of those people also feel lonely. So no need to worry because you’re not alone. People make friends in all sorts of ways. School, Work, Store, Pool, Other Places too. You can do anything if you believe in yourself! Oof yes this sounds cheesy. But who cares because it is time to RELEASE THE CHEESEEEE! Oof. Anyways, we’re all here for you and we know that you’ll be able to overcome this and be who you want to be. We know you’ll be able to take what’s yours and stand your ground. We know that you are strong and capable of many great things! You got this! So get ready world because Someone/AddyNick, is awesome and ready for anything! You can do anything! We believe in you. Never worry about letting anyone down. Only push yourself a little bit over your comfort zone. Remember to stay grounded when it comes to that. You got this!!!!! 😃

Sincerely,
Dr. SQUID
27 days ago
@Cupcake:
I’m not Dr. SQUID but is it ok if I give advice? I hope so
Cupcake, to be honest, I think that if you see a girl and saying “Oh, yeah, she’s pretty” doesn’t make you bi. Recognizing beauty is normal. But taking it one step further - instead of simply acknowledging that she’s attractive, you start to think about her a lot and develop a crush - then you’re probably bi or pan.
Idk, do you want to be bi or pan?
And i don’t think anyone will care whether or not you’re straight if you don’t talk about it? Idk sorry for the advice if it’s bad. Anyway maybe you should have a private talk with your friends and say, “I need to talk to you about something” and make sure no one else is there except for your friends. Then explain what’s going on and say something like, “I just really want people to be accepting and kind to me,” because they should, no matter how different you are. And if they continue to be mean about it, well, maybe they’re not true friends.
About the bullies - if they are bullying you now and if they’ll bully you further if you come out - you should report it to an authority! This is not ok.
You can get through this! ❤️
(Sorry if any of this advice doesn’t work...)