Is my BFF sick of me?

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Today we are going to see if your BFF is just sick of you but don’t worry, if they are find someone new.

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    When you get to school what is the first thing she/he says



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autorenew

127 days ago
@Fellow Earthling,
If I were you, I would confront her (if you haven't already). I have been in relationships like this, and I learned that if your friend isn't willing to talk about it or won't listen to what you have to say, it is best to cut them off- even if they mean a lot to you. Confronting her will help you find out what the next step for you to take is, if nothing else. I would just call her if you can't see her person-to-person (which of course would be ideal) and say respectfully, "Hey, I don't feel comfortable with your new friend group. They make me feel unwanted and awkward. Also, I was really hoping we could hang out more. I really miss being with you and I was wondering if we could sort this out together face-to-face." Or at least, something like that. Again, I have been in this scenario countless times and if your friend keeps getting more and more distant, it's a sign that they're moving on and adapting. I would recommend talking to her about this, but if the talk doesn't go so well or if she doesn't listen to you, it's not worth a second talk. More talks can create more arguments which could ruin your relationship completely. Just confront her once, and if she is respectful of your opinions and listens to you, I would continue to be friends with her. I would also recommend you do 1 on 1s- without her new friends. That way you two can bond and you don't have to be surrounded by toxic people. :)
188 days ago
I'm worried because I feel like I'm losing my BFF (let's call her Caitlin). so basically me and Caitlin went to different schools that started in September and she went with no friends and I went with a few friends so obviously she made new friends. I have met some of her friends from that school and they seem really sassy and when Caitlin is not with us her friends refuse to talk to me and whisper things and look at me wierdly. but when Caitlin comes back her friends start taking to me like we are BFFS and I'm scared at what Caitlin will say if I tell her that I don't like her friends. Also Caitlin's phone wallpaper and WhatsApp profile picture is a collage of all of her friends from that school. Basically I'm scared of losing her because she has been my best friend since like September 2016. Caitlin also goes to loads of hangouts with her new friends so many that she doesn't have time to hang out with me anymore. It is nearly May 2020 and I haven't seen her since January 2020. I don't want to lose her because she's my BFF and I'm having a rough time at high school (barely anyone likes me, cliques, etc) So what should I do to tell her that I think she's hanging out with the wrong crowd and that she has no time to hang out with me anymore?